Tom Ernsting (@TomDeanErnsting) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to see if there is such thing as too big. You can hear all about what they classify as too big. How they feel about the penis pump& enhancement pills. Tom shares advice on how a parent should approach coming out to their child. And most importantly a genuine conversation between 2 men from different generations sharing stories about gay culture. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with them on this episode of Behind the Bum!