Are jokes always harmless, especially if only one person is laughing? Fiorella Diaz, LSW, the director of housing and supportive services at JBWS, answers the question: "Is it a Joke? Or is it Abusive?" This episode discusses the issues with these pranks, the core tenants of non-harmful jokes, and how we can all do our part to help people impacted by domestic violence.

Content:

(0:00) Introduction

(1:34) When Pranking Goes Too Far

(3:45) Humiliation is a Form of Power and Control

(7:17) How These Pranks Hurt

(11:44) Good Humor is Consensual

(14:54) Mean Jokes Aren't Funny

(16:13) How Do You Respond to "It's Just A Joke"

(20:25) How to Prank Your Partner Without Being Harmful

(24:22) Final Thoughts

(26:33) About JBWS & Services

About JBWS, Services, and Resources:Are you in an unhealthy relationship and living or working in Morris County, New Jersey? JBWS can help call our 24-Hour Helpline at 1.877.782.2873 or visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠jbws.org/services⁠⁠. ⁠⁠⁠

Do you recognize controlling or abusive behaviors in yourself? JBWS can also help. Please call 973.539.7801 or visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠jbws.org/jcnv⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

If you don't live or work in Morris County, NJ please visit ⁠https://www.thehotline.org/⁠ or call 800.799.SAFE (7233)

Intro and outro music donated by Billy Morris