Is it love... or just attachment?

In Episode 3 of His & Hers: Unfiltered, Joia and Torrence tackle one of the most misunderstood topics in relationships: the difference between love and attachment.

Have you ever stayed because you genuinely loved someone—or because you were comfortable, afraid to start over, or emotionally dependent? From soul ties and trauma bonds to companionship, security, and fear of being alone, we're unpacking the reasons people stay in relationships long after the love may be gone.

In this episode, we discuss:

• The difference between love and attachment
• Signs you're attached but not in love
• Trauma bonds and unhealthy relationship patterns
• Fear of loneliness and starting over
• Why people stay in relationships that no longer serve them
• How attachment can be mistaken for love
• Building healthier emotional connections

Plus, we're sipping on our Signature Sip: the Delulu Daiquiri, sharing listener submissions, and giving our verdict on whether your relationship is rooted in genuine love or something else entirely. So be honest... Are you in love with the person—or attached to the feeling?

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Is marriage still worth it in 2026?

With divorce rates, changing relationship dynamics, social media influence, and more people choosing to remain single, it's a question many people are asking. In this episode of His & Hers: Unfiltered, Joia and Torrence tackle one of the biggest relationship debates of our generation.

From the benefits of partnership and building wealth together to the challenges of communication, commitment, sacrifice, and modern expectations, we're discussing the realities of marriage—the good, the bad, and everything in between.

In this episode:

• Why fewer people are choosing marriage

• The benefits and challenges of married life

• Social media's impact on relationship expectations

• Traditional vs. modern marriage roles

• Financial partnerships and building together

• What marriage has taught us personally

• Whether marriage is still worth pursuing today

Plus, we share our Signature Sip, answer listener questions, and give our final verdict on whether marriage is still a worthwhile commitment in today's world.

So what's your take?

Is marriage still worth it, or has the institution become outdated?

Drop your thoughts in the comments and join the conversation.

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In Episode 1 of His & Hers: Unfiltered, we're asking the question everybody's been thinking: Why is dating in 2026 so ghetto?

From ghosting and situationships to unrealistic expectations, social media influence, dating apps, and the never-ending battle of who should pay on the first date, we're breaking down the chaos of modern dating from both the male and female perspective.

Join Joia and Torrence as they share personal experiences, unpopular opinions, hard truths, and plenty of laughs while discussing what has changed in today's dating culture—and whether finding real love is harder than ever.

Grab a drink and pull up a chair as we tackle:

• Dating apps vs. real-life connections

• Ghosting, breadcrumbing, and situationships

• Social media's impact on relationships

• Gender roles and dating expectations

• Why so many people are frustrated with dating today

• What singles can do to navigate the madness

Do you think dating is harder than ever, or are people just choosing the wrong partners? Let us know your thoughts in the comments. Subscribe for weekly conversations about relationships, marriage, culture, entrepreneurship, and everything in between.

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