“I thought by this point in my life I definitely would have . . .” can be a dangerous phrase. Whether we’re “feeling behind” because we’ve never gotten married, had kids, or owned a house, or just wish we were further along in our career, it can be demoralizing. It’s the same feeling when you go through a breakup and feel like you just “wasted” all that time with someone. But this thinking is a trap. If you’ve caught yourself feeling “I’m so behind compared to everyone else,” use the four powerful mindset reframes I share in today’s episode to get out of your rut and start moving forward again. ►► Join The "Matthew Hussey Weekend Retreat" In Miami, October 18-19. Grab Your Early Bird Ticket Before Prices Go Up! → https://matthewhussey.com/weekend-retreat-25-eb/ ►►Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

Can you relate to this?

You start dating someone who seems too good to be true. Maybe they treat you like no one ever has before, or they check all the boxes you’ve been looking for, or maybe it’s their success or status that makes you feel like the luckiest person just to have their attention (as in today’s example).

But here’s the catch: they’re sending you mixed signals when it comes to commitment. You keep spending time together, but you’re still unsure of what they actually want.

It’s a tricky situation. Even though you can sense something is off, the fear of losing them—and the uncertainty of finding someone as amazing as they seem—makes it nearly impossible to set boundaries or create distance. You’re stuck, holding onto something that might not be what you thought it was.

If this sounds familiar, don’t miss today’s episode—it’s a rewind you won’t want to miss.

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In this episode, Matthew and Audrey explore the problem of waiting to find love until the "perfect time", and how this thinking can hold us back from living fully and achieving our goals. Whether you're contemplating a life-changing decision, trying to date amidst personal challenges, or simply struggling to move forward, this episode will give you the tools and mindset shifts to take action today. Topics Covered:

• The pressure of starting fresh in January and why it can be counterproductive.
• The challenge of single motherhood and facing fears about dating with children.
• The concept of "Nel Mezzo" (in the middle): Living life amidst its chaos.
• Common mental traps: Waiting for the ideal time, trying to avoid pain, and over-planning.
• The role of self-compassion when dealing with setbacks or unproductive days.
• Redefining the idea of a “new chapter” and leaning into life’s ongoing conversations.
• Practical steps to challenge limiting beliefs about what’s possible in life and relationships.

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After a really good date or two, have you ever found yourself scrolling through the other person’s social media pages . . . to a slightly unhealthy degree? Maybe you’ve even tried to find their exes’ profiles to see how you compare with them? (It’s OK, we’ve all been there.) This is often bad for our mental health. And it doesn’t help when we’re trying to build an organic relationship while secretly stalking every part of someone’s life. In today’s new episode, I share practical strategies you can use when you feel the urge to keep checking your date’s social media pages . . . and how you can redirect your attention in a way that will make you even more attractive. ►► Join The "Matthew Hussey Weekend Retreat" In Miami, October 18-19. Grab Your Early Bird Ticket Before Prices Go Up! → https://matthewhussey.com/weekend-retreat-25-eb/ ►►Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

I still remember every heartbreak I’ve ever had.

If I try I can still bring back the agony of those months after a relationship ended, wondering if I was ever going to feel better and get back to my normal self. When you’re feeling that pain of losing someone, food doesn’t taste good. TV shows depress you. Your favourite places feel cursed because they bring back bittersweet memories. Life feels like white noise, and your every waking moment goes back to that feeling of loss and pain.

We’ve all been there, right? But there is a secret to emotionally recovering from a breakup, one that is shockingly simple but so crucial that if you forget to do it, you will inadvertently DOUBLE the amount of time it takes to get over your ex. See, most of us make bad decisions in a breakup. We drink to numb the pain, we have one-night stands with people we don’t care about, or we eat ourselves into oblivion with junk food.

It sucks now, I know. But it will get better, trust me...

