We just got back from a 10-day family vacation to the West Coast. I feel so inspired that I started writing a book.

As current members of my flagship program, “Love by Design,” share their wins and results (like start dating their dual partner types within just a couple of weeks of joining), I realize that each of them has one thing in common: they all INVEST in themselves.

Being smart, professional women, many of us invest in our educational and professional growth, in real estate and in the stock market. Chances are, you'll get the ROI on your investments in terms of better career opportunities and lifestyle.

The same universal principle works in relationships. 

When you invest in yourself, you increase your relationship rating, e.g., level of perceived desirability and value as a relationship partner.

When you invest in becoming a better, stronger and more resourceful relationship partner, your relationship rating gets very high. And from that place, you get to attract and choose the highest quality of men in the dating space.

On the other hand, if a woman isn’t willing to invest in herself (and her future relationship), how can she expect a man to be willing to invest, too?

In this week’s podcast episode I explain exactly how it works so you can increase the quality of men you meet and choose your best partner.

In this week’s episode, you’ll learn:

• What investing in yourself has to do with creating a great relationship
• How managing your mind gives you the key to managing your relationship
• The difference between women who invest in themselves vs. those who don’t
• The sneaky reasons why some women don’t invest in themselves
• How to know what’s going to happen in your future without looking into a magic crystal ball

Here are a few gold nuggets from this episode: 

“This is the universal principle, the absolute truth, that if you think about anything to invest in, what is most valuable to invest in is what is going to give you the biggest return on your investment—and that is yourself.”

“When a woman believes in herself and knows she's worthy and deserving, she can create the results that she wants. She will decide and make that choice to invest in herself.”

“Why it's so important to invest in yourself: because we get the return of this investment. When you truly connect to your source of energy and power that is unique to you—authentic to you—everything in your life becomes easier. Attracting the right type of men becomes easier and getting into relationships becomes easier.”

“When it comes to relationships, there isn't anything more valuable than investing in yourself, so that you can be the best version of a relationship partner.”

“The only way for a relationship to work long term is when you know how to manage yourself; then you can manage your relationship. When you know how to manage your relationship, then you can be in an amazing, fulfilling, loving, and happy relationship for the rest of your life.”

—Polina

Are you investing in yourself and in your relationship skills and in your relationship and dating?

If you are, I'm so excited for you! 

And I can't wait to see you in my flagship program, Love by Design, where I give you everything you need to become an incredibly strong, resourceful and powerful relationship partner who knows exactly how to navigate through every stage—starting from dating all the way to getting into a loving, committed lasting marriage. 

The time to invest in yourself is now.

Click here to register now! 💖