Finding the Guardian of Your Soul

Is Your Optimism Bias Ruining Your Chance at Love?


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What You’ll Hear In This Episode:

  • What is the “optimism bias” anyway + shocking stats!
  • What areas could you benefit from taking practical realistic action?
  • How do you begin to put energy and devotion into the RIGHT way to date? 
  • If I’m beautiful and successful enough, won’t the men just come find me? 
  • Lisa explains why more career success often means even less luck in dating. How unfair! What can you do about it? 
  • Does getting rid of the “optimism bias” mean you will be a negative thinker? Isn’t positive thinking healthy? 
  • What are some practical steps you can take towards being more of a realist? 
  • How does our optimism bias actually make men run for the hills and feed anxiety?

 

Continue On Your Journey

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Mentioned:

The Four Agreements

The Optimism Bias | Tali Sharot 

 

Quotes

  • “We lack realism when it comes to finding love.” 
  • “I realized that the journey to find love is really the ultimate spiritual path.”
  • “Love with a partner is the most spiritual thing we do in life.” 
  • “For women, it's the exact opposite of men. We have less of a chance of being able to find a true partner as we go up the corporate ladder or the ladder of success, whereas men have a much higher chance of finding a partner.” - Lisa

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