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In this insightful episode, we delve into the five common protest behaviors displayed by dismissive avoidant attachment styles, offering listeners practical strategies for healthier communication and deeper understanding.

Join us as we break down stonewalling, emotional withdrawal, flaw-finding, numbing out, and relationship-threatening behaviors, exploring their root causes and effective ways to address them.

Whether you're a dismissive avoidant, in a relationship with one, or simply curious about attachment theory, this episode provides essential tools to navigate and improve these dynamics.

Don't miss our tips for co-regulation and fostering meaningful connections.

00:00 - Intro

01:14 - 1 — Stonewalling

01:55 - Why Do DA’s Stonewall?

05:56 - Core Themes in DA's and Stonewalling

11:07 - How to Communicate Healthily

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15:37 - 2 — Threatening to End the Relationship

16:53 - Changing Your Persona vs Adjusting a Behavior

18:12 - Do They Actually Want to Leave the Relationship?

20:40 - If You're on the Receiving End

28:17 - Rocket Money

30:09 - 3 — Withdrawing When Emotionally Overwhelmed

36:05 - DAs and Co-Regulation

40:54 - 4 — Blaming, Deflecting, and Flaw-Finding

43:31 - Flaw-Finding Stories

53:35 - 5 — Numbing Out and Soothing Through External Comforts

59:31 - Conclusion

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In this episode, we explore "5 Strange Things Every Avoidant Needs to Be Happy in Love."

Discover the surprising and essential needs of individuals with avoidant attachment styles and how understanding these can create a healthier, more connected relationship.

From the importance of independence and empathy to harmony, literal communication, and non-judgment, we break down how these elements help avoidants thrive in love.

Whether you’re navigating your own attachment style or seeking to understand your partner better, this episode provides practical tips and tools for creating a balanced and fulfilling connection. Tune in now for actionable insights to transform your relationship!

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Are you wondering how to spot a securely attached partner or friend? Discover the five essential traits of secure attachment and how they lead to more balanced, fulfilling relationships.

In today’s episode, Thais Gibson reveals the five key signs of securely attached individuals and how these traits foster healthy, fulfilling relationships. From open communication to constructive conflict resolution and maintaining a balanced life, this episode breaks down what makes secure attachment so empowering. Listen now to discover the traits that create lasting connections and learn how to bring them into your relationships.

00:00:00 – Introduction: Identifying Secure Attachment

00:00:37 – Sign #1: Open Communication

00:01:50 – Sign #2: Sharing Vulnerably

00:02:15 – Comfort with Emotional Transparency

00:03:02 – Sign #3: Handling Conflict Constructively

00:04:15 – Sign #4: Practicing Interdependence

00:05:13 – Sign #5: Setting and Respecting Boundaries

00:05:53 – Balance in Life Through Healthy Boundaries

00:06:00 – Conclusion: Fostering Secure Relationships

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In this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, we explore the unique behaviors of individuals with a fearful avoidant attachment style.

From hypervigilance to a high need for control, we discuss the root causes of these patterns, how they impact relationships, and actionable insights for creating healthier dynamics.

Co-hosts dive into personal experiences, share relatable anecdotes, and offer tips for both fearful avoidants and their partners. Whether you’re navigating your own attachment style or supporting a loved one, this episode provides a compassionate and educational lens on these quirks.

Episode Timestamps:

00:00 - Intro

02:40 - Hypervigilance

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18:11 - A High Need for Control

25:46 - They’re Easy to Trigger

29:53 - "If You Love Me, You Should Know What I Need”

37:34 - Integrated Attachment Theory Certification

38:41 - Asking a Lot of Questions

42:26 - They Won't Ask for Help

47:16 - They Can Be Extreme

52:45 - They Can Be Very Competitive

54:56 - They Often Personalize Things

1:00:58 - Conclusion

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Do you feel frustrated by the silent treatment in your relationship? Discover the hidden reasons behind avoidant behavior and learn how to handle it with clarity and compassion.

In today’s episode, Thais Gibson uncovers the real reasons behind the silent treatment used by avoidant attachment styles in relationships. Explore how emotional triggers, fear of vulnerability, and subconscious coping mechanisms contribute to this behavior. Listen now to learn practical tools for navigating these dynamics and fostering healthier communication.

Timestamps

00:00:00 – Introduction: Understanding the Silent Treatment

00:00:16 – What Is the Silent Treatment?

00:01:00 – Why Avoidants Use the Silent Treatment

00:01:30 – Emotional Triggers Behind Stonewalling

00:02:45 – Avoidant Coping Mechanisms Explained

00:03:40 – Healthy vs. Unhealthy Silent Treatment

00:04:20 – Manipulation vs. Emotional Self-Regulation

00:05:10 – How to Differentiate Intentions Behind Silence

00:05:50 – The Role of Emotional Literacy in Avoidants

00:06:30 – Tips for Dealing With the Silent Treatment

00:07:00 – Free Resources for Resolving Conflict

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In this episode, we dive into the unique quirks and challenges of dismissive avoidant attachment styles in relationships, from their unexpected affection for pets over partners to struggles with planning and eye contact. Join our hosts, Thais Gibson and Mike DiZio, as they share personal experiences and expert insights into how these behaviors stem from childhood patterns and how they affect relationships with friends, family, and romantic partners.

