The Light, Jesus Christ, shining among us, in us, and through us is absolutely necessary to bring out the beauty of this diverse family. For this reason, it is so important to keep our focus on Jesus. It has been said that if you focus on Jesus you will get unity while a focus on anything else will inevitably end in division. It is not easy for we are so different - ethnicity, personality, income bracket, gender, marital status, education - but we must never forget that what we share in common is far more important than what we don’t.
Here are the questions for the panelist that might interest you to ask your spouse, friend, family, or a group:
(1) How old were you when you became a father? How did you feel when you found out you were going to be a father? What was one of the first big surprises or lessons you learned?
(2) How would you describe your childhood relationship with your father? How did that relationship shape you as a father?
(3) How has being a father impacted your relationship with God the Father?
(4) Share a favorite story about one of your kids (talk about a time your son/daughter made you proud, surprised you, challenged you, taught you, brought joy to you, made you laugh, etc…)
(5) Share some of your hopes for your kids? Have you had to let go of any of your hopes? What has that taught you?
(6) What brings you the most joy as a father? What do you find to be the most challenging?
(7) What is one thing you are really glad you did as a father?
(8) If you could go back and do one thing differently, what would it be?
(9) What advice would you give to someone who desires to be a better father? (
10) How can the church help you as a father? We would love to know some responses that you get