This episode explains that unforgiveness creates and harden heart in partners, leaving the dating-relationship and marriage filled with negative emotions which is not love. In love partners make excuses for mistakes, carelessness or weaknesses that offend and hurt them. Rather than insisting on having your way and attempting to 'even the score', we forgive and let go. In every relationship and marriage, there are times when we are hurt, disappointed, betrayed by the other person. But when we decide to forgive, we are saying 'I love you' regardless of what you did or said. Commitment to the relationship is a choice and a decision to love. Away from feelings, we decide to make the decision to love, to have, to hold, to protect and to forgive. Listen in.