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You may want love, connection, and intimacy… yet still feel overwhelmed, misunderstood, or suddenly disconnected when relationships get close.

If this resonates, you may have a Dismissive Avoidant Attachment Style, and it’s not because something is “wrong” with you. These patterns are learned subconscious strategies designed to keep you safe.

In this video, Thais Gibson walks you through 10 powerful signs of Dismissive Avoidant attachment, helping you understand where these patterns come from and how they impact your relationships, so you can begin creating deeper, healthier connections without losing yourself.

In This Episode, You’ll Learn:

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00:00 – The Attachment Styles Have Different Subconscious Rules for Love

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When you finally stop trying… it can feel like everything suddenly shifts.

And with a Fearful Avoidant, that shift often activates a powerful, and confusing, internal reaction.

Understanding what actually happens inside a fearful avoidant when you’re done trying can give you clarity, closure, and the confidence to stop second-guessing yourself.

🎥 Episode Summary

In today’s video, Thais Gibson breaks down the 4 major internal reactions a fearful avoidant experiences when they realize you’re truly done trying.

You’ll learn why Fearful Avoidants often swing between distance and pursuit, how abandonment fears get activated, and why reconnecting doesn’t always mean they’re ready for a healthy relationship.

This episode is especially important if you:

✨ Key Takeaways

✔ Why a Fearful Avoidant’s fear of abandonment activates when you stop trying

⏱ TIMESTAMPS

00:00 – What Happens When A Fearful Avoidant Realizes You’re Done Trying

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Have you ever felt deeply turned off, or suddenly rejected, and had no idea why?

What repels one attachment style can feel normal or even familiar to another.

And many of the biggest turn offs in relationships aren’t conscious choices, they’re subconscious survival patterns.

When those patterns go unhealed, they often create codependent dynamics that quietly sabotage connection.

🎥 Episode Summary

In today’s video, Thais Gibson reveals the biggest turn offs for each attachment style, Secure, Anxious, Fearful Avoidant, and Dismissive Avoidant, and explains why these patterns trigger attraction, withdrawal, or shutdown at a nervous system level.

You’ll learn how subconscious conditioning, unmet childhood needs, and emotional self-abandonment shape what we’re drawn to, and what pushes us away, often without us realizing it.

This episode is especially powerful if you:

✨ Key Takeaways

✔ Why secure attachment is turned off by inconsistency and emotional games

⏱ TIMESTAMPS

00:00 – The Truth About Each Attachment Style's Biggest Turn Offs

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When a fearful avoidant shuts down, it can feel final, like the door is completely closed.

But there are specific moments when a fearful avoidant becomes open to repair, reconnection, and real change.

And understanding what actually moves the needle can save you from chasing, over-functioning, or abandoning yourself in the process.

🎥 Episode Summary

In today’s video, Thais Gibson breaks down the key conditions that make a fearful avoidant want to fix things after a rupture or breakup and just as importantly, when it’s healthier to step back instead.

You’ll learn how fearful avoidant deactivating strategies are driven by unmet needs, core wounds, fear of enmeshment, and emotional disconnection and how authentic communication, boundaries, and nervous system safety can reopen connection without manipulation.

This episode is essential if you’re:

✨ Key Takeaways

✔ Why fearful avoidants often feel “done” — until specific needs are met

00:00 – When Fearful Avoidants Want to Fix the Relationship

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If you have an Anxious Attachment style, the urge to get closure from someone who pulled away, ghosted you, or shut down can feel overwhelming. But chasing closure from the wrong person often keeps you stuck, emotionally drained, and unable to move on.

In this video, Thais Gibson explains why seeking closure isn’t actually the need and what to do instead to regain emotional stability, certainty, and peace.

🎥 EPISODE SUMMARY

When someone won’t explain themselves or emotionally meet you after a breakup, it can feel impossible to move forward. But what feels like a need for closure is often a need for certainty.

In this episode, Thais walks Anxious Attachment styles through a grounded, practical framework to stop chasing answers from someone who isn’t capable of giving them. You’ll learn how to evaluate whether a person can provide healthy closure, how to understand the emotional “void” left behind, and how to begin meeting your own unmet needs so you can heal more quickly and fully.

These steps help you stop looping in rumination, regain emotional safety, and build secure self-connection, without needing anything from your ex.

✨ KEY TAKEAWAYS

• Why seeking closure from the wrong person keeps you stuck

⏱ TIMESTAMPS

00:00 – Seeking Closure Is Not Always the Answer

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If you have a Fearful Avoidant attachment style, the people you feel drawn to are not random. They are often deeply connected to your subconscious comfort zone, nervous system conditioning, and unhealed emotional wounds.

