Seeking True Love

Intuition or Anxiety? Learning to Trust Yourself (with Erica Vargas)


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Episode theme: How do you know if it’s your intuition or your anxiety talking—especially in dating? In this heart-opening conversation, Elizabeth and guest Erica Vargas (Singles & Relationships Expert; somatic/linguistic coach & certified breathwork facilitator) unpack what true intuitive clarity feels like for HSP women and how safety, turn-on, and honest communication create genuinely aligned love.

You’ll learn:

  • The simplest tell: Intuition speaks in statements. Anxiety speaks in questions.
  • Why HSPs often override their intuition (and how to stop).
  • How breathwork helps your body switch from fight/flight into calm, clear knowing.
  • “Cool girl” traps (e.g., pretending 4 days of silence is fine) and what to say instead.
  • Using turn-on and body cues as real-time guidance (even when he’s “perfect on paper”).
  • Boundaries that create safety without drama—and how men actually value your intuition.
  • Why true love feels like I’m safe to be fully me (not just “checking boxes”).

Key moments:

  • Elizabeth’s breathwork story: reclaiming art + opening to true love.
  • Erica’s framework: body signals, subconscious patterns, and energy/spirit.
  • The texting example: swapping panic for a clear, turn-on-based request.
  • Personal vs. universal intuition (and why your read may differ from your friend’s).
  • Owning sensitivity as a superpower (and defending it with grace).
  • What is true love? Safety, presence, and two people who both feel they got “the better deal.”

Connect with Erica Vargas:

  • Website: www.breathmindspiritshine.com
  • Instagram: @ericaovargas
  • Tik tok @ericavargas111

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Seeking True LoveBy Elizabeth Rave