Are you feeling stuck in your relationship? 

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• The simple script to express your feelings and desires without blame
• How to take ownership of your actions to create the change you want
• The difference between a feeling and a thought, and why it matters
• How this tool can be used to improve any relationship—from your romantic partner to your coworkers

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In this episode, Bri and Mark introduce a powerful framework for intentional living: the "9s and 10s Rule."

We often settle for "good enough," but what if every area of your life from your morning coffee to your relationships, could be a 9 or a 10? We explore what it means to stop enduring life and start experiencing it vibrantly. We dive into how to apply this rule to:

• Your daily routines: Small, intentional shifts can elevate your everyday moments from a 5 to a 10.
• Your relationships: Discover how to actively work toward a 10-out-of-10 partnership.
• Your family life: We share a playful strategy for helping kids choose experiences and possessions that truly light them up.

Stop settling for average. It's time to create an exceptional life by choosing what truly brings you joy, connection, and fulfillment.

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Join us for an incredibly insightful conversation with special guest Kirk Martin from the Calm Parenting Podcast! In this episode, we dive deep into the often-challenging, yet rewarding, journey of parenting strong-willed children and nurturing resilient marriages.

Kirk, a male voice in the parenting space, shares his personal transformation from an "old-school dad" to embracing a more balanced approach that prioritizes connection over control. We explore how personal upbringing and generational patterns impact our relationships with both our children and our spouses, highlighting the profound link between self-awareness and family harmony.

In this episode, you'll learn:

• Transformative Parenting: Learn how a parent's self-awareness and personal change are the keys to a calmer home.
• Conflict to Connection: Discover practical strategies for effective communication and navigating differences with your spouse and children.
• Beyond Reactions: Understand how to offer space for processing emotions and respond calmly rather than escalating conflict.
• Nurturing Passions: Gain insights into prioritizing connection and supporting your child's innate strengths over rigid discipline.

Kirk provides relatable stories and actionable advice that will resonate with any parent or couple striving for more peace and stronger bonds in their home.

Guest Bio:

Kirk Martin is the founder of the Calm Parenting Podcast, dedicated to helping parents navigate the challenges of raising children with practical, tangible tips. With years of experience and a unique perspective, Kirk empowers families to build stronger relationships and create calmer homes.

Connect with Kirk Martin:

• Calm Parenting Podcast: Apple | Spotify | Amazon Music
• Instagram: @calmparentingpodcast
• Programs/Resources: CelebrateCalm.com

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In part 2 of our conversation with habit hacking coach Katie Day, we unpack even more powerful strategies for transforming your relationship.

This episode dives into game-changing habit hacks designed to foster deeper connection and personal growth:

• The Power of the Pause: Learn why pausing in arguments gives you the most power. This crucial skill leads to mindful responses and less regret.
• Refuse to Go Low: Discover how to maintain your "high vibe" even when your partner is struggling. This helps elevate your shared emotional space instead of being pulled down.
• Assign the CEO: Tackle the mental load by assigning a "CEO" to each household task. This clarifies responsibilities, ends micromanaging, and frees up energy for fun and connection.
• Question Your Beliefs: Perhaps the most profound hack: examine subconscious beliefs about your partner and marriage. Learn how to replace unhelpful beliefs (like "I married the wrong person") with empowering ones to radically transform your relationship, even if you do the work alone.

Get ready to challenge your assumptions and unlock new levels of intimacy!

Guest Information:

• Katie Day: 5x Certified Habit Coach, Neuroscience Nerd, Emmy-Award-Winning Comedian
• Instagram: @katieaday
• Website & Habit Lab: ohkatieday.com/habitlab (Check out her 7-day trial!)

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Join Brianna and Mark as they welcome coach Katie Day for an insightful conversation on transforming your marriage through intentional habits. Forget the idea that "marriage is work" – Katie introduces a refreshing perspective: what if marriage could be about playing more?

In this engaging episode, Katie shares her practical, actionable "habit hacks" that have personally reshaped her own marriage and can do the same for yours. Prepare to challenge common relationship clichés and discover how small, consistent actions can lead to profound transformation.

Katie's approach is all about creating "cheat codes" for your relationship, helping you avoid explosive moments and continually refine your partnership into a work of art. Tune in to discover simple yet profound ways to make your marriage more joyful, connected, and truly your own.

Connect with Katie: 

Instagram: ohkatieday

Website: ohkatieday.com

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In this episode Mark + Bri talk with Ann Sheu, co-founder of Mpowered Journey, about building deep, intentional family connections. Ann shares the accidental origins of Mpowered Journey, born from her and her husband Sunny's realization that they were prioritizing work over personal and family well-being.

