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By Evan Marc Katz
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The podcast currently has 649 episodes available.
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Modern dating has created a culture where discomfort is something to escape. But does avoiding difficult conversations protect us—or does it make relationships harder to build? In this episode of The Case for Love, Nick Notas and I explore why so many people avoid conflict and why the courage to communicate honestly is one of the strongest predictors of a healthy relationship. If you’ve ever avoided hard conversation or considered yourself a people pleaser, I hope this makes a difference for you. 🔥 Take my quiz to find out if you’ve been wasting time on the wrong men: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/quiz 💖 Book a call with Evan: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/coaching 📷 Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/realevanmarckatz/ Connect with Nick: Website: https://www.nicknotas.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@NickNotas TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NickNotas

We have more freedom, more choices, and more ways to meet than any generation in history—so why are so many women struggling to create the families they say they want? On this week’s Love U Podcast, I talk with journalist Anna Louie Sussman, author of Inconceivable: The Impossibility of Family in an Age of Uncertainty, about what’s getting in the way. We explore how dating apps have changed the way we choose partners, why successful women may face a numbers problem, and the tension between waiting for the right person and running out of time to build the family you want. It’s a thoughtful conversation about how much of our dating struggle is personal, how much is structural—and what you can actually do about it. 🔥 Take my quiz to find out if you’ve been wasting time on the wrong men: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/quiz 💖 Book a call with Evan: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/coaching 📷 Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/realevanmarckatz/ About Today’s Guest: A former Wall Street Journal and Reuters reporter, Anna Louie Sussman is a contributing Opinion writer at The New York Times. Her work has also appeared in The New Yorker, The Atlantic, The New York Review of Books, The Guardian, New York Magazine, The Cut, MIT Technology Review, Elle, and numerous other publications. She has reported from two dozen countries and is the recipient of numerous grants, fellowships, and awards. Where You Can Find Anna: Website: https://www.annalouiesussman.com/ Instagram: http://instagram.com/annalouiesuss Twitter: https://x.com/annalouiesuss

My clients are accomplished women who have taken control of their lives and succeeded – both academically and careerwise – with intelligence, hard work and resilience. Yet when it comes to finding love I’ve noticed two things: Since success in love requires different skills, women are more likely to give up than to approach it with the same hard work and resilience they do with their careers. The desire to stay in control gets in the way of finding a competent man who steps up to take care of you. Both are challenging ideas. In this episode, I’ll explain why trying to control everything fails miserably in love and why partnership feels harder than everything else you’ve mastered. 🔥 Take my quiz to find out if you’ve been wasting time on the wrong men: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/quiz 💖 Book a call with Evan: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/coaching 📷 Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/realevanmarckatz/

Modern dating has become a game of chicken. Women are told not to chase. Men are told not to come on too strong. Everyone’s so busy avoiding looking needy or too invested that two people who genuinely like each other end up pretending they don’t. In this episode of The Case for Love, Nick Notas and I explain why vulnerability feels risky, how “playing it cool” backfires, and why the best relationships don’t involve keeping score. If you’re tired of second-guessing every text, you don’t want to miss this one. 🔥 Take my quiz to find out if you’ve been wasting time on the wrong men: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/quiz 💖 Book a call with Evan: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/coaching 📷 Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/realevanmarckatz/ Connect with Nick: Website: https://www.nicknotas.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@NickNotas TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NickNotas

In this episode, I explore how biology and culture shape male behavior, why the backlash against toxic masculinity has left decent men unsure how to act, and what women lose when masculinity gets coded as dangerous. If you’re looking for a confident, proactive man without the boorishness and entitlement, watch this episode. You’ll have plenty of reasons for optimism. 🔥 Take my quiz to find out if you’ve been wasting time on the wrong men: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/quiz 💖 Book a call with Evan: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/coaching 📷 Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/realevanmarckatz/
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