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This week on Is it ADHD or Life? – A Couple’s Perspective, it’s another Medication Special… and we start with Donna’s big news: she’s left her job. Adam’s main takeaway? The chocolate she got. So yes, we do ask the important question… is it all about Adam?

We’ve had a proper rollercoaster couple of weeks, and Adam’s also decided he’s now a gardener — which obviously means he’s starting a business. Also… is Donna just very easily impressed? We discuss.

Then we get into medication, with a big warning up front: this episode is based on our personal experience only, and we are not medically trained.

We talk about how Adam completely ruined Eurovision with a bad mood (turns out he forgot his medication). Was old Adam back? We get into mood swings, outbursts, and what it’s like when the meds aren’t doing what you expect — or when you’re not taking them at all.

We answer listener questions and talk titration: what’s changed, what hasn’t, and what the last few weeks have really been like now the initial buzz has worn off. We talk about novelty, timing, and why chasing a “buzz” isn’t the goal. We cover surprises from taking medication, whether things feel less overwhelming, and how stress and single-mindedness show up now.

We also talk people pleasing, relationship changes, and whether Donna’s noticed things Adam hasn’t. We get honest about arguments, conflict, moods, and the balance between relying on medication versus taking a more holistic approach.

Sleep comes up (again), because sleep affects everything — including how medication feels. We talk about what’s become harder since starting meds, whether burnout is looming, and the titration process so far… including the bit we’re not looking forward to: getting it moved over to the GP.

We also share what ADHD traits are still very much present, what medication has genuinely helped with, and the difference it’s making in family life. There’s a sense of pressure lifting, and things not needing to be perfect all the time.

And because it wouldn’t be us… Adam has a new mission in life and it involves karaoke.

5 minute moans this week:

• Should Donna stop eating cheese in Adam’s van? Is his life stinking?
• Adam is still leaving rubbish everywhere

We end a bit differently this week with Donna’s Good, Bad & Ugly about medication — expectations, being more present, and feeling like she’s got more of Adam back.

Should the next episode be Ask Donna Anything? Send your questions to [email protected].

This week we cover:

• Medication update and titration questions from listeners
• What’s changed vs what hasn’t (now the initial buzz has worn off)
• Mood swings, outbursts, and what happens when you forget meds
• Relationship changes, people pleasing, and conflict
• Sleep issues and how sleep impacts medication
• Holistic approach vs over-depending on medication
• Burnout worries and what’s become harder
• Family life, pressure lifting, and letting go of perfection
• Donna’s Good, Bad & Ugly on medication expectations

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