What if some of the most common things we believe about God… just aren’t true?

In Part 1 of this two-part conversation, Rahul and Van Pillay unpack deeply held assumptions many of us carry—especially around suffering, disappointment, and unanswered prayers. From illness and failure to faith after heartbreak, this episode gently challenges the idea that God causes pain to teach us lessons.

Rahul brings theological clarity rooted in Scripture, while Van shares vulnerably from her own experience with failure, shame, and emotional shutdown after disappointment. Together, they explore how misunderstanding God’s character can quietly harden our hearts—and why clarity actually restores hope.

“If illness is hurting you… it’s not from God.”
“Just because God rescues you doesn’t mean He caused the fire.”

This isn’t about denying pain or oversimplifying life—it’s about seeing God clearly so healing, trust, and growth become possible again.

If you’ve ever wondered:
Did God let this happen?
Why didn’t He stop it?
What if my faith feels blocked?
This episode is for you.

To listen to episode 5 on Why is there evil? Here is the link: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2545533/episodes/18116420

Find us on Spotify @pillayplacepodcast

https://open.spotify.com/show/6yDlDhEWsh21t2zeg7f5AC?si=B7-HfM0VR6SJuI2i7l4Kdg

YouTube: @pillayplacepodcast

https://www.youtube.com/@PillayPlacePodcast

What does it really mean to dream with God—without ignoring real life responsibilities?

In this episode of the Pillay Place Podcast, Rahul and Van Pillay explore the tension many of us feel between spiritual dreams and practical goals. As a new year begins, they unpack how faith, imagination, and intentional planning can work together—not compete—to shape the life you actually want to live.

Rahul brings biblical wisdom, reminding us that God is not opposed to dreaming—He’s the author of it. Van adds emotional and mental health insight, grounding the conversation in self-awareness, purpose, and realistic decision-making. Together, they challenge the idea that purpose is something you “find,” and instead invite you to listen inward to what’s already been placed inside you.

“You’re not searching for your purpose—it’s already guiding you.”
 “When a dream feels impossible, that’s often where faith begins.”

From family rhythms and financial clarity to goal-setting, timelines, and surrender, this episode offers a refreshing, balanced approach to growth—one that values peace over pressure and calling over hustle.

Whether you’re feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or quietly hopeful, this conversation will help you reframe how you dream, plan, and trust God with your future.

👉 Subscribe for more faith-filled conversations that help you grow in your purpose, clarity, and peace.

Find us on Spotify @pillayplacepodcast

https://open.spotify.com/show/6yDlDhEWsh21t2zeg7f5AC?si=B7-HfM0VR6SJuI2i7l4Kdg

YouTube: @pillayplacepodcast

https://www.youtube.com/@PillayPlacePodcast

What if the clarity, confidence, and peace you’re praying for aren’t outside of you—but already within you?

In this episode of the Pillay Place Podcast, Rahul and Van Pillay explore a powerful yet often overlooked truth through the life of Abraham: God places purpose, ability, and direction inside us before we ever go searching for answers.

Rahul unpacks Abraham’s story from Genesis, highlighting how fear quietly undermines faith—and how God responds not with condemnation, but reassurance: “Do not be afraid… I am your exceedingly great reward.” Van brings emotional and mental health insight, connecting faith to honesty, self-awareness, and the courage to ask hard questions.

Together, they discuss:
-Why fear often shows up subtly as worry
-How we unintentionally shortchange ourselves
-The difference between looking outward for validation and inward for calling
-Why God invites honest conversation, not performative faith

One standout insight: “We shortchange ourselves, but God knows exactly what He put inside of us.”

This is a grounded, real conversation for anyone navigating faith, family decisions, financial pressure, or a new season of growth.

Find us on Spotify @pillayplacepodcast

https://open.spotify.com/show/6yDlDhEWsh21t2zeg7f5AC?si=B7-HfM0VR6SJuI2i7l4Kdg

YouTube: @pillayplacepodcast

https://www.youtube.com/@PillayPlacePodcast

What does forgiveness really look like when trust has been broken?
In this episode of the Pillay Place Podcast, Rahul and Van Pillay open up about a deeply personal moment from the early years of their marriage—one that tested trust, honesty, and faith at the same time. Through a real story involving relapse, confession, and grace, they explore what it actually means to forgive—not in theory, but in real life.
Van shares a powerful insight: “Forgiveness starts when I let go of the desire for vengeance or justice.” Rahul adds perspective on separating behavior from identity and why humility is often the hardest—but most transformative—part of forgiveness.
This conversation goes beyond clichés and gets honest about resentment, emotional boundaries, trust, and healing. You’ll hear why holding on to bitterness hurts you more than anyone else, how forgiveness can exist without ignoring patterns, and how faith reframes the way we see people—and ourselves.
Whether you’re navigating marriage tension, family conflict, or unresolved hurt, this episode offers clarity, wisdom, and peace-centered perspective rooted in faith and emotional health.
Subscribe for more faith-filled conversations that help you grow in your purpose, relationships, and peace.

