How many of you have been asked or wondered on your own, "How does feminism work with me bending over and getting hit with stuff? Am I a bad feminist?"

In a world where people tend to prioritize binary gender and heteronormative relationships, sometimes the nuances of this conversation get swept under the rug. We will touch on:

• What the definition of violence and harm are (and how they apply to BDSM)
• Whether or not violence & control are inherently masculine characteristics
• If power dynamics and control are biproducts of the patriarchy OR parts of general human experience
• Whether or not women and AFAB people can think and decide for themselves (OR if we've all been brainwashed)
• Why nonbinary people, genderfluid people, trans people, and queer people are often conveniently left out of this discussion...and why we shouldn't stay silent any longer

**TRIGGER WARNING*** This episode in its entirety contains content that may be triggering. We will discuss sexism and toxic gender norms, along with non-graphic mentions of harm caused by the patriarchy. If you are not in a good place to explore these concepts, please check out another one of our episodes and tune in next week for more K is for Kinky!

In other news...our new website is up!!! Visit us at kisforkinky.org

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