We’ll explore actionable strategies for navigating these dynamics, including how to communicate effectively, set boundaries, and foster secure attachment. Whether you're in a relationship with a dismissive avoidant partner or simply curious about attachment theory, this episode offers valuable tips and a deeper understanding of these behaviors.

Tune in for relatable anecdotes, enlightening discussions, and practical advice on building healthier, more connected relationships.

Timestamps:

00:00 - Intro

03:58 - They’re More Affectionate with Animals

09:11 - They Might Seem Selfish

14:30 - They Can Be Frugal

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25:44 - They Don't Like Making Social Plans Ahead of Time

39:18 - They Don't Make a Lot of Eye Contact

42:07 - They Can Seem Aloof or Apathetic

47:03 - They Don't Ask You to Meet Their Needs

54:05 - They May Not Be Present in Conversations

1:36:09 - Conclusion

Don’t miss this insightful and engaging conversation!

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Are you questioning whether to continue investing in a relationship with an avoidant partner? Learn the three essential steps to evaluate your situation and make the best decision for your happiness and growth.

In today’s episode, Thais Gibson outlines a step-by-step approach to help you decide whether to stay with or leave an avoidant partner. By setting clear boundaries, focusing on personal growth, and assessing the other person’s willingness to grow, you’ll gain clarity and confidence in your decision. Listen now to discover actionable tools for navigating challenging dynamics and fostering healthier relationships.

Timestamps

00:00:00 – Should You Stay or Leave?

00:00:47 – Signs of Losing Yourself in the Relationship

00:01:12 – The Three-Step Process for Decision-Making

00:02:45 – Key Question: Are They Willing to Do the Work?

00:05:08 – Setting Deadlines for Relationship Investment

00:07:30 – The Importance of Personal Growth During Evaluation

00:09:20 – Recognizing When the Needle Isn’t Moving

00:11:45 – Clarity and Confidence in Your Decision

00:13:50 – Evaluating Healthy Relationship Reciprocity

00:15:00 – Tools to Heal and Rebuild Self-Worth

00:17:45 – Final Thoughts: Leading by Example

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Are you struggling to identify healthy relationship dynamics? Discover the five key traits of a securely attached partner and learn how to spot and nurture these qualities in your relationships.

In today’s episode, Thais Gibson shares how to recognize the key traits of a securely attached partner, including emotional regulation, vulnerability, and the balance between independence and intimacy. Learn practical tools for identifying secure communication styles and fostering interdependence in your relationships. Listen now to discover actionable steps for spotting secure partners and becoming one yourself.

Timestamps

00:00:00 – Introduction: Struggling to Find the Right Partner?

00:00:47 – Why Insecure Attachment Styles Are Common

00:01:12 – Positive Framing in Communication

00:02:45 – Working Through Challenges and Vulnerability

00:03:50 – The Power of Empathy and Emotional Validation

00:05:15 – Setting Boundaries While Validating Emotions

00:06:45 – Balancing Independence and Intimacy: Interdependence

00:08:14 – Avoiding Codependency and Counterdependency

00:10:22 – Self-Soothing vs. Co-Regulating with a Partner

00:12:07 – The Role of Needs in Conflict Resolution

00:14:00 – Final Thoughts: Becoming and Recognizing a Secure Partner

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In this insightful episode, Thais Gibson explores the profound effects of parentification on attachment styles and adult relationships. Learn how being forced into a caregiver role as a child impacts your ability to set boundaries, trust others, and receive love as an adult. Listen now to discover practical tools for healing these patterns and reclaiming emotional freedom in your relationships.

Do you feel burdened by always being the caregiver in your relationships? Discover how parentification affects your emotional health and learn to break free from these patterns to create balanced, fulfilling connections.

Timestamps:

00:00:00 - Introduction to parentification and its impacts

00:01:30 - The two types of parentification: emotional and instrumental

00:04:50 - How parentification shapes adult attachment styles

00:08:10 - Signs of parentification in childhood

00:11:45 - Why parentification leads to over-giving and burnout

00:15:30 - Emotional patterns formed from unmet childhood needs

00:20:20 - The struggle to trust and accept love as an adult

00:24:00 - Common symptoms of being a parentified child

00:28:15 - Key steps to reprogram beliefs rooted in parentification

00:33:40 - Building balance between care for self and others

00:38:20 - Practical tools to heal and thrive in relationships

00:44:00 - Final insights and next steps for healing

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