Tough Love! Although usually we must always treat and deal with people with love and compassion, at times we must give tough love. However, there are two conditions, it must come from Ahron HaCohen, meaning the person must know and feel that you absolutely love them and second it must be done like a stick that it doesn’t come out of anger or ego.

לקו״ש כו-ב

Every Jew must have 2 attitudes in Golus, First to never forget his fathers house his upbringing were he comes from, Second to grow dispute the reality, to make from a dark difficult situation one of light positivity and happiness, because ultimately that’s the reason our Neshama comes down to this world.

לקו״ש טו-ב

Although most Mitzvahs have tremendous power and light, it can only transform only certain objects, that’s why most Mitzvahs are done with the right hand and indoors representing things that’s are at least neutral and can be elevated, however the Chanukah Menorah we light on the left side and facing the outdoors because it has the power to light up even the darkest elements.

לקו״ש ה

Although Yaakov Justly deserved to be saved from his brother Essav, he came to Hashem with humility and asked to be saved (charity), we too children of Yaakov inherent these two trades Justest and Charity, being that we are princes and every act we do is tremendous and justly deserving of his blessing, however we ask it in way of Charity with humility.

לקו״ש טו-ב

The story of Yaakov leaving his parents house a place of holiness and Torah to Lavan the swindler a place of darkness, is the story of soul coming from up high a place of holiness down to this dark world to express its tremendous bond to Hashem that regardless how dark the world is he stays strongly connected and in addition elevates and refines this world making it a place for Hashem.

חלק טו

There is 2 ways to serve Hashem Love or Fear, in truth both are Love, conventual love is about my feeling it’s about feeling myself, however fear (nullifying yourself) is exposing yourself before hashem and allowing Hashem in beyond yourself much deeper level of love and connection,Yitzchok served Hashem with fear yet had the closest connection and love to Hashem.

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