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  • 230: The Realest Conversation I’ve Ever Had With My Mom…

    It’s pub day for Why Am I Like This?, and Sabrina’s mom Helly joins the show to talk honestly about Sabrina’s old dating patterns: texting nonstop, chasing emotionally unavailable men, people pleasing, and losing herself trying to make someone love her. Helly shares the advice she gave Sabrina for years, like “be careful what you wish for” and “you have to love yourself more than you need to be loved,” and explains why choosing yourself is where real change starts.

    Sabrina then opens up about imposter syndrome, needing outside validation, the pressure of content creation, and her mom’s health, and how hearing “I’m proud of you” changed things for her. If you struggle with anxious attachment, self-abandonment, low self-worth, or letting go of people who don’t choose you, this episode is a reminder that healing is messy, there’s no fully healed version of you, and you can still become who you want to be.

    Come see me on tour! https://sabrinazohar.com/tour

    Order Sabrina's book,⁠⁠ "Why Am I Like This?"⁠⁠

    Get your free workbook and access to the companion course after pre-ordering 'Why Am I Like This?' by filling out the form at the bottom of the page at ⁠http://sabrinazohar.com/book⁠

    Take the new and improved dating quiz! ⁠sabrinazohar.com/quiz⁠

    If you’re ready to slow down, trust your instincts, and break your old dating patterns, the Healthy Relationship Foundations Course walks you through it step-by-step  ⁠⁠HERE!⁠⁠

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    Chapters:

    00:00 Mom Reveals My Past Dating Patterns

    03:00 Obsessive Texting and Losing Yourself

    06:00 Choosing Yourself After Hitting Bottom

    09:00 Stop Waiting for Someone to Rescue You

    12:00 Letting Go of Ego in Relationships

    15:00 Chasing Validation and Self-Worth

    18:00 Imposter Syndrome and Fear of Failure

    21:00 There Is No Fully Healed Version of You

    24:00 You Get to Choose How You Show Up

    27:00 Stop Chasing the Spark, Choose Safety

    Disclaimer: The Sabrina Zohar Show, formerly known as Do The Work, is not affiliated with A.Z & associates LLC in any capacity.

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    34 min
  • 229: Stop Asking "Why Don't They Want Me?"

    Why do I keep choosing the wrong people? Why can't I let go of someone who won't choose me? If you're stuck asking "why," this episode is for you. Sabrina breaks down why self-awareness alone won't heal anxious attachment, how childhood patterns follow you into dating and relationships, and what Mary Ainsworth's Strange Situation study shows about anxious and avoidant attachment: avoidants feel the panic too, they just hide it.

    She also reads from Chapter 4 of her new book, Why Am I Like This?, about a dating story that taught her what self-abandonment really looks like. Learn the better questions to ask yourself, how nervous system regulation changes the story you tell yourself, and how to stop people pleasing and start choosing you.

    Come see me on tour! https://sabrinazohar.com/tour

    Pre-order Sabrina's book coming out October 2026,⁠⁠ "Why Am I Like This?"⁠⁠

    Get your free workbook and access to the companion course after pre-ordering 'Why Am I Like This?' by filling out the form at the bottom of the page at ⁠http://sabrinazohar.com/book⁠

    Take the new and improved dating quiz! ⁠sabrinazohar.com/quiz⁠

    If you’re ready to slow down, trust your instincts, and break your old dating patterns, the Healthy Relationship Foundations Course walks you through it step-by-step  ⁠⁠HERE!⁠⁠

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    Get merch for The Sabrina Zohar Show ⁠⁠HERE!⁠⁠ 

    Don't forget to follow ⁠⁠Sabrina⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠The Sabrina Zohar Show⁠⁠ on Instagram and ⁠⁠Sabrina ⁠⁠on TikTok! Video now available on ⁠⁠YOUTUBE!⁠⁠

    Chapters:

    00:00 Stop Asking Why: Ask Better Questions

    04:03 Why Self-Awareness Isn't Enough

    07:06 How to Trust Yourself and Choose You

    09:41 The Strange Situation Attachment Study

    13:10 Family Patterns and Outgrowing People

    16:04 Feeling Insecure? Stop Being Perfect

    18:37 Childhood Trauma and Anxious Attachment

    21:42 Abandoning Yourself to Get Chosen

    25:09 Self-Abandonment Is a Trauma Response

    28:41 Third-Person Self-Talk Stops Rumination

    Disclaimer: The Sabrina Zohar Show, formerly known as Do The Work, is not affiliated with A.Z & associates LLC in any capacity.

