Relationship Truth: Unfiltered

Is Your Relationship Abusive?

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No Relationship is perfect. But when does "not perfect" cross the line into abuse? That's the question Leslie answers in today's episode. 

1. Types of Relationships:

  • Differentiate between difficult, disappointing, and destructive marriages.
  • Difficulties can bring couples closer if handled maturely.
  • There are many external stressors in marriages.

    • 2. Disappointing Marriages:

    • Discuss common expectations that lead to disappointment.
  • Emphasize the importance of accepting imperfections in a spouse.

    • 3. Recognizing Destructive Relationships:

    • Define abusive and destructive relationships.
  • What the Bible teaches about love, harm, and taking responsibility.
  • If an abusive incident happens, it is very important that the behavior does not continue.  

    • 4. Types of Abuse:

    • Emotional, financial, sexual, and spiritual.
  • Leslie explains the motivations behind using these abusive tactics, primarily control and power.
  • What is the impact of abusive tactics on the victim's self-esteem and freedom?

    • 5. Addressing Sexual Abuse:

    • Misconceptions about sexual abuse in marriage.
  • Analyze 1 Corinthians 7 and its interpretation regarding consent.
  • The importance of mutual respect and consent in marital intimacy.

    • 6. Emotional Abuse:

    • Is "emotional abuse" talked about in the Bible?
  • The power of words and their impact on individuals.
  • Scriptural references about the impact of words on relationships.

    • 7. Taking Responsibility:

    • Leslie and Julie discuss the notion of provocation in abusive relationships.
  • The reality of individual responsibility for emotional reactions.
  • Self-awareness and self-improvement is encouraged in order to break the cycle of abuse.

    • 8. Seeking Help:

    • Guidance for individuals in abusive relationships.

    Resources:
    Free test to discover if you're in a destructive relationship
    Kindle version of Leslie's book, "The Emotionally Destructive Marriage"
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    Relationship Truth: UnfilteredBy Leslie Vernick