They delve into Mpowered Journey's unique approach, which emphasizes individual clarity before couples work, and explore why defining your "no matter what" values is foundational for a truly aligned family life. Learn how to prevent work-life imbalance by applying business principles to your home, from weekly "Family Alignment Meetings" to crafting a long-term "Family Decade Dream" that acts as a powerful filter for life's choices.

This conversation highlights the transformative power of intentionality, the benefits of understanding your core individual values, and the pitfalls of "punting" crucial family time and dreams. Ann also shares her personal values, emphasizing authenticity, continuous growth, and embracing your "quirky superpowers."

Episode Highlights:

• 00:37 The Birth of Mpowered Journey: Ann shares how her personal journey led to creating a program for intentional family life.
• 01:41 Applying Business Principles to Family Life: Discover how strategies used in business can create a thriving home environment.
• 04:02 The Importance of Individual Work: Why getting clear on your personal values is the first step to family alignment.
• 11:38 Weekly Family Alignment Meetings: Learn about this crucial habit for families to operate as a cohesive leadership team.
• 16:42 The Family Decade Dream: How a long-term family vision, like Ann's "2000 free days" goal, shapes daily decisions.
• 27:08 Avoiding the Pitfalls of Punting: Understanding the dangers of delaying important relationships and moments for "someday."
• 32:35 The Power of Values Work: How identifying your "no matter what" values (0% aspirational) unlocks confidence and filters life's noise.
• 39:17 Embracing Your Quirky Superpowers: Lean into what makes you unique to bring your best self to your family and community.

Connect with Ann and Mpowered Journey:

• Website: mpoweredjourney.com
• Instagram: Mpowered Journey

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As parents, we often carry the belief that every waking moment should be dedicated to our children. But what if we told you that stepping away, taking time for your own experiences, and nurturing your individual desires is actually one of the most powerful gifts you can give your kids?

In this episode, we're diving into an unexpected side effect of prioritizing ourselves: how it creates an incredible ripple effect that empowers our children to live their most authentic and desired lives. We share personal insights and stories about how our kids' genuine excitement for our separate adventures—whether it's a quiet bike ride or a fun girls' night out—mirrors their own desire to share their experiences and pursue what lights them up.

This isn't about being selfish. It's about modeling empowerment, self-worth, and the pursuit of individual joy. You'll discover how showing your children the importance of taking time for yourself isn't taking away from them; it's giving them permission to embrace their own desires, avoid people-pleasing, and go after what truly makes them happy.

Join us as we explore:

• The impact of prioritizing your separate experiences on your family dynamic.
• How leading by example helps your children feel empowered to speak their desires and live authentically.
• Moving past the guilt of taking time for yourself and stepping into a more aligned and joyful way of being.
• How this practice has elevated our own relationship and flow, creating a more present and connected family life.

Get ready to shift your perspective on self-care and parenting, and uncover how nurturing yourself can inspire your children to thrive!

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In this episode, Mark + Bri explore six different types of intimacy—physical, emotional, experiential, spiritual, intellectual, and sexual—and how they interconnect. 

The episode delves into common obstacles couples face, particularly regarding sexual intimacy, and emphasizes the importance of open communication and identifying each partner's preferred entry points into the intimacy cycle.

00:00 Introduction to Intimacy Evolution
00:28 Understanding the Intimacy Cycle
00:57 Types of Intimacy
02:39 Challenges in Sexual Intimacy
04:35 Communicating About Sex
06:23 Practical Tips for Connection
11:54 Addressing Resistance and Desires
17:35 Conclusion and Upcoming Retreat

Sacred Union Couples Retreat--July 17th -20th!

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In this episode, Bri and Mark get real about a sneaky pattern that shows up in long-term relationships—the assumption trap. After 16 years together, they’ve learned that deeply “knowing” your partner can sometimes lead to miscommunication, disconnection, and silencing the other person’s experience.

Whether it’s reading each other’s facial expressions or energy shifts and assuming you know what’s going on, this habit can actually shut down intimacy. In this conversation, they explore how making room for curiosity instead of conclusions can rebuild connection—especially during busy seasons like parenting young kids.

This is a must-listen for couples who’ve been together for a while and want to avoid falling into autopilot.

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In this solo episode, I share my experiences and insights on managing solo parenting while Mark was away for five days. 

I discuss the challenges and reflections I had during this period, emphasizing the importance of connecting with your partner before they leave, setting yourself up for success, having support systems in place, and planning fun activities for the kids. 

I also highlight the significance of maintaining low expectations, not burdening your partner with issues they can't fix while away, allowing space for integration upon their return, and intentional reconnection. I offer seven practical tips for surviving when your partner is out of town, making this episode a valuable resource for anyone in a similar situation.

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