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Fearful avoidants often struggle to trust love fully—not because they don’t want it, but because their subconscious mind has absorbed painful stories from childhood and past relationships. In this episode, Thais Gibson breaks down the 5 most common lies fearful avoidants tell themselves about love, why these beliefs feel so real, and how to reprogram them for secure, lasting connection.

You’ll discover the hidden fears beneath these lies, how they silently sabotage relationships, and what practical tools you can use to recondition your nervous system and subconscious to open up to love without fear.

You’ll learn:

✅ The false beliefs fearful avoidants carry about being unworthy of love

✅ Why they expect abandonment and betrayal—even in healthy relationships

✅ How self-protection strategies become self-sabotage

✅ Tools to question and reframe these painful lies into empowering truths

✅ How nervous system regulation makes love feel safe again

✅ The key mindset shifts that unlock secure and fulfilling relationships

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The lies fearful avoidants believe aren’t the truth—they’re old stories ready to be rewritten. Learn how to release them and embrace secure, lasting love. Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and share this episode. 💗

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Have you ever wondered what happens when you finally pull away from a dismissive avoidant partner? Instead of you chasing, the roles reverse—and it can change everything. In this episode, Thais Gibson explains the psychological and emotional impact your distance has on a dismissive avoidant, why it triggers them differently than when you over-give, and how this dynamic can either spark growth or reinforce disconnection .

You’ll learn how avoidants process separation beneath the surface, why your boundaries often awaken feelings they’ve been avoiding, and how to use space intentionally without falling into power struggles.

You’ll learn:

✅ What pulling away signals to a dismissive avoidant at the subconscious level

✅ Why avoidants may begin to recognize your worth only once you stop over-pursuing

✅ How your emotional independence can reduce their fear of engulfment

✅ The difference between pulling away with resentment vs. pulling away with healthy self-respect

✅ Practical ways to hold your ground while leaving the door open for healthier reconnection

✅ Why creating balance between closeness and autonomy is key to secure love

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Sometimes, pulling away is the most powerful thing you can do. Learn what happens when you stop chasing and start honoring yourself. Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and share this episode. 💗

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If you’ve ever been suddenly cut off by a dismissive avoidant partner, you may have experienced what’s known as the “dismissive avoidant discard.” In this episode, Thais Gibson breaks down what this painful dynamic really is, why it happens, and how to protect your sense of self-worth when it occurs.

Thais explains the underlying fears that drive dismissive avoidants to push people away—often right when relationships deepen—and why their withdrawal has more to do with survival wiring than your value. Most importantly, she shares how to reframe the discard so you stop personalizing it, and instead use the experience as a catalyst for boundaries, clarity, and secure attachment.

You’ll learn:

✅ What the dismissive avoidant discard looks like in real relationships

✅ The subconscious fears and childhood conditioning driving this pattern

✅ Why their withdrawal is not a reflection of your worth or lovability

✅ How to stop self-blame and reclaim your power after being discarded

✅ Steps to set healthier standards and attract secure, consistent love

✅ How to turn painful endings into opportunities for deep healing

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The “discard” may feel personal, but it isn’t a reflection of your value. Learn what’s really happening—and how to rise stronger. Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and share this episode. 💗

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If you’ve ever shared a home—or tried to—with a dismissive avoidant, you know it can feel like a rollercoaster of independence, distance, and confusion. In this episode, Thais Gibson uncovers the 5 most shocking realities of living with a dismissive avoidant partner, and how you can respond without losing yourself .

From their strong need for independence, to their discomfort with conflict, to their hidden craving for connection they rarely admit, you’ll walk away with clarity and tools to stop personalizing their behavior. Thais shows how to honor your needs while navigating theirs, so you can either build a healthier relationship or know when it’s time to step back.

You’ll learn:

✅ Why dismissive avoidants withdraw at home even when they care about you

✅ The role of independence and autonomy in their daily life

✅ Why they often avoid conflict and prefer to shut down rather than engage

✅ The subtle ways they still crave connection despite appearing detached

✅ Tools to balance their patterns with your own needs and boundaries

✅ How to protect your self-worth and avoid the trap of self-blame

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Living with a dismissive avoidant doesn’t have to leave you confused and drained. Learn the 5 shocking truths—and how to thrive with secure love instead. Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and share this episode! 💗

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Dismissive avoidants often keep their deepest thoughts and fears completely hidden, even from their closest partners. But in counseling, once trust is built, surprising truths emerge. In this episode, Thais Gibson pulls back the curtain on five confessions dismissive avoidants have shared in private sessions, insights that explain their distance, hesitation, and hidden needs.

From the belief they’re “not cut out” for relationships to the way conflict can rattle them for days, you’ll see the avoidant attachment style in a whole new light. More importantly, you’ll learn how to build trust, communicate effectively, and create a connection where their needs (and yours) can truly be met.

