Integrity at Scale™

In this episode of the Culture Focused Practice Podcast, Dr. Tara Vossenkemper breaks down what happens when hiring gets hard and you start questioning your standards. You know that moment — you're tired, you're desperate, and suddenly "Can they do the job?" starts to feel like an acceptable question... even though it's the wrong one.

Tara dives into three major areas in this one:

• The real (and painful) costs of lowering your hiring bar — think culture dilution, burnout, and endless training fatigue
• How to keep your standards high without getting stuck in analysis paralysis
• And how to survive the dreaded “hiring desert” — those times when nobody seems like a fit and you're wondering if the right person even exists

She shares practical strategies like using structured rubrics, revisiting your onboarding processes, and building out a talent pool to stay proactive (even when the inbox is dry). This one is for the folks in the hiring trenches — the tired, the cautious, the quietly desperate.

Timestamps
00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview
01:34 The Cost of Lowering the Hiring Bar
06:24 How to Maintain High Standards in Hiring
11:00 Strategies for Navigating Hiring Deserts
19:09 Final Thoughts and Membership Invitation

Looking for hands-on support, clarity, and real-world strategy that doesn’t just live in theory? Come join us inside Inside the Living Practice, where we’re building leadership tools that actually work for group practice owners and values-led teams.

In this Owner’s Room episode of the Culture Focused Practice Podcast, Dr. Tara Vossenkemper gets into that maddening, murky territory where your team technically isn’t doing anything wrong… but something still feels off. When behavior doesn’t match your values, it’s not always easy to know what the hell is actually going on—or what to do about it.

Tara walks through five raw, unscripted questions around clarity, grace, feedback, and emotional tension. This one’s not a strategy playbook—it’s an inside look at what real-time leadership reflection sounds like. If you’ve ever found yourself wondering, “Is it me? Is it them? Is something broken or just misaligned?” this episode is for you.

She also riffs on a transparency scenario that hits a little too close to home for a lot of group practice owners.

Timestamps:
00:00 Introduction to the Culture Focused Practice Podcast
00:36 Understanding Team Behavior and Values
01:24 Balancing Clarity and Grace
05:45 Defining Desired Team Behavior
07:27 Exploring the Root Causes of Behavior Mismatches
09:52 Addressing Communication, Training, and Values Issues
13:16 Confronting Fears of Being Controlling
17:31 Scenario: When Transparency Fades
23:11 Conclusion and Call to Action

If this episode hit home, you’ll want to check out the Inside the Living Practice Membership. It’s where we dig even deeper into stuff like this—real leadership, team dynamics, and culture that doesn’t make you want to scream into a void.

In this episode of the Culture Focused Practice podcast, Dr. Tara Vossenkemper calls bullshit on the idea that culture is just a vibe. Sure, it feels like something when you walk into a room, but that feeling? It comes from a system—of values, behaviors, and leadership choices—firing in the background. Tara breaks down how to stop winging it and start building culture with intention.

She unpacks the biggest myths, where leaders screw it up (hi, perks and bean bags), why hard conversations actually increase morale, and how to turn culture into something measurable and operational. 

She closes out with a step-by-step on fixing cultural drift (yep, it’s real), and the mic drop reminder that culture isn’t accidental—it’s a leadership choice.

00:00 Introduction to Culture Focused Practice
00:08 Debunking the Myth: Culture is Not Just a Vibe
01:14 Agenda Overview: Key Topics on Culture
01:34 Culture as a System: A Strategic Approach
04:39 Common Mistakes in Culture Building
13:20 How to Systematize Culture in Your Practice
20:15 Addressing and Fixing Cultural Drift
28:02 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

If you’re ready to stop reacting and start leading with intention, join the membership: www.taravossenkemper.com/the-membership

In this Owner’s Room special of the Culture Focused Practice podcast, Dr. Tara Vossenkemper sits down with Nicole Brewer, founder of Rethink Therapy and Rethink Your Practice. This one’s a no-polish, no-bullshit convo about what leadership really looks like when you’re deep in it — when the systems are built but the people stuff is still messy, emotional, and real.

Nicole drops gold on everything from letting people coast out of fear, to the gut-punch moments of replacing someone on your so-called “dream team.” Together, they explore the tension between clarity and kindness, building out decision-making frameworks, confronting leadership missteps, and navigating emotionally raw but necessary conversations — all through the lens of running a healthy group practice.

