Is it love... or just attachment?

In Episode 3 of His & Hers: Unfiltered, Joia and Torrence tackle one of the most misunderstood topics in relationships: the difference between love and attachment.

Have you ever stayed because you genuinely loved someone—or because you were comfortable, afraid to start over, or emotionally dependent? From soul ties and trauma bonds to companionship, security, and fear of being alone, we're unpacking the reasons people stay in relationships long after the love may be gone.

In this episode, we discuss:

• The difference between love and attachment
• Signs you're attached but not in love
• Trauma bonds and unhealthy relationship patterns
• Fear of loneliness and starting over
• Why people stay in relationships that no longer serve them
• How attachment can be mistaken for love
• Building healthier emotional connections

Plus, we're sipping on our Signature Sip: the Delulu Daiquiri, sharing listener submissions, and giving our verdict on whether your relationship is rooted in genuine love or something else entirely. So be honest... Are you in love with the person—or attached to the feeling?

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