In this video, Thais Gibson explains the four most common archetypes Fearful Avoidants are attracted to and exactly what each attraction reveals about where you are in your healing journey and what needs to shift to move toward secure attachment.

🎥 EPISODE SUMMARY

Fearful Avoidants often want emotionally healthy, secure relationships, yet repeatedly find themselves pulled toward partners who feel unsafe, unavailable, or overwhelming. Why?

Because the subconscious mind is wired for familiarity, not happiness.

In this episode, you’ll learn how subconscious conditioning and nervous system dysregulation drive attraction patterns, why chaos can feel like chemistry, and how different attachment archetypes mirror specific inner wounds. Thais walks through four relationship archetypes, including other Fearful Avoidants, Dismissive Avoidants, Anxious partners, and narcissistic types, so you can clearly identify your patterns and begin healing them at the root.

✨ KEY TAKEAWAYS

• Why attraction is driven by subconscious safety, not conscious desire

⏱ TIMESTAMPS

00:00 – You May Be Attracted to the Wrong People

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When a Dismissive Avoidant suddenly pulls away, stops responding, or “goes missing,” it can feel confusing, painful, and deeply personal. But what’s actually happening beneath the surface is far more complex and far less about you than you might think.

In this episode, Thais Gibson breaks down the real emotional and nervous-system processes driving dismissive avoidance, including shame responses, fear of vulnerability, and learned patterns around conflict and emotional expression.

If you’ve ever been on the receiving end of this behavior, or if you recognize these patterns in yourself, this video offers clarity, compassion, and a powerful path forward.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode

Why Dismissive Avoidants often withdraw after moments of emotional closeness

⏱️ Timestamps

00:00 – What the Dismissive Avoidant Is REALLY DOING When They Go Missing

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Do you feel yourself pulling away when someone gets close — only to panic when they create distance?

This hot and cold cycle is one of the most painful and confusing patterns of the Fearful Avoidant attachment style. In this video, Thais Gibson explains exactly why this cycle happens, what’s really being triggered beneath the surface, and how to finally break free from it in a healthy, secure way.

If you’ve ever felt stuck in make-up and break-up dynamics, struggled to settle into relationships, or felt overwhelmed by closeness and distance at the same time — this episode is for you.

Fearful Avoidants often experience intense emotional polarities — craving closeness while simultaneously fearing it. In this episode, Thais breaks down:

• Why Fearful Avoidants feel overwhelmed when partners pursue them

You’ll learn how these patterns form, why they repeat, and what it actually takes to feel safe, settled, and secure in relationships — without losing yourself.

✨ Key Takeaways

• Why Fearful Avoidants struggle to trust and settle into relationships

⏱️ Timestamps

00:00 – Hot and Cold Patterns

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If you’ve ever felt torn between craving closeness and pulling away, this episode will help you finally understand why.

Fearful Avoidant attachment can feel like living in constant emotional contradiction, longing for intimacy while fearing it at the same time. In this episode, Thais Gibson dives deep into the inner world of the Fearful Avoidant, unpacking the subconscious patterns, core wounds, and survival strategies that quietly shape relationships from the inside out.

You’ll gain compassionate insight into what’s really happening beneath the surface and, more importantly, how healing and secure connection are absolutely possible.

In this conversation, Thais explores three core patterns that define the Fearful Avoidant inner world:

• The push–pull dynamic of yearning for closeness while fearing emotional safety

Through real-life examples, personal reflection, and practical guidance, you’ll learn how Fearful Avoidant behaviors develop and how awareness, communication, and subconscious rewiring can transform relationships from the inside out.

Whether you identify as Fearful Avoidant or love someone who does, this episode offers clarity, compassion, and real tools for healing.

✨ Key Takeaways

• Why Fearful Avoidants experience intense emotional push–pull

⏱️ Timestamps

00:00 – Attachment Style Quiz

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When someone you care about suddenly pulls away, it can feel terrifying and deeply confusing. You may find yourself asking: Are they discarding me… or is this just normal avoidant behavior?

In this video, Thais Gibson breaks down the clear emotional, behavioral, and neurological signs that indicate whether a Dismissive Avoidant is preparing to discard and what you can do to protect your heart, stop self-blame, and respond from a grounded, empowered place.

This video also walks you through practical steps to regulate emotional dysregulation, interrupt painful self-judgment patterns, and set boundaries that honor your needs, regardless of how the other person chooses to show up.

In This Video, You’ll Learn:

Timestamps:

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