Yes! You can have a fairytale love story. All you need do is write it by having a broad understanding of what love is. Toru gives a description of what love is. He analysis the universal definition of love, added his definition and give an answer to what love is. He defines love as a feeling of deep affection and a need of rational decision, stating that in reality only decision to love can sustain a dating relationship or marriage. He explains that when the feeling gets cold decision rekindles the fire. Understand this and enjoy your dating experience.