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Love is pure when it is expressed inconvenience. We must understand that we love not because we are comfortable but because we are dedicated and committed to making love work. We are expected to be intentional in dealings and proceedings with our loved one(s). Through thick and thin, we choose to love, have and be there for the ones we love. In this episode, I wrapped up this season with an accurate explanation on how to express love in earnest.

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Doubting your partner can cause arguments, mistrusts, and

uneasiness. It is bad for both parties because it causes tension and can lead to heart break. Love trust, beliefs and is at ease. So when you say you love someone, you take them at their words without trying to verify.

Being a hopeless romantic and taking everything Hook, line and sinker is not what entails. Yes it is good to believe in the union despite the challenges, but, it is very important to see reciprocated efforts before you have high hopes. Against the backdrop of being a hopeless romantic, this episode exposes the reality of love as being hopeful. Which entails being passionate, yet, pragmatic. Listen in.

Pride is a precursor to loveless living; it struggles with love because it requires a focus of self. It is deceptive, as it always negotiates for its own benefit. There is a driving force behind pride that is unhealthy and unnecessary.

There's no room in the heart of love.

In this episode I give a description of how pride shows itself in our everyday love life and how it can't be dealt with. Listen.

In a dating-relarionship or marriage, jealousy displays itself in three different facets which are; healthy jealousy, toxic jealousy and resentment for the achievements of your partner. The first is good for your love experience as it shows your partner how much you don't want to lose them. The second is toxicity caused by a self image distortion, misguided sense of ownership and control over your partner, and mistrust—this is torture to your partner. The final one it very subtle as most people do not take is to be serious, but, the is it is very serious. When the third creeps in and left unattended, it breeds envy which poisons the love experience with resentment and bad treatment. Listen to find out more on why jealousy and envy is not love, as well as four bullet points on how to deal with jealousy if you feel that way.

To be indecisive in a relationship means not having the

willpower to make decisions and stand by them. Someone

indecisive can take a long time to decide on something due

to fear of the unknown, the fear of failure, laziness, fear of

being responsible, etc. And that is not love.

Sexual compatibility and financial security contribute to a happy marriage, but love is a separate and a more important part of it. Sex can become impossible; finances can change; love is not based on either and can make it easier to tolerate changes in the first two.

This episode explains that unforgiveness creates and harden heart in partners, leaving the dating-relationship and marriage filled with negative emotions which is not love. In love partners make excuses for mistakes, carelessness or weaknesses that offend and hurt them. Rather than insisting on having your way and attempting to 'even the score', we forgive and let go. In every relationship and marriage, there are times when we are hurt, disappointed, betrayed by the other person. But when we decide to forgive, we are saying 'I love you' regardless of what you did or said. Commitment to the relationship is a choice and a decision to love. Away from feelings, we decide to make the decision to love, to have, to hold, to protect and to forgive. Listen in.

Helping couples understand that in love; you truly

embrace letting things slide off your shoulders, you

come to better understanding of yourself and your

Partner. Thereby enabling a thriving your relationship

Helping couples understand that love in the face of irritation doesn't give major reactions like; banging the door, leaving the house, cursing and saying hurtful words to your partner without fare, and/or discussing your partner's errors with your family and friends. But love is even-tempered making you have a kind and generous disposition, knowing that everyone including yourself have weaknesses. A loving partner in the face of problems exercises self-control. Listen-in.