Whether you’re still clinging to your first admin hire or reworking your leadership team for the fifth time, this episode gives you the real talk you need.

Timestamps
00:00 Introduction to the Culture Focused Practice Podcast
00:52 Meet Nicole Brewer: Founder of Rethink Therapy
02:16 Diving into the Owner's Room
03:08 Question 1: Handling Misalignment and Fear of Losing Staff
05:23 The Evolution of Leadership and Practice Ownership
07:20 The Importance of Authentic Conversations
12:15 Using Data and Metrics for Performance Evaluation
20:39 Question 2: Balancing Niceness and Leadership
32:43 Question 3: Fear of Fallout in Leadership Decisions
39:01 Addressing Employee Needs and Leadership Support
40:06 Making Tough Decisions in Leadership
41:14 Understanding and Communicating Capacity
48:26 Frameworks for Decision Making
51:15 Implementing EOS and Team Communication
55:11 Handling Difficult Conversations with Employees
01:10:05 Conclusion and Podcast Wrap-Up

🎙️ If this episode hit home (or gut-punched you a little), come join us inside the membership: www.taravossenkemper.com/the-membership — your space for real conversations, sustainable leadership, and culture that actually works.

Find Nicole here!

Consulting (Rethink Your Practice): www.rethinkyourpractice.com

Her Group Practice (Rethink Therapy): www.rethinktherapynv.com

In this episode of the Culture Focused Practice podcast, I’m coming in swinging at one of the most common traps leaders fall into: obsessing over scripts instead of showing up with actual presence.

If you’ve ever stalled a hard conversation trying to get the words just right, this one’s for you. We unpack why scripting becomes a crutch, what actually makes your hard convos land (hint: it’s not phrasing), and how to show up clear, grounded, and human. 

This is about ditching the safety blanket and building real trust instead.

Timestamps
00:00 Introduction and Episode Teaser
00:14 The Real Issue: Presence Over Scripts
01:34 Agenda Overview
01:57 Script Obsession: Seeking Control
06:19 What Matters in Tough Conversations
15:58 Common Script Failures
18:58 Effective Preparation Without Overkill
25:35 Final Thoughts and Call to Action

Ready to stop performing leadership and start living it? Join us inside the membership: www.taravossenkemper.com/the-membership

In this episode of the Culture Focused Practice podcast, I’m coming in hot with one of the most damaging leadership myths out there: that avoiding conflict is the same as keeping the peace. Spoiler alert—it’s not.

Avoiding hard conversations might feel safe in the short term, but it’s quietly eroding your culture, your clarity, and your credibility. This episode dives into the real cost of conflict avoidance (it’s higher than you think) and breaks down exactly how to lead through the discomfort instead of around it. From people-pleasing habits to late-stage resentment spirals, I’m naming it all. 

If you’ve ever found yourself staying silent to keep things “smooth,” this one’s for you.

Timestamps
00:00 Introduction and Myth Busting
01:45 Why You Avoid Conflict
09:14 The Hidden Costs of Avoidance
14:12 Signs of Avoidance
19:08 Leading Through Conflict
31:51 Conclusion and Call to Action

Ready to lead with clarity and courage? Join us inside the membership at www.taravossenkemper.com/the-membership

Welcome to the Culture Focused Practice podcast. In this Owner’s Room episode, I’m joined by my very first guest — Dr. Jeremy Sharp — for a beautifully messy conversation about what happens after you slow down. You know that moment when the chaos stops and you should be feeling calm, but instead your brain starts spiraling with “Why am I not doing more?” Yep, that one.

Jeremy and I dive into what it really feels like to pause after a season of intensity, how our identities get tangled in achievement, and why stillness can feel more like a threat than a relief. We get honest about inbox avoidance, people-pleasing patterns, right-sizing big practices, and the weird cocktail of grief, restlessness, and relief that shows up in the quiet.

If you’ve ever found yourself fixing things that aren’t broken, rewriting to-do lists just to feel productive, or sprinting headfirst into the next big thing because being still is just... too much? This one’s for you.

