A lot of people believe dating apps ruined dating. They’re not entirely wrong. In this episode, Nick Notas and I explain why apps are problematic and what you can do to work around those problems.

If you’re exhausted by modern dating and want to learn how to date online more effectively, you don’t want to miss this episode.

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Have you ever noticed that commitment can feel terrifying even when you’re with the right person? Yeah, me, too.

You spend your whole life looking for a compatible partner and when you finally find one, you feel deep anxiety.

If you’ve ever wondered why a healthy relationship can feel so uncomfortable, this episode will help you understand what’s really going on.

Check it out and let me know your thoughts.

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You’ve gone out with a guy who seemed like he had great potential. Chemistry. Common interests. Connection. Today, I want to explain why it’s easy to mistake a great date for a great boyfriend, and why only time reveals whether you’re actually compatible.

If you keep getting blindsided when a promising relationship goes sideways, this one’s for you.

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In this episode, I explain how insecurity can cause you to overreact to isolated incidents instead of paying attention to a man’s overall pattern of behavior.

If you’ve ever spiraled over something that later turned out to be a misunderstanding—or found yourself questioning a good relationship because of one bad moment—you’ll want to listen to this one all the way through.

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In the first episode of The Case for Love, Nick Notas and I talk about why both men and women blame the opposite sex, what men don’t understand about women, and why the advice you get from your algorithm makes things worse, not better.

If you’re frustrated, this episode will help you see the dating landscape more objectively, and maybe – just maybe – more optimistically, too.

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In this episode, I explain why warmth matters more than competence when it comes to creating real connection, why some people are easy to be around, and how small signals can unintentionally create distance. I also walk you through the three things that make someone respond to you on a date.

If you’re not getting the response you want from the men you like the most, this episode explains what you can do differently.

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We all make compromises in relationships. But what happens when you make a compromise you can’t live with?

In this episode, I explain why saying yes when you mean no doesn’t keep the peace, it builds resentment. As you already know, letting small things slide has a way of creating much bigger problems down the road.

If you’ve ever gone along with something just to avoid conflict, I’ll help you figure out how to hold your boundaries without blowing up your relationship.

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You may have seen the New York Times story about a woman who fell in love with an AI chatbot and defended it as if it were a real relationship. In this episode, I explain why AI companions feel so satisfying, why that satisfaction is misleading, and why they ultimately cannot replace real human connection.

New York Times Article: https://www.nytimes.com/video/opinion/100000010796401/she-has-an-ai-lover-her-son-has-questions.html

In this episode, I explain why so many women hold on in relationships that aren’t giving them what they need, how “maybe someday” keeps you stuck, and why getting a ring from the wrong man won’t bring you the happiness you’re looking for.

If you’ve been waiting for your partner to become someone different, this episode will help you understand why it’s so hard to let go and how to move forward. 

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In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I sit down with Zach Brittle, host of Marriage Therapy Radio, to talk about why good relationships fall apart even when both people care deeply about each other. We get into why two-thirds of relationship conflicts never resolve, how negativity quietly poisons even strong marriages, and why working on yourself is the single best investment you can make in your relationship. If you’ve ever brushed past red flags while dating and wondered if they’d catch up with you later, this conversation is for you.

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