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If you have an Anxious Attachment style, the urge to get closure from someone who pulled away, ghosted you, or shut down can feel overwhelming. But chasing closure from the wrong person often keeps you stuck, emotionally drained, and unable to move on.

In this video, Thais Gibson explains why seeking closure isn’t actually the need and what to do instead to regain emotional stability, certainty, and peace.

🎥 EPISODE SUMMARY

When someone won’t explain themselves or emotionally meet you after a breakup, it can feel impossible to move forward. But what feels like a need for closure is often a need for certainty.

In this episode, Thais walks Anxious Attachment styles through a grounded, practical framework to stop chasing answers from someone who isn’t capable of giving them. You’ll learn how to evaluate whether a person can provide healthy closure, how to understand the emotional “void” left behind, and how to begin meeting your own unmet needs so you can heal more quickly and fully.

These steps help you stop looping in rumination, regain emotional safety, and build secure self-connection, without needing anything from your ex.

✨ KEY TAKEAWAYS

• Why seeking closure from the wrong person keeps you stuck

⏱ TIMESTAMPS

00:00 – Seeking Closure Is Not Always the Answer

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If you have a Fearful Avoidant attachment style, the people you feel drawn to are not random. They are often deeply connected to your subconscious comfort zone, nervous system conditioning, and unhealed emotional wounds.

In this video, Thais Gibson explains the four most common archetypes Fearful Avoidants are attracted to and exactly what each attraction reveals about where you are in your healing journey and what needs to shift to move toward secure attachment.

🎥 EPISODE SUMMARY

Fearful Avoidants often want emotionally healthy, secure relationships, yet repeatedly find themselves pulled toward partners who feel unsafe, unavailable, or overwhelming. Why?

Because the subconscious mind is wired for familiarity, not happiness.

In this episode, you’ll learn how subconscious conditioning and nervous system dysregulation drive attraction patterns, why chaos can feel like chemistry, and how different attachment archetypes mirror specific inner wounds. Thais walks through four relationship archetypes, including other Fearful Avoidants, Dismissive Avoidants, Anxious partners, and narcissistic types, so you can clearly identify your patterns and begin healing them at the root.

✨ KEY TAKEAWAYS

• Why attraction is driven by subconscious safety, not conscious desire

⏱ TIMESTAMPS

00:00 – You May Be Attracted to the Wrong People

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When a Dismissive Avoidant suddenly pulls away, stops responding, or “goes missing,” it can feel confusing, painful, and deeply personal. But what’s actually happening beneath the surface is far more complex and far less about you than you might think.

In this episode, Thais Gibson breaks down the real emotional and nervous-system processes driving dismissive avoidance, including shame responses, fear of vulnerability, and learned patterns around conflict and emotional expression.

If you’ve ever been on the receiving end of this behavior, or if you recognize these patterns in yourself, this video offers clarity, compassion, and a powerful path forward.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode

Why Dismissive Avoidants often withdraw after moments of emotional closeness

⏱️ Timestamps

00:00 – What the Dismissive Avoidant Is REALLY DOING When They Go Missing

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Do you feel yourself pulling away when someone gets close — only to panic when they create distance?

This hot and cold cycle is one of the most painful and confusing patterns of the Fearful Avoidant attachment style. In this video, Thais Gibson explains exactly why this cycle happens, what’s really being triggered beneath the surface, and how to finally break free from it in a healthy, secure way.

If you’ve ever felt stuck in make-up and break-up dynamics, struggled to settle into relationships, or felt overwhelmed by closeness and distance at the same time — this episode is for you.

Fearful Avoidants often experience intense emotional polarities — craving closeness while simultaneously fearing it. In this episode, Thais breaks down:

• Why Fearful Avoidants feel overwhelmed when partners pursue them

You’ll learn how these patterns form, why they repeat, and what it actually takes to feel safe, settled, and secure in relationships — without losing yourself.

✨ Key Takeaways

• Why Fearful Avoidants struggle to trust and settle into relationships

⏱️ Timestamps

00:00 – Hot and Cold Patterns

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If you’ve ever felt torn between craving closeness and pulling away, this episode will help you finally understand why.

Fearful Avoidant attachment can feel like living in constant emotional contradiction, longing for intimacy while fearing it at the same time. In this episode, Thais Gibson dives deep into the inner world of the Fearful Avoidant, unpacking the subconscious patterns, core wounds, and survival strategies that quietly shape relationships from the inside out.

You’ll gain compassionate insight into what’s really happening beneath the surface and, more importantly, how healing and secure connection are absolutely possible.