#FaithPodcast#ChristianMindset#ForgivenessJourney#PillayPlacePodcast#FaithAndFamily#MentalHealthAndFaith#BiblicalWisdom#ChristianGrowth#PeaceThroughFaith

Find us on Spotify @pillayplacepodcast

https://open.spotify.com/show/6yDlDhEWsh21t2zeg7f5AC?si=B7-HfM0VR6SJuI2i7l4Kdg

YouTube: @pillayplacepodcast

https://www.youtube.com/@PillayPlacePodcast

In this episode of the Pillay Place Podcast, Rahul and Van take you behind the curtain of their own relationship journey to answer a question so many people carry quietly: How do you actually know if someone is the one?
Through honest stories, real relationship missteps, and faith-centered insight, they unpack what healthy love looks like when it’s grounded in authenticity—not performance or pressure. Van shares the emotional tension of trying to “change” someone in past relationships, while Rahul explains how subtle signals—both human and spiritual—can reveal whether a relationship is built on compatibility or confusion.
One of the episode’s standout moments comes when Rahul reflects,“If you’re with somebody and you are not trying to change that person, you love them the way they are… that is a very healthy sign.”
Another powerful insight from Van:“You kept showing up for me… and that’s when I knew you would always show up, not because of what I did, but because you loved me for who I am.”
If you’re navigating dating decisions, feeling relational uncertainty, or simply wanting wisdom for future commitment, this conversation will ground you with clarity, peace, and practical truth.

Watch episode nine here: https://youtu.be/vdEF-7_6FeY

Subscribe for more faith-filled conversations that help you grow in your purpose and peace.

#FaithPodcast #ChristianMindset #PillayPlace #ChristianGrowth#FaithAndRelationships #BiblicalWisdom #MentalHealthAndFaith#PurposeDrivenLife #FaithAndFamily #RelationshipWisdom

Find us on Spotify @pillayplacepodcast

https://open.spotify.com/show/6yDlDhEWsh21t2zeg7f5AC?si=B7-HfM0VR6SJuI2i7l4Kdg

YouTube: @pillayplacepodcast

https://www.youtube.com/@PillayPlacePodcast

In this honest and hope-filled conversation, Rahul and Van unpack one of the most common struggles people face today: the lack mindset—the belief that you’re not enough, don’t have enough, or will never measure up. Drawing from real stories, Scripture, and their own lived experiences, they break down how comparison, distorted thinking, and hidden insecurities shape the way we see God, ourselves, and our future.
Rahul explains why phrases like “I never have enough” or “things never work out for me” quietly shape your reality and keep you from stepping into what God has already made available. Van offers a refreshing perspective on emotional distortions—those “always” and “never” thoughts that feel true in the moment but pull you away from gratitude, clarity, and peace.
One of the standout moments comes when they explore Romans 12:2 and the idea that transformation begins with renewing the mind. Another powerful takeaway: “If you lie to yourself enough times, eventually you believe it.”
This episode is your invitation to slow down, reflect, and reset your internal narrative—so you can step into a healthier, freer, more faith-rooted way of living.

To watch the episode: https://youtu.be/r2oC12sMOP0

 Rahul referenced click here: https://youtu.be/9tD4fKJvhA8
 
Subscribe for more faith-filled conversations that help you grow in your purpose and peace.

Find us on Spotify @pillayplacepodcast

https://open.spotify.com/show/6yDlDhEWsh21t2zeg7f5AC?si=B7-HfM0VR6SJuI2i7l4Kdg

YouTube: @pillayplacepodcast

https://www.youtube.com/@PillayPlacePodcast

Making decisions shouldn’t feel like walking through fog. In this episode, Rahul and Van unpack how to make choices you won’t regret—even when life doesn’t unfold the way you expected. Through real stories, honest tension, and practical wisdom, they share the framework that has guided their marriage, family, and calling.
Rahul breaks down the role of data, long-term vision, and faith-filled risk, while Van brings insight into emotional safety, core values, and how couples can stay unified even when they see the world differently. One standout moment: “If it doesn’t align with our values, we don’t move on it—no matter how shiny it looks.” Another powerful line: “Unity matters more than being right.”
You’ll learn how to identify the real problem, count the cost, evaluate purpose, and make decisions anchored in truth—not pressure or fear.
If you’ve ever wrestled with overthinking, regret, or fear of making the wrong move, this conversation will empower you to choose with clarity, confidence, and peace.