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    37 min
  • 228: You're Not Healing. You're Just Consuming Content…

    Why does healing feel so hard, and why doesn't "regulating your nervous system" fix it? Nervous system expert Masha Kay returns to break down what the internet gets wrong about nervous system regulation, why regulation has become the new perfectionism, and what capacity really means in dating and relationships. We talk about why someone can love you and still not meet your needs, how to handle being triggered by a text, why "if he wanted to, he would" is bad advice, and what's actually going on when an avoidant partner shuts down.

    Masha explains somatic experiencing and titration in plain terms, how to stop ruminating and overthinking, and why building stability in your whole life matters more than any quick trick for calming anxiety. If you're dealing with anxious attachment, a painful breakup, emotional triggers, or healing from childhood patterns, this episode gives you real tools for healing trauma, feeling safe in your body, and building healthier relationships.

    Come see me on tour! https://sabrinazohar.com/tour

    Pre-order Sabrina's book coming out October 2026,⁠⁠ "Why Am I Like This?"⁠⁠

    Get your free workbook and access to the companion course after pre-ordering 'Why Am I Like This?' by filling out the form at the bottom of the page at ⁠http://sabrinazohar.com/book⁠

    Take the new and improved dating quiz! ⁠sabrinazohar.com/quiz⁠

    If you’re ready to slow down, trust your instincts, and break your old dating patterns, the Healthy Relationship Foundations Course walks you through it step-by-step  ⁠⁠HERE!⁠⁠

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    Join Masha's course Befriend, an 8-week self-paced foundations course on the nervous system. Listeners can use code SABRINA for $100 off

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    • Chapters:

      00:00 Nervous System Regulation Myths

      05:16 What Dysregulation Really Looks Like

      10:44 Why Love Isn't Enough in Relationships

      16:43 Healing Your Whole Life, Not Just Dating

      22:27 Feeling Safe Around Difficult Family

      27:08 Somatic Experiencing Explained

      33:11 Titration: Why Slow Healing Works

      38:38 Are You Really Doing the Work?

      43:34 How to Handle Triggers in Dating

      50:20 Avoidant Attachment and Overthinking

      Disclaimer: The Sabrina Zohar Show, formerly known as Do The Work, is not affiliated with A.Z & associates LLC in any capacity.

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      1 hr
    • 227: How To Actually Handle A Breakup…

      How do you get over a breakup without making it mean something is wrong with you? In the final episode of the Things To Do and Not To Do series, Sabrina breaks down what to do and what not to do during and after a breakup, from why no contact matters (and why it shouldn't be used to make your ex miss you) to how to handle the urge to text your ex, stop ruminating, and accept that closure is a decision you make, even when you never get the conversation. She also covers processing anger and grief, moving on from someone who broke up with you months ago, staying civil with an ex you work with or co-parent with, and seeing your ex on dating apps.

      Whether you got dumped or did the dumping, this episode will help you stop tying rejection to your self-worth, let go of who you hoped they would become, and heal after heartbreak without rushing it. Plus, Sabrina shares her tool of the week, the unsent letter, a simple exercise for releasing what you never got to say so you can finally move on.

      Come see me on tour! https://sabrinazohar.com/tour

      Pre-order Sabrina's book coming out October 2026,⁠⁠ "Why Am I Like This?"⁠⁠

      Get your free workbook and access to the companion course after pre-ordering 'Why Am I Like This?' by filling out the form at the bottom of the page at ⁠http://sabrinazohar.com/book⁠

      Take the new and improved dating quiz! ⁠sabrinazohar.com/quiz⁠

      If you’re ready to slow down, trust your instincts, and break your old dating patterns, the Healthy Relationship Foundations Course walks you through it step-by-step  ⁠⁠HERE!⁠⁠

      Product of the week! https://sabrinazohar.com/product-details/product/69e909bae71ea81b10c2a97c

