Life Check Yourself

Is it Really Better to Date Multiple People at the Same Time? With Chris Gillis


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Marni and Chris Gillis are back to fish out all the best real-life dating lessons from the watery depths of Love Island. The show pairs up singles and then injects new, hot singles into the mix every so often just to keep things juicy. The love lessons in this surreal show may not be readily apparent to the naked eye, but Marni and Chris know just where to look.

 

Dating takeaways from this episode:

 

  • Dating more than one person at a time

  • Expressing vulnerability and commitment

  • Why the experiment doesn’t paint a clear picture of what is possible in early dating

  • When you should be cautiously optimistic

 

Should We Play the Field [3:05]

 

When Marni and her team coach clients, creating a funnel and dating multiple people is promoted. Of course, until they figure out who their best person is. On Love Island, they start to build connections and then they bring in new people.

 

Marni finds herself conflicted. The contestants have core relationships but they are flirting or kissing the singles who were recently added. Should they be a tad more committed or are they doing the right thing by playing the field?

 

It's less about the number of dates and more about the quality. Does the other person have the same vision or values? Are they looking for the same things?

 

Casa Amor * Spoiler Alert [12:21]

 

If you haven’t seen the Casa Amor episode yet, don’t read this part. Regarding Andrew and Tasha; Andrew was working hard to make Tasha feel loved and safe because she is insecure. He obviously likes her a lot. The other guys are saying he is getting played, but Marni doesn’t see it. When new girls, aka B-team, are introduced, they also reinforce the idea that Tasha has been treating Andrew poorly because she is talking to other guys. He starts dating someone else right away.

 

We all want to feel special. Are you making your partner feel special?

 

Casting Their Lines [19:29]

 

Marni and Chris discuss the cast and how they seem to be unable to get vulnerable and express what they like to each other. Plus, they note that the Casa Amor is a tough experiment to gauge a relationship on because contestants didn’t get a chance to create a solid foundation beforehand. Most of them stayed in cautiously optimistic mode and no one really clarified their feelings for another person.

 

When a guy says he is really interested in you and his words and actions match, be cautiously optimistic. Because everyone can say that you are everything they want, but true compatibility is proven sustainable over time.

 

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