In this episode of Unlocking the Parenting Code: All About Boys, Kathy sits down with father, coach, and Navy veteran David Kiwimagi to explore what it really takes to raise boys (and girls!) with strong inner compasses in today’s world. David shares his journey—from church ministry in Japan, to Navy operations and cybersecurity leadership, to co-founding a coaching business with his wife.

He opens up about how a pivotal parenting course transformed his understanding of what it means to raise children with integrity and purpose, igniting his passion for helping them build their own “moral warehouse.”

David dives into real-world strategies for communicating “in a way that matters” with his three children—tailoring his approach to his son’s intellectual curiosity, his daughter’s emotional depth, and the unique needs of his youngest.

Throughout the conversation, David reflects on how fatherhood reshaped his views on legacy, emotional connection, and the kind of communication that empowers children to think for themselves and choose what’s right—even when no one is watching.

Guest Bio

David Kiwimagi is a husband, father of three, and Co-Founder of Kiwi Coaching. With 15 years of leadership experience across Japan church ministry, Navy operations, and cybersecurity, he has coached hundreds to lead with clarity, confidence, and purpose. Whether in military or corporate settings, David is passionate about helping leaders break through what's holding them back and step fully into who they were born to be and helping his sons do the same.

Key Topics 

*From Ministry to Cybersecurity to Coaching

How chance encounters, financial need, and a deep love for service guided David’s winding career path.

*The “Moral Warehouse”

Why teaching kids why rules exist builds internal motivation to “do the right thing” when no one’s watching.

*Communication That Matters

Tailoring conversations to each child’s age, personality, and passion—whether it’s sea-turtle entrepreneurship with his son or heart-to-heart hugs with his daughter.

*Leadership Lessons in Parenting

Creating emotional safety to encourage growth, resilience, and innovation. Balancing protection with empowerment—"I’ll be the net to catch you" philosophy

*Humility & Confidence

Walking the line between celebrating wins and asking kids, “What do you really want?” to redefine success.

Resources Mentioned

• The Happiest Baby on the Block – Dr. Harvey Karp
• The Miracle Morning – Hal Elrod
• Crucial Conversations – Kerry Patterson

Links

Website: davidandalexiskiwi.org

https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61554014347323, 

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCwsBgNU7e1wu7rQdrDQrh8A

YouTube | Instagram | Facebook: @davidandalexiskiwi

Unlocking the Parenting Code: All About Boys

Welcome to Unlocking the Parenting Code: All About Boys

This season, we’re diving deep into the world of boys—exploring what it takes to raise them to become remarkable young men. Hosted by Kathy Imabayashi, an experienced educator and passionate advocate for boys’ emotional well-being, this podcast offers real-life stories, expert insights, and practical strategies for parents, educators, and caregivers navigating the unique challenges of raising boys.

What to Expect

In Season 2, we’re focusing on boys' emotional worlds—understanding their behavior, building stronger connections, and helping them grow into confident, resilient individuals. Through heartfelt conversations and shared experiences, we’ll uncover the struggles, joys, and breakthroughs of parenting boys.

Each episode offers:

*Stories from parents, teachers, and caregivers that shed light on the complexities of raising boys.

*Strategies to support boys in managing emotions, forming healthy relationships, and building self-esteem.

*Insights that will empower you in understanding how to nurture the boy in your life and set him up for success.

Join Us!

Whether you're raising a toddler, a teen, or anywhere in between, this season is all about celebrating and supporting boys—and the parents who guide them. Tune in for heart-centered conversations, expert advice, and practical tools to unlock the parenting code for boys.Share your parenting story with us here. Visit SonhoodCoaching.com to learn more and subscribe!

About Sonhood Coaching

Sonhood Coaching focuses on the emotional well-being of boys, helping parents nurture their sons to become remarkable men. Through courses, coaching, and resources, we empower families to better understand and support the inner emotional world of boys. Explore SonhoodCoaching.com to learn more about our programs and services.

Looking to transform your relationship with your son? Visit SonhoodCoaching.com for valuable resources and expert support.

Watch this episode here: https://youtu.be/3r1P34cG-bc?si=n-LkwAiamU6__UGk