How untreated strep throat sent Ron into a coma the first time — in 2015What vasopressors are, why they saved his life, and why they cost What do you do when the love of your life is fighting for his life — and four kids are at home counting on you to hold everything together?
Victoria Rosas is a former Dallas attorney, mom of four in a beautifully blended family, and one of the most quietly extraordinary women we've ever sat across from at the Moms Club.In 2022, her husband Ron — a former professional tennis player who competed for Notre Dame, played the pro tour, and coached their kids on the court — woke up feeling off. Within 24 hours, he was intubated. Within days, the medication saving his life was slowly taking something else: blood flow to all four of his limbs.Victoria was told multiple times he wasn't going to survive.He did. But what came next — nine surgeries, 70 hours in the operating room, nine weeks in Ohio, and coming home to a kindergartner and three kids on the verge of launching — is a story about what strength actually looks like when it has no other choice.
💬 IN THIS EPISODE:him his limbsThe conversation Victoria had to have with Ron 5 times because he kept forgettingHow she researched the best surgeons in the country from an ICU waiting roomWhy Ron's first goal from his hospital bed was saving his elbow — so he could play tennis againTheir kindergartner's words that gave Ron the will to fight: "I don't care if you're in a wheelchair. I just want you to come home."Managing a freshman in college, two high schoolers, and a kindergartner — while spending most of her time at the hospitalThe embroidery business she quietly launched from her garage as a lifelineWhat therapy, gratitude journaling & radical communication have done for their marriageRon's dream: competing at the US Open quad division 🎾
🎁 Don't miss the end — Victoria and Ron receive a very special surprise live on air!
👩⚖️ About Victoria Rosas: Former Dallas attorney, mom of four, caregiver, and co-founder of B The Collection — a customizable embroidery and branding business built around the motto "just be yourself." Find her at @bthecollection.🎙️ About Inside the Moms Club: Hosted by Monica Samuels and co-host Julie Orcutt, Inside the Moms Club is the podcast for every mom who needs to laugh so she doesn't cry. New episodes weekly.🌐
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CHAPTER TIMESTAMPS
00:00 Cold Open — Victoria's Words Before the Intro
00:29 Welcome to Inside the Moms Club — Tax Day Fun Facts0
1:32 Julie's Grand Canyon Wake-Up Call & Why She's Now Lifting Weights
02:52 Monica Signs Up for Weight Training (With a Hilarious Mix-Up)
05:21 Introducing Victoria Rosas — Resilience, Motherhood & the Unexpected
06:42 Victoria Joins In: She Can't Walk After Leg Day Either
08:32 How Victoria & Ron Met — Christmas Party, Love at First Sight
09:32 Ron's Tennis Career: Notre Dame, the Pro Tour & Coaching Their Kids
11:02 The First Bout of Sepsis (2015): Strep Throat That Led to a Coma
12:05 He Recovered Fully — Then 2022 Happened
12:29 Second Sepsis: From the Flu to Intubated in 24 Hours
12:53 Monica's Own Staph Infection Story — Know the Signs, Moms
13:58 What Caused the Amputations: Vasopressors Explained Simply
14:55 Watching the "Line of Demarcation" Move Up All Four Limbs
15:26 What the Doctors Said When He Was First Intubated
16:19 "I Was Told Multiple Times He Wasn't Going to Make It"
17:05 Day 14–15: The Brain Function Test That Shocked Everyone
17:52 Waking From a Coma — The Conversation Victoria Dreaded Most
19:11 "I Had to Tell Him 4 More Times. He Kept Forgetting."
19:31 Researching Surgeons From the ICU Waiting Room
20:24 Why They Chose Ohio State's Wexner Medical Center
20:49 9 Surgeries. 70 Hours in the OR. All Joints Saved.
22:20 Ron's #1 Hospital Priority: Save the Elbow to Play Tennis Again
23:17 What Ron's Attitude Was Through All of It
23:24 "I Don't Care If You're in a Wheelchair — I Just Want You Home"
24:01 Monica & Julie's Experience at Gold Meets Golden with Angel City Sports
24:49 The Most Incredible Thing Victoria Has Seen Ron Do Since
25:52 What Makes an Athlete — Built to Come Back
26:10 Now Let's Talk About VICTORIA: How Did She Handle It?
26:25 Lawyer Mode Kicks In — No Time to Fall Apart
26:50 Three Senior Years + a Kindergartner + 9 Weeks in Ohio
27:55 "Having All of It Going On Is Probably What Got Me Through"
28:28 The Embroidery Business Born in Her Garage — B The Collection
29:22 Why Having Her Own Space Became Essential
30:07 Zoomer Mom Q&A Begins — Welcome to the Moms Club!
30:37 Karen's Question: Specific Strategies to Stay Grounded Every Day
31:16 Therapy, Gratitude Journaling & Radical Communication With Ron
32:12 Emily's Question: How Did Your Four Kids Each Respond?
33:00 The Kindergartner: "Come Meet My Dad. He Doesn't Have Arms and Legs."
33:53 The College Freshman: Hardest One — She Wasn't There to See It
34:53 The Older Kids: Zero Passes. "Dad, Get Up. Let's Go."
35:21 Aaron's Question: How Has This Changed Motherhood & Your Marriage?
36:05 "The Small Stuff Just Doesn't Matter Anymore"
36:31 Letting Go of Capacity Expectations — For Yourself AND Everyone Else
37:13 Stephanie's Question: What Recharges YOU Besides Embroidery?
37:35 Friends, Happy Hours & a Workout That's Just Hers
38:01 "You Literally Have a Moms Club" — Monica Calls It
38:35 A Special Surprise for Victoria and Ron 🎁
39:07 Dallas Earth Day Event: Ed Begley Jr., Kelly Raspberry & More
39:57 Victoria & Ron Receive Two VIP Tickets — Live Reaction
40:35 How to Become a Zoomer Mom
41:11 506,000 Subscribers — Hit That Subscribe Button!
41:47 The Motto: "If You Don't Laugh, You're Going to Cry" — Keep Laughing
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