To get your copy of the values PDF click here: 

https://www.mindheart-therapy.com/resources

Find us on Spotify @pillayplacepodcast

https://open.spotify.com/show/6yDlDhEWsh21t2zeg7f5AC?si=B7-HfM0VR6SJuI2i7l4Kdg

YouTube: @pillayplacepodcast

https://www.youtube.com/@PillayPlacePodcast

Money touches every part of our daily lives—but it doesn’t have to create tension, fear, or confusion. In this powerful episode, Rahul and Van pull back the curtain on how they moved from debt, uncertainty, and limited resources to unity, clarity, and financial peace.

Drawing from real stories—credit-carding their wedding, paying off debt together, and dreaming their way into their first home—they share the practical and spiritual rhythms that changed everything: shared accounts, monthly financial meetings, transparent roles, intentional stewardship, and faith-driven dreaming that expands what feels possible.

Rahul unpacks the biblical wisdom that reshaped his mindset, including why Jesus talked so much about money and why stewardship is central to living with purpose. Van brings breakthrough insights on mindset, identity, and neural pathways—highlighting how your relationship with money is shaped by belief, emotion, and imagination.

Find us on Spotify @pillayplacepodcast

https://open.spotify.com/show/6yDlDhEWsh21t2zeg7f5AC?si=B7-HfM0VR6SJuI2i7l4Kdg

YouTube: @pillayplacepodcast

https://www.youtube.com/@PillayPlacePodcast

Have you ever felt like you have to earn love—by being perfect, successful, or just "good enough"? In this episode of the Pillay Place Podcast, hosts Rahul and Van Pillay share real-life stories about the difference between everyday love and the kind that has no strings attached. They talk about how kids might think they need to finish their veggies to feel loved, or how grown-ups chase money and fame to fill an empty spot inside. But true love isn't about what you do or achieve. It's deeper, like an inner safety net that doesn't depend on others or your mistakes.If you're someone who's drifted from faith or you feel distant from God, this chat gently explores finding worth that comes from within, not the world. Rahul and Van open up about their own struggles, like parenting mishaps and relationship doubts, showing how forgiving yourself and others can bring real peace. They touch on a bigger source of love—one that's always there, even when life feels unfair or lonely. It's not pushy religion; it's about opening your heart to something endless that heals old hurts. Listen in if you're seeking that quiet strength to feel secure, no matter what. This episode reminds us: You're worthy just as you are, and true love sets you free to be real.

Find us on Spotify @pillayplacepodcast

https://open.spotify.com/show/6yDlDhEWsh21t2zeg7f5AC?si=B7-HfM0VR6SJuI2i7l4Kdg

YouTube: @pillayplacepodcast

https://www.youtube.com/@PillayPlacePodcast

What if fear isn’t just a feeling—but a signal keeping you from your purpose?In this episode of The Pillay Place Podcast, Rahul and Van unpack how fear disguises itself as perfectionism, procrastination, and control. From personal stories of business setbacks to powerful biblical insight, they explore why fear is the absence of faith and how God’s love and truth can realign your mindset.
Van shares a therapist’s perspective on the brain’s “freeze response” and how facing fear is the first step toward emotional and spiritual growth. Rahul connects it all to Scripture—reminding us that God says “Do not be afraid” 365 times, because He’s always with us.
“Fear may feel powerful, but truth and love overpower it every time.”

Subscribe for more faith-filled conversations that help you grow in peace, confidence, and purpose.

#FaithPodcast #ChristianMindset #PillayPlace #FaithOverFear #BiblicalWisdom #ChristianGrowth #FaithAndFinance #OvercomingFear #PurposeDrivenLife #EmotionalHealing

Find us on Spotify @pillayplacepodcast

https://open.spotify.com/show/6yDlDhEWsh21t2zeg7f5AC?si=B7-HfM0VR6SJuI2i7l4Kdg

YouTube: @pillayplacepodcast

https://www.youtube.com/@PillayPlacePodcast