      Get Ad free ⁠⁠HERE!⁠⁠ 

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      Want to work with Sabrina? ⁠⁠HERE!⁠⁠ 

      Get merch for The Sabrina Zohar Show ⁠⁠HERE!⁠⁠ 

      Don't forget to follow ⁠⁠Sabrina⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠The Sabrina Zohar Show⁠⁠ on Instagram and ⁠⁠Sabrina ⁠⁠on TikTok! Video now available on ⁠⁠YOUTUBE!⁠⁠

      Chapters:

      00:00 How to Handle Getting Dumped

      03:12 Don't Make a Breakup About Your Worth

      06:34 Why You Can't Stop Thinking About Your Ex

      09:08 Processing Anger and Grief After Breakup

      11:48 Breakup Withdrawal and No Contact

      14:30 How to Walk Away From an Ex

      17:23 How to Get Closure After a Breakup

      20:08 When You're the One Who Ended It

      22:15 Seeing Your Ex on Dating Apps

      24:42 Unsent Letter Exercise for Heartbreak

      Disclaimer: The Sabrina Zohar Show, formerly known as Do The Work, is not affiliated with A.Z & associates LLC in any capacity.

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      31 min
    • 226: Do's And Don'ts For Dating And Relationships

      The dos and don'ts of dating and relationships, from the first date to years in. Sabrina covers what to do and not do before, during, and after a first date: stop the endless texting, set boundaries and non-negotiables, watch for reciprocity and consistency, and stop falling for potential and breadcrumbs.

      Then the relationship dos and don'ts: responding to bids for connection, communicating so your partner actually hears you, handling jealousy without surveillance, and keeping the dating habits that build a healthy, secure relationship.

      Come see me on tour! https://sabrinazohar.com/tour

      Pre-order Sabrina's book coming out October 2026,⁠⁠ "Why Am I Like This?"⁠⁠

      Get your free workbook and access to the companion course after pre-ordering 'Why Am I Like This?' by filling out the form at the bottom of the page at ⁠http://sabrinazohar.com/book⁠

      Take the new and improved dating quiz! ⁠sabrinazohar.com/quiz⁠

      If you’re ready to slow down, trust your instincts, and break your old dating patterns, the Healthy Relationship Foundations Course walks you through it step-by-step  ⁠⁠HERE!⁠⁠

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      Get Ad free ⁠⁠HERE!⁠⁠ 

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      Want to work with Sabrina? ⁠⁠HERE!⁠⁠ 

      Get merch for The Sabrina Zohar Show ⁠⁠HERE!⁠⁠ 

      Don't forget to follow ⁠⁠Sabrina⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠The Sabrina Zohar Show⁠⁠ on Instagram and ⁠⁠Sabrina ⁠⁠on TikTok! Video now available on ⁠⁠YOUTUBE!⁠⁠

      Chapters:

      00:00 Breadcrumbs and Bare Minimum Dating

      04:22 Dating Dos and Don'ts Before a Date

      07:18 Falling for the Idea of Someone

      11:04 Big Conversations on a First Date

      15:20 What to Do on a First Date

      18:26 Why Texting Builds False Intimacy

      22:36 Reciprocity and Consistency in Dating

      25:25 Relationship Dos and Don'ts

      29:11 Jealousy and Opposite Sex Friendships

      33:46 How to Track Bids for Connection

      Disclaimer: The Sabrina Zohar Show, formerly known as Do The Work, is not affiliated with A.Z & associates LLC in any capacity.

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      41 min
    • 225: Am I Too Late To Find Love? With Tamsen Fadal

      This one is about feeling behind. The belief that you missed your window, that everyone else got the memo, that whatever you want is off the table now because of your age. We are answering the questions you keep sending in: how to date after divorce without carrying the last relationship into the next one, how to stop treating the apps like a second job, whether age gaps actually work and where they stop working, and how to make the kids decision when everyone has an opinion about it except you.

      We also get into why so many of us stay in relationships that are hurting us and call it love, what it actually takes to rebuild after a divorce or a breakup that flattened you, and why perimenopause is a conversation you should be having in your 30s instead of finding out at 47. Tamsen Fadal, journalist and author of How to Menopause, joins me for it. Nobody is behind. You are just on your own timeline.

