Today, Jillian explores the profound and often painful experience of the dark night of the soul—a period of deep existential crisis triggered by major life changes such as breakups, loss, or a sense of stagnation. She breaks down the misconceptions around this challenging phase, explaining that it is not a punishment but a natural part of life’s evolution.

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In this special Valentine's Day episode of Jillian on Love, Jillian shares nine essential, yet often overlooked, lessons in self-love and self-acceptance. Whether you're single, in a relationship, or somewhere in between, these insights will help you cultivate a deeper sense of self-worth, make better choices, and create healthier relationships. From radical acceptance to knowing your value, Jillian unpacks the mindset shifts that will empower you to have your own back—no matter where you are in your love journey.

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Today, Jillian speaks with renowned narcissism expert Dr. Ramani to unpack the true meaning of narcissistic relationships and why the term is often misused. They explore the red flags, the psychological toll of these relationships, and why leaving can feel impossible. Dr. Ramani shares expert insights on healing, setting boundaries, and breaking free from toxic patterns, while also answering a heartfelt listener question about escaping a painful cycle. If you've ever struggled with self-doubt in a relationship or wondered how to protect yourself from emotional manipulation, this episode is a must-listen.

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Today, Jillian tackles one of the hardest truths in love: you can’t convince someone to love you. She shares heartfelt advice and personal insights from her book, It Begins with You, while answering two listener stories—one about heartbreak after years of unreciprocated love and another about the pain of sudden rejection after a first love. Through their experiences, Jillian offers compassionate guidance on letting go with dignity and recognizing the difference between fighting for love and fighting for yourself.

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What’s it like to marry someone 18 years older and build a thriving relationship through life’s many changes? In this episode, Jillian sits down with Valeria Lipovetsky—model turned entrepreneur, mother of three, and content creator—to explore her journey of love, growth, and resilience. Valeria opens up about navigating an age gap marriage, the wisdom her mother shared before she said “I do,” and how she and her husband keep their connection strong after 13 years together. They dive into the challenges of personal evolution, the impact of parenting on relationships, and the importance of honest communication and self-awareness.

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In this very special episode, Jillian shares the first chapter of her transformative new book, It Begins with You, launching TOMORROW, January 14th. Centered on the empowering truth that every relationship begins with the one we have with ourselves, Jillian dives into themes like personal responsibility, breaking unhealthy patterns, and learning how to create fulfilling, secure relationships. As a thank you to her loyal listeners, she’s offering this exclusive sneak peek of the audiobook to inspire reflection and growth in 2025

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In this deeply personal and vulnerable episode of Jillian on Love, Jillian reflects on her own experiences of feeling powerless in relationships and the journey to reclaim her voice. Featuring a heartfelt reading from her new book, It Begins With You (out January 14th), she shares raw insights and practical tools to help listeners identify their needs, communicate authentically, and build emotional security for healthier, more fulfilling relationships.

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As we close out the year, Jillian offers a heartfelt guide to self-reflection and personal growth, exploring key questions that illuminate how we navigate loneliness, shame, and emotional discomfort. She shares actionable advice on building healthier habits, strengthening relationships, and approaching conflict with empathy. Jillian also discusses how to heal from betrayal and heartbreak, drawing on her own experiences to inspire listeners to let go of past pain and embrace 2025 with intention and self-compassion. This is an episode for anyone seeking deeper fulfillment and connection in the new year.

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Jillian unpacks the viral "Black Cat and Golden Retriever" dating theory that has taken over social media. She explores its heteronormative roots, its misguided take on relationship dynamics, and why it sets people up for failure. She dissects the archetypes of the aloof femme fatale and the obsessive pursuer, shedding light on how they perpetuate insecurity and avoid true intimacy. She offers practical advice on fostering healthier relationships, maintaining individuality, and breaking free from toxic dating myths.

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Today, Jillian opens up and dives deep into the roots of our fears in relationships, uncovering how childhood conditioning and self-esteem impact our romantic lives. She shares personal stories, profound insights, and actionable advice to help you break toxic cycles, understand your emotional triggers, and build healthier, more fulfilling relationships. This episode is a powerful reminder that true healing begins with you.

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