July 25, 2025

THIS Is How A Fearful Avoidant Bonds During Sex

15 minutes

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Why does sex sometimes bring you closer—and other times make you want to run? If you or your partner identify as fearful avoidant, you might feel both deeply connected and overwhelmed during intimacy. This episode explains why.

Thais Gibson explores how the fearful avoidant attachment style bonds during sex, what they need to feel safe, and why physical connection can open—or close—the door to emotional intimacy. Learn how sex interacts with neurochemistry, trust, and vulnerability, and discover how to turn intimacy into a gateway for healing instead of confusion or fear.

You’ll learn:

✅ The 5 pillars of relationship connection—and where sex fits in

✅ Two common bonding patterns for fearful avoidants in relationships

✅ How neurochemicals like oxytocin and dopamine affect bonding

✅ Why sex can lead to emotional shutdown for FAs without trust

✅ How to prevent the push-pull dynamic triggered by vulnerability

✅ What FAs need most to feel safe, respected, and seen during sex

✅ How to create a more secure, emotionally fulfilling connection through intimacy

Meet the Host

Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships.

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