Deanna Bryant 
Welcome to Episode 43, which is my interview with Lee Jagger about rocking the bedroom. Yep, that's what I said rock the bedroom. You may think Deanna now rocking the bedroom is the last thing on my mind at this point in my life. Ladies, it shouldn't be the last thing on your mind. A healthy and satisfying sex life is important to every thriving marriage is the physical component of rich intimacy. So if you think fun and exciting sex is a thing of the past like I have. Buckle up ladies for an information pack conversation with Lee Jagger. So who is this Lee Jagger and how can she help me? Well, Lee is the CEO and founder of Rock the Bedroom, the only sex education community of its kind. Lee is a sex expert and mindful intimacy coach. She helps women be more confident, creative, and playful in the bedroom, specializing in erotic massage. She makes it easy for women to embrace their power and take charge between the sheets. Lee has taught in person and in online workshops internationally, and help women move from a stale, same old sex routine to the next level of passionate playtime. It's her mission, to normalize conversations around sexuality and make obligatory sex to become a thing of the past.

Welcome to the show.

Lee 
 I appreciate that introduction. I'm honored to be on the show because I love what you represent. And you really foster connection and cultivating intimacy within a marriage. And that is really all about what I do. So I'm happy to be a part of this party.

Deanna Bryant 
So glad you are. I just appreciate you taking the time. I really do. I can't think of a better person, a woman in midlife to tell other women in midlife what they can do to shake things up a bit. You get us? Yes, I do. I feel Yeah. So I have to ask this because I'm very curious. What was the impetus for you to become a sex expert and erotic massage coach?

Lee 
Is that is a fabulous question. It's a fun story to tell actually. And it took me years to be able to tell this. So several years ago, and I can't believe that I'm actually in the position I'm in right now as a sex expert and erotic massage coach because I knew nothing. bedroom, I was very passive. I was a sexual wallflower, if you may, and I did not know how to touch a penis. I just did not have that skill set. But several years ago, I was completely broke. A 10-year-old son living in a hoarder's house just came from being homeless actually. So like really bottom-of-the-barrel moment of my life. And, and I put an ad on Craigslist for Swedish massage, because I knew I had a little bit of skill set with that bare minimum I could probably scrape by and I thought, oh, maybe I could do that. And this woman who answered the ad, she said I actually bought an office and I let go a bunch of girls who didn't actually know how to do a massage. But you look like you know what you're doing? Have you ever thought of an erotic massage job? And I'm I had no idea what she was talking about. I didn't know that world at all. And I said at the happy ending? And she said yes. And I said no. Yeah, no, no, thank you. That is so not my dealio other than the fact that I didn't know how to do an erotic massage, but I also didn't want to deal with the clientele who I thought I'd have to deal with in that profession.

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