Don't be shy. Do a lot of cold calling. The nice thing with cold calling is they don't see you on the other end. You can just smile and dial. Ask the silly questions. You can always hang up and dial the next person. So don't be afraid of cold calling. The next thing is to have an outlet. You have your 9-5, you have your family, your kids, your side hustle you're trying to do. So I say have an outlet. have a de-stressor. For me, it is snowboarding, so go snowboarding. Running, when you are doing the pirate run, have something like a stress ball with you. Do some meditation.