You’ll learn:

✅ The hidden belief that they’re “better off alone”—and why it’s a learned defense, not the truth

✅ Why emotional closeness can feel unsafe, even when they crave love

✅ How childhood emotional neglect plants deep shame that’s triggered by even small feedback

✅ Why conflict overwhelms them—and how they can learn healthy resolution skills

✅ The surprising reason they often feel their needs aren’t met (even with a loving partner)

✅ How to meet each other halfway through clear, safe communication

✅ Access to a free course on the 5 key pillars of secure relationships

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If you’ve ever been confused by avoidant behavior, this episode will help you see the deeper truth and give you tools to bridge the gap. Subscribe, rate, and share it with someone navigating avoidant relationships. 💗

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Have you ever dated a dismissive avoidant who seemed amazing at first—only to slowly pull away around the 6-month mark? You’re not imagining it. In this episode, Thais Gibson reveals the hidden avoidant timeline—why avoidants often show their “best self” early on, but gradually reveal deeper fears, wounds, and patterns as attachment builds.

You’ll learn the 6 stages of relationships, why avoidants change gears between month 6 and 12, and the specific fears that surface once emotional bonds deepen. Thais also shares practical communication tips to help you navigate the power struggle stage and strengthen your connection instead of losing it.

You’ll learn:

✅ The 6 stages of every relationship—and where most couples break up

✅ Why avoidants seem warm and connected early, then start to pull away

✅ How “feelings minus fears” explains their shift after real attachment forms

✅ The specific fears that trigger avoidant distancing behaviors

✅ How flaw-finding becomes a subconscious self-protection strategy

✅ Communication techniques to resolve conflict without pushing them further away

✅ How to frame needs positively so avoidants feel safe enough to meet them

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Why do avoidant partners seem distant—yet strangely attracted to certain people? And why do they finally connect with people who do one surprising thing? If you’ve been chasing avoidants or caught in a cycle of overgiving, this episode will change everything.

Thais Gibson reveals the psychological root of why avoidants fall for people who prioritize themselves—and how your relationship to yourself creates the attraction blueprint. You’ll learn about the shadow self, how repressed traits influence attraction, and what makes avoidants feel safe, intrigued, and emotionally engaged.

You’ll learn:

✅ Why avoidants are drawn to people who own their space and set boundaries

✅ How people-pleasing is really self-abandonment (and how to stop)

✅ What the “relationship shadow” is—and why it shapes your patterns

✅ Real examples of how repressed assertiveness attracts avoidant partners

✅ How to transform your inner relationship and attract emotionally available people

✅ Why secure people are also drawn to self-connected individuals

✅ A free resource to start shadow work and healing today

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Fearful avoidants often give off mixed signals: they crave closeness but fear it, they want deep love but struggle to trust it. So what do they actually need to feel safe and fulfilled in a relationship?

In this illuminating episode, Thais Gibson breaks down the essential emotional and psychological needs of the fearful avoidant attachment style—many of which are hidden even to the FA themselves. Whether you're healing as an FA or loving one, this episode gives you a roadmap for creating real connection, security, and lasting growth.

You’ll learn:

✅ The 11 core needs every fearful avoidant must have met to sustain a relationship

✅ Why emotional depth is a lifeline—not just a preference—for FAs

✅ How trust is built (and broken) through congruency and transparency

✅ The underrated importance of presence, safety, and freedom

✅ How novelty, growth, and independence coexist with emotional closeness

✅ The role of subconscious chaos—and how to replace it with stability

✅ Why appreciation and consistency are game changers for long-term love

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Does your partner suddenly pull away from sex once things start getting serious? Has intimacy gone cold after a strong beginning? If you're in love with a dismissive avoidant—or healing these patterns yourself—this episode brings clarity and compassion to a confusing relationship dynamic.

Thais Gibson explores why dismissive avoidants often shut down around intimacy after the honeymoon phase, what’s happening neurologically and emotionally behind the scenes, and how to tell whether your relationship can be healed—or whether it’s time to walk away. This is a must-listen for anyone seeking clarity around love, intimacy, and self-worth.

You’ll learn:

✅ Why sex becomes triggering for DAs after emotional bonds deepen

✅ The subconscious childhood programming that fuels intimacy fears

✅ How DA self-protection kicks in through emotional and sexual withdrawal

✅ The real reason dismissive avoidants dissociate during sex

✅ How performance anxiety and fear of criticism shut down desire

✅ Communication tools to reestablish trust and connection

✅ Why unconditional acceptance (not pressure) reopens emotional safety

✅ When to set a deadline—and how to decide if the relationship is worth it

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Why does sex sometimes bring you closer—and other times make you want to run? If you or your partner identify as fearful avoidant, you might feel both deeply connected and overwhelmed during intimacy. This episode explains why.

Thais Gibson explores how the fearful avoidant attachment style bonds during sex, what they need to feel safe, and why physical connection can open—or close—the door to emotional intimacy. Learn how sex interacts with neurochemistry, trust, and vulnerability, and discover how to turn intimacy into a gateway for healing instead of confusion or fear.

You’ll learn:

✅ The 5 pillars of relationship connection—and where sex fits in

✅ Two common bonding patterns for fearful avoidants in relationships

✅ How neurochemicals like oxytocin and dopamine affect bonding

✅ Why sex can lead to emotional shutdown for FAs without trust

✅ How to prevent the push-pull dynamic triggered by vulnerability

✅ What FAs need most to feel safe, respected, and seen during sex

✅ How to create a more secure, emotionally fulfilling connection through intimacy

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