      Come see me on tour! https://sabrinazohar.com/tour

      Pre-order Sabrina's book coming out October 2026,⁠⁠ "Why Am I Like This?"⁠⁠

      Get your free workbook and access to the companion course after pre-ordering 'Why Am I Like This?' by filling out the form at the bottom of the page at ⁠http://sabrinazohar.com/book⁠

      Take the new and improved dating quiz! ⁠sabrinazohar.com/quiz⁠

      If you’re ready to slow down, trust your instincts, and break your old dating patterns, the Healthy Relationship Foundations Course walks you through it step-by-step  ⁠⁠HERE!⁠⁠

      Get Ad free ⁠⁠HERE!⁠⁠ 

      Watch on Spotify. Spotify subscribers get fewer ads on my video.

      Want to work with Sabrina? ⁠⁠HERE!⁠⁠ 

      Get merch for The Sabrina Zohar Show ⁠⁠HERE!⁠⁠ 

      Don't forget to follow ⁠⁠Sabrina⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠The Sabrina Zohar Show⁠⁠ on Instagram and ⁠⁠Sabrina ⁠⁠on TikTok! Video now available on ⁠⁠YOUTUBE!⁠⁠

      Chapters:

      00:00 From News Anchor To Menopause Advocate

      05:24 What You Look For Changes With Age

      09:15 Divorce, Debt, And Starting Over

      13:38 Knowing When To Leave A Relationship

      18:48 What A Healthy Relationship Feels Like

      24:19 The Pressure To Have Kids

      29:35 How To Decide If You Want Children

      35:58 Do Age Gaps Actually Work

      40:12 Dating App Burnout And Discouragement

      45:48 How To Stop Feeling Behind

      Disclaimer: The Sabrina Zohar Show, formerly known as Do The Work, is not affiliated with A.Z & associates LLC in any capacity.

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      52 min
    • 224: Stop Asking Everyone But Yourself

      You already know the answer. You just keep asking everyone but yourself: him, your friends, your therapist, a stranger with a podcast, anyone who will confirm what you already feel. Sabrina gets into why outsourcing your worth feels safer than trusting your own read, and what happens when you let someone else's behavior become the verdict on your value. He pulled away, so you must be too much. She chose someone else, so you must be nothing.

      Listener questions on telling a gut feeling apart from relationship anxiety and ROCD, love bombing and ghosting, staying in a situationship that keeps regressing, and chasing emotionally unavailable men while writing off the available ones as doormats. Anxious and avoidant attachment, reassurance seeking, the abandonment wound, boundaries, and how to stop handing over the pen so your own knowing finally counts.

      Come see me on tour! https://sabrinazohar.com/tour

      Pre-order Sabrina's book coming out October 2026,⁠⁠ "Why Am I Like This?"⁠⁠

      Get your free workbook and access to the companion course after pre-ordering 'Why Am I Like This?' by filling out the form at the bottom of the page at ⁠http://sabrinazohar.com/book⁠

      Take the new and improved dating quiz! ⁠sabrinazohar.com/quiz⁠

      If you’re ready to slow down, trust your instincts, and break your old dating patterns, the Healthy Relationship Foundations Course walks you through it step-by-step  ⁠⁠HERE!⁠⁠

      Product of the week! https://amzn.to/3UAsfKI

      Get Ad free ⁠⁠HERE!⁠⁠ 

      Watch on Spotify. Spotify subscribers get fewer ads on my video.

      Want to work with Sabrina? ⁠⁠HERE!⁠⁠ 

      Get merch for The Sabrina Zohar Show ⁠⁠HERE!⁠⁠ 

      Don't forget to follow ⁠⁠Sabrina⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠The Sabrina Zohar Show⁠⁠ on Instagram and ⁠⁠Sabrina ⁠⁠on TikTok! Video now available on ⁠⁠YOUTUBE!⁠⁠

      Chapters:

      00:00 Are They Into Me Or Am I Reading In

      03:09 Would You Be Proud Of Your Life

      05:23 Gut Feeling Or Relationship Anxiety

      08:02 Why Green Flags Feel Uncomfortable

      11:23 Owning Your Part In What Repeats

      15:45 Stop Romanticizing The Bare Minimum

      19:16 How To Validate Yourself

      23:11 Chasing Someone Who Is Pulling Away

      27:18 The Red Flags You Ignore Early On

      31:34 Losing Weight Won't Make Them Stay

      Disclaimer: The Sabrina Zohar Show, formerly known as Do The Work, is not affiliated with A.Z & associates LLC in any capacity.

