In this episode of the Pillay Place Podcast, Rahul and Van take you behind the curtain of their own relationship journey to answer a question so many people carry quietly: How do you actually know if someone is the one?
Through honest stories, real relationship missteps, and faith-centered insight, they unpack what healthy love looks like when it’s grounded in authenticity—not performance or pressure. Van shares the emotional tension of trying to “change” someone in past relationships, while Rahul explains how subtle signals—both human and spiritual—can reveal whether a relationship is built on compatibility or confusion.
One of the episode’s standout moments comes when Rahul reflects,“If you’re with somebody and you are not trying to change that person, you love them the way they are… that is a very healthy sign.”
Another powerful insight from Van:“You kept showing up for me… and that’s when I knew you would always show up, not because of what I did, but because you loved me for who I am.”
If you’re navigating dating decisions, feeling relational uncertainty, or simply wanting wisdom for future commitment, this conversation will ground you with clarity, peace, and practical truth.

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