In this week’s episode of The Unhinged Father, I dive into a deep, raw, and personal struggle many of us—especially men—face: the internal battle between vulnerability and strength. As an Enneagram 8 (aka “The Challenger”), I’ve always been wired to avoid showing weakness, striving to be invulnerable and powerful. But, over the years, I’ve started to realize that real strength isn’t just about putting up walls; it’s about knowing when to let them down.

In this candid discussion, I explore how our primal instincts push us to be strong protectors, but how, ironically, it’s vulnerability that truly strengthens our relationships. I touch on how being a dad, husband, and human means navigating this conflict daily. Is it possible to be strong and vulnerable at the same time? How do we find balance?

Join me as I unpack the real work of allowing people in—while still maintaining your sense of power—and how it’s reshaping my life as a father and husband. If you’ve ever felt like you’re stuck between protecting your loved ones and connecting with them, this one’s for you.

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