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In this episode, Matthew sits down for a conversation with Jillian Turecki (@jillianturecki)—renowned relationship coach, teacher, and author of It Begins with You: Nine Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life. Over the last two decades, Jillian has empowered thousands to transform their relationships, starting with the most important one: the relationship with themselves. She also hosts the popular Jillian on Love podcast. Topics Covered:

• The most common dating patterns that hold people back—and how to break them.
• How to know when you should accept someone's flaws vs. when they are fatal to the relationship.
• The danger of “playing house” in early relationships and how to have the difficult conversations.
• Moving past unchallenged limiting beliefs, including “I’m not lovable” or “all men cheat.”
• The crucial difference between chemistry and character—and how to avoid falling for the wrong people.
• What you should do in the first 5 dates to test compatibility
• How to make peace with your past, including complicated relationships with parents, to find freedom in your love life.
• How to move on from heartbreak and embrace the possibility of love again.
• The art of setting boundaries and recognizing when a partner's behavior doesn’t meet your needs.

✨ Follow Jillian Turecki online:

• Follow Jillian on Instagram: @jillianturecki
• Order Jillian's new book: It Begins with You: Nine Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life
• Listen to Jillian's podcast: Jillian on Love

Wondering how to make 2025 your best year yet? In this brand-new episode, I share 7 subtle habits you can implement without needing to turn your life upside down. These small shifts have the power to:  • Boost your chances of finding love. • Make you a better conversationalist. • Get you out of your comfort zone (in a good way).  • Increase your love for life.   Whether you want to be a little less shy or just want to level up in your social life, this is a must-listen. And it shouldn’t feel like work! It should get you excited and inspired.    Let’s do this together.   ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life Learn More About the Matthew Hussey Retreat at . . .→ http://www.MHRetreat.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

Ever felt like you lost a relationship with someone that you couldn’t replace?

It’s a profound form of mental torture.

All kinds of fears enter your mind. Most scary of all: “What if I’ll never be as happy again?”, “Have I ruined my chance at true love?”

If you find yourself constantly thinking about how to invite someone back into your life…

Or if you have an old flame who keeps coming in and out of your life…

Please… watch this before you do anything else.

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Today I'm joined for an excellent conversation with my friend Mel Robbins (@melrobbins, that will change the way you approach life’s challenges, relationships, and personal growth. Mel Robbins is a New York Times bestselling author and world-renowned expert on motivation and mindset. In this episode, she shares transformative insights from her groundbreaking new book, The Let Them Theory. This one is packed with actionable advice to help you reduce anxiety and drama in your relationships, stop obsessing about micro-managing other people's emotions, build stronger connections, and focus on what truly matters. Topics Include:

• The core of The Let Them Theory: a simple, powerful mindset tool for managing what’s in your control.
• How to stop wasting time and energy trying to change or control others.
• The difference between acting out of guilt and making decisions aligned with your values.
• Strategies for creating healthy boundaries without guilt or resentment.
• Why jealousy is a signal of untapped potential—and how to use it to your advantage.
• The role of radical acceptance in improving relationships and finding peace.
• How to build a thriving social life by proactively creating connections.
• The transformative impact of giving up control to gain clarity and freedom.
• Mel’s personal stories of overcoming loneliness, setting boundaries, and rediscovering joy.

Whether you’re struggling with difficult relationships, chasing unfulfilled goals, or seeking more happiness in your life, this episode will give you the tools to take back your power and live authentically.

 

▼ Connect with Mel ▼ Get The Let Them Theory → https://LetThem.com YouTube →  https://www.youtube.com/c/melrobbins Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/melrobbins/ TikTok → https://www.tiktok.com/@melrobbins

A few years ago, a top investing firm found that 41% of divorced Gen Xers and 29% of Baby Boomers said they ended their marriage due to disagreements about money.    Given that money can cause so much upset and even break up relationships, why don’t we talk about it more? What if your partner refuses to discuss money or has unhealthy money habits? What if you both have very different incomes and it makes your partner insecure? No matter what question you have about money and relationships, you can’t miss today’s video featuring my good friend—and bestselling author—Ramit Sethi (@ramit).  We go deep into topics such as: 

• The biggest red flags with money
• Having conversations about spending on luxuries and dividing finances
• Dealing with power imbalances between men and women with different incomes
• Insecurities and shame around money (or lack of it)
• How to use money to have a rich life and achieve your goals as a couple

And more! --- Order Ramit's new book "Money for Couples" to take control of your finances in your relationships!