Timestamps
00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction
01:52 Discussing the Owner's Room Concept
02:05 Emotional Whiplash of Slowing Down
02:47 Agenda and First Question
03:17 Falling Behind: Personal Reflections
06:21 Inbox Management and Delegation
07:35 Right-Sizing the Practice
12:39 Struggles with Stillness and Productivity
15:31 Personality Traits and Family Influence
20:45 Expectations and Identity
31:35 The Fun of Enneagram
31:54 Achievement and Identity
34:57 The Struggle with Rest and Balance
36:08 The Concept of Time and ADHD
41:24 Visionary and Integrator Roles
42:47 Addressing Agitation in Stillness
53:09 The Beauty of Grief and Loss
57:33 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

If this kind of honest, gritty, emotionally-grounded leadership convo is your jam, join us at Inside the Living Practice, where we keep digging into the stuff that actually matters.
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• The Testing Psychologist Podcast (podcast and consulting)
• Reverb (ai-report writing for psychologists)

In this episode of the Culture Focused Practice podcast, Dr. Tara Vossenkemper wraps up the two-part deep dive into rest, integration, and the quiet (but hard) work of leadership.

This episode challenges the assumption that rest is passive, arguing instead that integration is one of the most demanding—and crucial—skills in leadership. It’s not a gap between doing. It’s a strategy for making your systems, your team, and your brain actually catch up with your vision.

Tara walks through how to operationalize integration inside a group practice using tools like rock reviews, quarterly rhythms, clarity breaks, and leadership debriefs. She unpacks the psychology behind leaders who struggle with stillness, offers mindset reframes to stop conflating motion with relevance, and shares tangible practices that support sustainable leadership.

This isn’t the flashy stuff, and no one’s giving out gold stars for a hold month—but it’s the kind of quiet recalibration that keeps your practice from spiraling.

Timestamps
00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview
01:37 Understanding Integration
05:01 Operationalizing Integration in Practice
11:56 Embedding Integration into Leadership
17:25 Making Integration Safe for Your Team
23:57 Mindset Pairings for Leaders
26:57 Anchor Practices for Integration
29:56 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

If this episode resonates, come join us Inside the Living Practice. It's where we dig into the culture, systems, and leadership rhythms that actually make group practice sustainable—without burning you out in the process.
👉 www.taravossenkemper.com/the-membership

In this episode of the Culture Focused Practice Podcast, Dr. Tara Vossenkemper unpacks the gut-punch of realizing that rest doesn’t mean you’ve stopped growing. 

It just means you’re in integration mode — and, spoiler alert, integration might be the hardest damn thing you do as a leader. We dive into why rest feels so itchy, what cultural narratives are feeding your resistance, and the sneaky emotional labor no one talks about when the hustle stops. 

You’ll get tangible signs that you’re resisting rest (even when you think you’re just “strategizing”), and Tara ends with three prompts to help you unravel your weird-ass relationship with rest.

Timestamps
00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview
01:32 Cultural Narratives Around Rest
05:39 Why Integration Feels Uncomfortable
11:16 The Hidden Emotional Labor of Integration
16:23 Signs You Are Resisting Rest
21:48 Reflection Prompts and Conclusion

👉 Want more of this real talk? Join Inside the Living Practice, our membership community where we explore the messy, brilliant, human side of leadership and actually do something with it. www.taravossenkemper.com/the-membership

In this Owner’s Room episode of the Culture Focused Practice Podcast, Dr. Tara Vossenkemper digs into what it feels like—and what it means—to realize you’re the bottleneck in your own business. She explores the emotional weight and operational impact of being the one who unintentionally slows everything down, despite good intentions and strong systems.

Through five reflective questions and one real-world scenario, Dr. Tara walks through why bottlenecking happens, how to spot it in yourself, and what’s actually required to start letting go. From the tension of high standards to the identity hit that comes with releasing control, this episode offers a grounded, honest take on a leadership struggle every practice owner faces (and often hides).

If you’ve ever felt like you are what’s in the way, this one’s for you.

Timestamps
00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview
00:07 Understanding the Bottleneck
01:16 Agenda and Structure of the Episode
01:43 Question 1: Justifying Bottlenecking
07:31 Question 2: Fear of Losing Control
10:11 Question 3: High Standards vs. Micromanagement
12:56 Question 4: Being Essential to Every Outcome
16:16 Question 5: Identity and Problem Solving
21:17 Scenario Analysis: Letting Go
28:22 Conclusion and Call for Feedback

-> Learn more about working with Tara: www.taravossenkemper.com