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Improve Emotional and Physical Intimacy With the Attachment Styles & Sex Course. Normally $250, Free for Life When You Start Your 7-Day Trial Between July 24–31. Keep It Even If You Cancel. Limited-time Offer:
Fearful avoidants often give off mixed signals: they crave closeness but fear it, they want deep love but struggle to trust it. So what do they actually need to feel safe and fulfilled in a relationship?
In this illuminating episode, Thais Gibson breaks down the essential emotional and psychological needs of the fearful avoidant attachment style—many of which are hidden even to the FA themselves. Whether you're healing as an FA or loving one, this episode gives you a roadmap for creating real connection, security, and lasting growth.
You’ll learn:
✅ The 11 core needs every fearful avoidant must have met to sustain a relationship
✅ Why emotional depth is a lifeline—not just a preference—for FAs
✅ How trust is built (and broken) through congruency and transparency
✅ The underrated importance of presence, safety, and freedom
✅ How novelty, growth, and independence coexist with emotional closeness
✅ The role of subconscious chaos—and how to replace it with stability
✅ Why appreciation and consistency are game changers for long-term love
Meet the Host
Helpful Resources:
📚 Read the Learning Love Book
🎧 Discover More Podcast Episodes
📝 Read the PDS Blog
Let’s Connect on Socials:
#FearfulAvoidant #AttachmentStyles #ThaisGibson #RelationshipNeeds #SubconsciousHealing #EmotionalDepth #TrustAndSafety #MixedSignals #AvoidantAnxiousDynamic #SecureLove
Found this episode helpful or healing? Please subscribe, rate, and share it with someone navigating a relationship with a fearful avoidant. Your support helps more people love and be loved better. 💗
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Improve Emotional and Physical Intimacy With the Attachment Styles & Sex Course. Normally $250, Free for Life When You Start Your 7-Day Trial Between July 24–31. Keep It Even If You Cancel. Limited-time Offer:
Fearful avoidants often give off mixed signals: they crave closeness but fear it, they want deep love but struggle to trust it. So what do they actually need to feel safe and fulfilled in a relationship?
In this illuminating episode, Thais Gibson breaks down the essential emotional and psychological needs of the fearful avoidant attachment style—many of which are hidden even to the FA themselves. Whether you're healing as an FA or loving one, this episode gives you a roadmap for creating real connection, security, and lasting growth.
You’ll learn:
✅ The 11 core needs every fearful avoidant must have met to sustain a relationship
✅ Why emotional depth is a lifeline—not just a preference—for FAs
✅ How trust is built (and broken) through congruency and transparency
✅ The underrated importance of presence, safety, and freedom
✅ How novelty, growth, and independence coexist with emotional closeness
✅ The role of subconscious chaos—and how to replace it with stability
✅ Why appreciation and consistency are game changers for long-term love
Meet the Host
Helpful Resources:
📚 Read the Learning Love Book
🎧 Discover More Podcast Episodes
📝 Read the PDS Blog
Let’s Connect on Socials:
#FearfulAvoidant #AttachmentStyles #ThaisGibson #RelationshipNeeds #SubconsciousHealing #EmotionalDepth #TrustAndSafety #MixedSignals #AvoidantAnxiousDynamic #SecureLove
Found this episode helpful or healing? Please subscribe, rate, and share it with someone navigating a relationship with a fearful avoidant. Your support helps more people love and be loved better. 💗
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