In this conversation, Thais explores three core patterns that define the Fearful Avoidant inner world:

• The push–pull dynamic of yearning for closeness while fearing emotional safety

Through real-life examples, personal reflection, and practical guidance, you’ll learn how Fearful Avoidant behaviors develop and how awareness, communication, and subconscious rewiring can transform relationships from the inside out.

Whether you identify as Fearful Avoidant or love someone who does, this episode offers clarity, compassion, and real tools for healing.

✨ Key Takeaways

• Why Fearful Avoidants experience intense emotional push–pull

⏱️ Timestamps

00:00 – Attachment Style Quiz

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When someone you care about suddenly pulls away, it can feel terrifying and deeply confusing. You may find yourself asking: Are they discarding me… or is this just normal avoidant behavior?

In this video, Thais Gibson breaks down the clear emotional, behavioral, and neurological signs that indicate whether a Dismissive Avoidant is preparing to discard and what you can do to protect your heart, stop self-blame, and respond from a grounded, empowered place.

This video also walks you through practical steps to regulate emotional dysregulation, interrupt painful self-judgment patterns, and set boundaries that honor your needs, regardless of how the other person chooses to show up.

In This Video, You’ll Learn:

Timestamps:

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Moving in together can feel like a major relationship milestone, but when one partner has a Dismissive Avoidant attachment style, it can also surface unexpected challenges.

In this episode, Thais Gibson and co-host Mike DiZio walk through what to realistically expect when you first move in with a Dismissive Avoidant, why certain behaviors show up, and how to navigate this transition without taking things personally or creating unnecessary conflict.

If you’re considering moving in with a Dismissive Avoidant, or already have, this conversation offers clarity, compassion, and practical strategies.

Living together often fast-tracks couples into the power struggle stage of relationships, and Dismissive Avoidants can feel especially activated by this shift. In this episode, you’ll learn why Dismissive Avoidants may retreat, equate comfort with love, struggle with compromise, and fear expectations, even when they deeply care about their partner.

Thais and Mike explore:

Most importantly, this episode emphasizes that these patterns are understandable, workable, and not signs that the relationship is doomed, especially when both partners are willing to communicate and do the healing work.

Key Takeaways

✅ Dismissive Avoidants often retreat into personal space to self-regulate after moving in

Timestamps

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Dismissive Avoidants don’t commit because they’re pressured, convinced, or chased. In fact, those approaches usually push them further away. Commitment happens when specific emotional conditions are met, conditions rooted in their childhood conditioning, core fears, and unmet needs.

In this episode, Thais Gibson explains the real reasons Dismissive Avoidants propose, marry, and invest long-term and why these patterns often surprise people who are dating or loving them.

In this video, Thais breaks down the four core drivers behind long-term commitment for Dismissive Avoidants, drawing from attachment theory, conditioning, and years of clinical experience.

You’ll learn:

Why Dismissive Avoidants are often trying to avoid breakups more than commitment itself

This episode also explains what actually helps move the relationship forward, without suppressing your own needs or walking on eggshells.

✨ Key Takeaways

✔ Dismissive avoidants often fear commitment because they associate closeness with pain

⏱️ Timestamps

00:00 – What Makes Dismissive Avoidants Commit Long-Term?

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How Do You Actually Bond With a Dismissive Avoidant, Without Losing Yourself?

If you’ve ever felt confused, disconnected, or like you’re walking on eggshells in a relationship with a Dismissive Avoidant, this video is for you. Bonding is possible, but only when it’s done in a way that honors both your needs and theirs.

In this episode, Thais Gibson breaks down the real core needs that make dismissive avoidants feel safe, connected, and bonded, while also showing you how to communicate your own needs without self-abandoning or creating resentment .

In This Video, You’ll Learn:

Why unmet needs quietly starve relationships over time

Key Takeaways:

✔ Dismissive Avoidants bond through clear boundaries, autonomy, and emotional safety

⏱ Timestamps:

00:00 – What Makes Dismissive Avoidants Feel Bonded?

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The Fearful Avoidant attachment style is often labelled as unpredictable, confusing, or “mixed signals.” But behind the push-pull, the self-protection, and the sudden emotional shifts is something deeper: hidden childhood pain and conditioning that never got healed.

This video uncovers that pain — the chaos, broken trust, abandonment fears, and betrayal wounds that wire the subconscious nervous system to equate love with danger. You’ll learn how conditioning forms, why your nervous system responds before you’re even conscious of it, and how ancient wisdom + neuroscience come together to create a practical path forward.

Most importantly, we walk through a step-by-step exercise to rewire the core wounds Fearful Avoidants carry, and finally stop reliving the emotional past in the present.

You’ll learn:

Episode Breakdown:

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