Incels may internalize societal standards of attractiveness and measure themselves against unattainable ideals, leading to feelings of inadequacy and worthlessness. As a result, their self-esteem suffers, exacerbating feelings of isolation and despair.

The stigma surrounding inceldom can exacerbate the psychological toll it takes on individuals. Incels are often portrayed negatively in Incels forum, media and popular culture, further marginalizing them and reinforcing negative stereotypes.