******Advisory: Explicit Language****** These people are not worth your time, energy, or effort. They will drain you of everything and STILL blame you for running on empty, STILL hold YOU accountable for their nonsense, and STILL have you looking a fool if you think blind loyalty is what’ll make the boo boo better. Heed the signs.

After a heartbreaking, gut wrenching discard, most would think victims of Narcissistic Abuse would NEVER return to the person(s) who degraded them, demeaned them, and discarded them. Unfortunately, this is farthest from the truth and in fact, a lot of victims end up returning to the abuser (some more than once).

It’s common for Narcissists to have people (exes) they’ve dated in their surroundings as “Friends” because Narcissists like to recycle. Whether they be Covert or Inverted, If/when supply is running low, Narcissists will keep exes in their surroundings, to fuel them.

Be mindful of those who have exes/past partners as friends, as they may play a bigger, more deceptive role than you think.

*Some Explicit Language

In this clip, I give MY three rules on how I manage to acquire the dynamics I need in my life and maintain the peace I deserve.

Anyone who has experienced Toxic Relationships and/or Narcissistic abuse, though they can find it difficult to achieve, they know the importance and imperativeness of having and maintaining peace in their life.

People of Narcissistic nature will have victims believing:

1. Their mimicking behaviors are the abuser’s true nature

2. The victims are meant to be options, and the victim should feel validated for being such

3. The victim is bitter for disassociating and detaching from unacceptable behaviors

With the extremities of abusers, victims should be twice as extreme with their strength. It’s a lengthy road, nonetheless, there is a finish line 🏁

(With my Discard as an example)

A discard can be UNBELIEVABLE because you literally do not recognize the person who, in your entire relationship, told you they loved you, promised to (in so many words) to be kind, gentle, loyal, decent, and most importantly... respectful.

As a victim, this common mistake can make or break how your future relationships turn out.

A narcissist is very coherent in their decisions and it’s primarily due to the IDEA that they will get what they want and will get away with the deceitful actions committed.

Being self absorbed and self serving, they know what they are doing is wrong, they simply do not care. It’s all about their needs and desires... everyone else is nothing but a warehouse of supply.

For most who’ve endured Narcissistic Abuse, a lot of people hear certain phrases and terminology, yet are not quite sure what it means. In this video, I give you some of the phrases and examples of these phrases, to help with understanding.

Terms in Video:

1. Triangulation

2. Flying Monkeys

3. Gaslighting

4. Supply

5. Narcissistic Discard

6. Deflection

7. Negging

If you’ve gone through the motions (discard) with a Narcissist, please understand their family was fake from the jump!

The Narc has been the victim of abuse, manipulation, gaslighting, gossip, shame, etc... by people of their own dynamic.. trust me, you will be no different.

Please do not attempt to reach out to them, thinking they care... THEY DON’T!!!

Whether the Narcissist is a family member or romantic partner, they will stoop to the lowest levels to keep their victims stuck or even trap them, to maintain all sorts of control.

People can change, right? They can work on becoming better individuals.

What about a Narcissist?

Well... let’s see...

How does someone, who believes everyone external to them is the problem, and not themselves, change?