Do you ever feel like being strong and successful in life makes love feel harder, not easier? In this episode, I sit down with Adrienne Everheart to unpack the real meaning of feminine energy—and why so many smart women unknowingly lead with masculine energy in relationships. We explore how to stop overfunctioning, express emotions in a way men can truly hear, and create connection without losing your power. You’ll learn how to recognize when you’re trying to control outcomes, how to lean back without becoming passive, and what emotional intelligence really looks like in love. If you’re ready to feel seen, heard, and cherished without changing who you are, this conversation is for you. Tune in now.

About today’s guest:

Her expertise is in navigating the intricacies of Feminine Energy, commitment, engagement, and rekindling lost connections. Adrienne emphasizes the importance of Feminine Warmth, the art of Leaning Back & Letting it Unfold, and the effectiveness of walking away when necessary. By empowering women to create their own vibrant lives, express their authentic feelings, and practice Feminine Energy practices, your relationship will align with your values and naturally unify Masculine and Feminine Energies.

Her best-selling ebook is “500 Ways to Talk to a Man” and her top selling course is the “ABCs to Get Him Back.” You can find Adrienne in her private coaching group iHeartLoveAcademy, or her Youtube Channel and Podcast “This Podcast is For Women.”

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What if the ultimate freedom—sexual, creative, personal—doesn’t actually lead to lasting happiness? In this thought-provoking episode of the Love U Podcast, I explore Miranda July’s All Fours and the larger cultural conversation around women embracing the “middle-aged sexual awakening.” But here’s the twist—I haven’t read the book. Instead, I take a hard look at the genre, ask whether the same story would be celebrated if the protagonist were a man, and challenge the idea that chasing novelty leads to fulfillment. Plus, for the first time ever, my wife Bridget joins me to share her own post-divorce journey. Tune in for honest insights, a few laughs, and a reality check on whether “having it all” is actually worth it.

Article mentioned in this episode: https://open.substack.com/pub/freddiedeboer/p/miranda-julys-lucrative-fantasies?r=5xgs2

Sometimes, we stay in relationships hoping things will change—but what if letting go is the real path to love? In this Love U Podcast, I talk with Carolina, a Love U graduate, about her journey from painful relationships to finding a healthy, fulfilling partnership. We discuss why smart women ignore red flags, how to break patterns of over-giving, and the importance of choosing a man who takes care of you. Carolina’s story is proof that love doesn’t have to be hard—you just need the right strategy. If you’re tired of second-guessing your relationships and ready to date with confidence, this episode will show you how.

In today’s dating world, is admitting you want marriage and kids considered needy? In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I break down why so many women hesitate to state their relationship goals—and why that hesitation might be working against them. We’ll explore how dating app ambiguity benefits men, why setting clear expectations isn’t a turnoff, and how being upfront can actually attract the right partner faster. If you’re tired of situationships and want a relationship that leads to commitment, this episode will give you the clarity and confidence to own what you want. Tune in now and let me know—do you agree or disagree?

Source for statistics mentioned in today’s episode: https://www.profgalloway.com/marrying-up-and-marrying-down/#comments

Are you constantly striving to do everything “right” in dating, only to feel exhausted and stuck? In this episode of the Love U Podcast, Evan sits down with licensed psychotherapist Rhoda Mills Sommer to unpack the hidden struggles of high-achieving women in relationships. They explore the dangers of perfectionism, the importance of embracing uncertainty, and why real compatibility isn’t about similarity—it’s about respect, curiosity, and the ability to navigate hard conversations. Rhoda shares wisdom from over 40 years of experience, offering practical insights to help you break free from old patterns and find a truly fulfilling partnership. If you’re ready for a reality check that leads to real change, don’t miss this episode!

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Ever found yourself overanalyzing a guy’s mixed signals, wondering if he’s truly interested—or just keeping you around? In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I break down six clear signs that show when a man is genuinely into you. From prioritizing time together to showing affection and talking about the future, these are the non-negotiable actions that separate relationship-ready men from time-wasters. You’ll also learn why consistency matters more than chemistry and how to stop making excuses for men who just aren’t showing up. If you’re tired of guessing where you stand, this episode gives you the clarity you need to date smarter—and find the love you deserve.

Is it really possible to find love after 40—especially after divorce, disability, and a history of toxic relationships? In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I sit down with my former client Teresa, who opens up about her journey from rock bottom to happily married. We cover how she overcame online dating overwhelm, rebuilt her confidence, and used emotional intelligence to choose the right partner—despite some shocking early challenges (like her now-husband’s surprise baby news). If you’ve ever felt like the odds were stacked against you, Teresa’s story will inspire you and show exactly what’s possible when you trust yourself, do the work, and stay open to love. Listen now and start rewriting your own love story.

Are today’s men too passive—or have women simply become too proactive? In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I break down the modern dating dilemma, where ambitious women feel like they have to chase men just to keep their attention. I’ll explain why this dynamic leaves women exhausted and unfulfilled—and why leaning into your feminine energy can actually attract the kind of confident, proactive partner you want. If you’ve ever wondered whether mirroring works, or if “nice guys” can still step up, this episode has the answers. Tune in and discover how to create a relationship where you feel pursued, valued, and fully cherished.

Struggling with dating dynamics and feeling like you’re giving more than you get? In this episode of the Love U Podcast, dating coach Evan Marc Katz sits down with relationship experts Tarah and EJ Kerwin to break down why so many women overfunction in relationships and how to shift the dynamic. Discover the key to emotional safety, effective communication, and choosing a partner who truly sees, hears, and understands you. Whether you’re dating or in a long-term relationship, these insights will help you create a more balanced, fulfilling connection. Listen now to learn how to build the relationship you deserve.

About Tarah & E.J. Kerwin

Tarah and E.J. Kerwin are relationship experts and the founders of Relationship Renovation, a dedicated therapy practice in Tucson, AZ, committed to helping couples strengthen and transform their relationships. Their flagship venture, the Relationship Renovation Counseling Center, offers therapy grounded in a unique model that emphasizes intentional communication and empathy. With the launch of the Relationship Renovation @ Home Program, they have expanded their reach, providing couples nationwide and globally with structured support to foster relationship growth. Since 2019, they have co-hosted the highly regarded Relationship Renovation Podcast, tackling common relationship challenges with empathy and actionable insights. In 2024, they expanded their impact by launching the Relationship Renovation YouTube channel, further supporting couples on their journey toward healthier, more fulfilling connections.

Check out their Relationship Renovation at Home Program! You can download a sample here.

Where you can find them:

Website: https://relationshiprenovation.com/

Does having sex too soon affect how a man sees you? In this Love U Podcast, I explore why timing matters and how it can shape the course of a relationship. You’ll gain insight into how men think about sex, why patience can deepen connection, and how setting boundaries can shift the dynamic. Whether you’re navigating early dating or wondering where you stand, this episode dives into intimacy, attraction, and long-term compatibility. Tune in now!