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      40 min
    • 223: Things To Do And Not Do When Single

      How do you actually get okay being alone? In part one of a three part series, Sabrina answers your questions about being single: how to stop wanting a relationship so badly, how to grieve a breakup or a divorce without rushing the healing, and how to rebuild your identity when it was wrapped up in someone else. She gets into why making dating your hobby keeps you stuck, and the difference between feeling lonely and just being bored.

      She also covers the dating app validation loop and the delete then re-download cycle on Hinge and Bumble, why anxious and avoidant people are drawn to each other, the research on how fear of being single leads people to settle for less responsive partners, and the three non-negotiables and boundaries that changed her dating life. Plus a tool of the week and a product of the week.

      Come see me on tour! https://sabrinazohar.com/tour

      Pre-order Sabrina's book coming out October 2026,⁠⁠ "Why Am I Like This?"⁠⁠

      Get your free workbook and access to the companion course after pre-ordering 'Why Am I Like This?' by filling out the form at the bottom of the page at ⁠http://sabrinazohar.com/book⁠

      Take the new and improved dating quiz! ⁠sabrinazohar.com/quiz⁠

      If you’re ready to slow down, trust your instincts, and break your old dating patterns, the Healthy Relationship Foundations Course walks you through it step-by-step  ⁠⁠HERE!⁠⁠

      Product of the week! https://a.co/d/08HxSyv2

      Get Ad free ⁠⁠HERE!⁠⁠ 

      Watch on Spotify. Spotify subscribers get fewer ads on my video.

      Want to work with Sabrina? ⁠⁠HERE!⁠⁠ 

      Get merch for The Sabrina Zohar Show ⁠⁠HERE!⁠⁠ 

      Don't forget to follow ⁠⁠Sabrina⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠The Sabrina Zohar Show⁠⁠ on Instagram and ⁠⁠Sabrina ⁠⁠on TikTok! Video now available on ⁠⁠YOUTUBE!⁠⁠

      Chapters:

      00:00 Why Being Single Feels Like Failure

      03:24 Build A Full Life While Single

      06:52 Don't Make Dating Your Hobby

      10:25 Choose People Who Choose You

      13:26 No One Is Coming To Save You

      17:26 Stop Wanting A Relationship So Bad

      20:53 When Are You Ready To Date Again

      24:14 Rebuild Your Identity After A Breakup

      26:57 Dating App Validation Loop

      30:23 Take Yourself Out This Week

      Disclaimer: The Sabrina Zohar Show, formerly known as Do The Work, is not affiliated with A.Z & associates LLC in any capacity.

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      38 min
    • 222: How Do You Actually Choose Yourself?

      What does loving yourself actually look like when it isn't bubble baths, face masks, or affirmations you don't believe? Sabrina breaks down the real difference between self-love and self-esteem, what the self-compassion research says about anxiety and resilience, and why your inner critic isn't your enemy but a survival strategy you learned somewhere. She also tells the story of the guy who said he wasn't attracted to her two months in, why she walked away that night, and how she met her partner five days later.

      This one covers how to stop self-abandoning in dating, three questions to ask yourself on every first date, why proximity and timing matter more than love, how to find closure after being ghosted, how to rebuild self-worth after getting dumped, and how to set boundaries when someone disrespects your time. If you keep accepting low effort, treating rejection like proof you're not enough, or waiting to feel worthy before you act like it, this is your episode on how to actually choose yourself.

      Come see me on tour! https://sabrinazohar.com/tour

      Pre-order Sabrina's book coming out October 2026,⁠⁠ "Why Am I Like This?"⁠⁠

      Get your free workbook and access to the companion course after pre-ordering 'Why Am I Like This?' by filling out the form at the bottom of the page at ⁠http://sabrinazohar.com/book⁠

      Take the new and improved dating quiz! ⁠sabrinazohar.com/quiz⁠

      If you’re ready to slow down, trust your instincts, and break your old dating patterns, the Healthy Relationship Foundations Course walks you through it step-by-step  ⁠⁠HERE!⁠⁠

      Product of the week! https://amzn.to/4gzWSat

      Get Ad free ⁠⁠HERE!⁠⁠ 

      Watch on Spotify. Spotify subscribers get fewer ads on my video.

      Want to work with Sabrina? ⁠⁠HERE!⁠⁠ 

      Get merch for The Sabrina Zohar Show ⁠⁠HERE!⁠⁠ 

      Don't forget to follow ⁠⁠Sabrina⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠The Sabrina Zohar Show⁠⁠ on Instagram and ⁠⁠Sabrina ⁠⁠on TikTok! Video now available on ⁠⁠YOUTUBE!⁠⁠

      Chapters:

      00:00 What Self-Love Actually Means

      03:47 3 Questions To Ask On A Date

      05:55 Story Time: Before I Met Ryan

      08:59 The Red Flags I Ignored

      11:28 When He Said He Wasn't Attracted

      13:56 Why Timing Matters More Than Love

      16:06 How To Stop Judging Yourself

      19:52 Self-Worth After Getting Dumped

      23:02 The Client Who Wasted My Time

      26:34 Loving Yourself After Being Ghosted

      Disclaimer: The Sabrina Zohar Show, formerly known as Do The Work, is not affiliated with A.Z & associates LLC in any capacity.

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      39 min
    • 221: Can You Get Them To Change?

      Discernment in dating is not about spotting every red flag, it's about not creating green ones that were never there. Sabrina opens with the story of the emotionally unavailable man she spent years making excuses for, then breaks down the difference between anxiety and intuition, why your gut is quiet and your anxiety comes with a story, and how the halo effect keeps you ignoring obvious incompatibility. She covers boundaries versus walls, whether "high standards" are self-trust or self-protection, how to trust yourself again after being lied to, and why limerence and fantasy keep you stuck in situationships that were never going anywhere.

      If you're tired of overthinking texts, playing detective with attachment styles, and hoping someone becomes who you need them to be, this one is for you. See it for what it is, not for what you want it to be.

      Pre-order Sabrina's book coming out October 2026,⁠⁠ "Why Am I Like This?"⁠⁠

      Get your free workbook and access to the companion course after pre-ordering 'Why Am I Like This?' by filling out the form at the bottom of the page at ⁠http://sabrinazohar.com/book⁠

      Take the new and improved dating quiz! ⁠sabrinazohar.com/quiz⁠

      If you’re ready to slow down, trust your instincts, and break your old dating patterns, the Healthy Relationship Foundations Course walks you through it step-by-step  ⁠⁠HERE!⁠⁠

      Get Ad free ⁠⁠HERE!⁠⁠ 

      Watch on Spotify. Spotify subscribers get fewer ads on my video.

      Want to work with Sabrina? ⁠⁠HERE!⁠⁠ 

      Get merch for The Sabrina Zohar Show ⁠⁠HERE!⁠⁠ 

      Don't forget to follow ⁠⁠Sabrina⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠The Sabrina Zohar Show⁠⁠ on Instagram and ⁠⁠Sabrina ⁠⁠on TikTok! Video now available on ⁠⁠YOUTUBE!⁠⁠

      Chapters:

      00:00 Why The Spark Can Be Dangerous

      02:42 Falling For The Fantasy Not Him

      05:52 Anxious Texting And Chasing Crumbs

      09:30 What Discernment Actually Means

      11:47 Is It Your Gut Or Your Anxiety?

      14:11 Boundaries Vs Walls In Dating

      17:17 High Standards Or Fear Of Intimacy

      19:26 Trusting Yourself After Being Lied To

      21:40 The Evidence Vs Story Exercise

      25:04 Stop Hoping They'll Change

      Disclaimer: The Sabrina Zohar Show, formerly known as Do The Work, is not affiliated with A.Z & associates LLC in any capacity.

      Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

      33 min

    About The Sabrina Zohar Show

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    The Sabrina Zohar Show is your no-BS guide to dating, relationships, and coming home to yourself. Hosted by @sabrina.zohar, this podcast dives deep into the realities of modern love, anxious attachment, and the personal growth it takes to build meaningful connections- not just with others, but with yourself.

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