I was so happy to speak to Aileen Puhlmann, as she brought a completely new view to this topic.

Aileen is Ghanaian-German and a single mother, who has recently moved back to Germany, having lived in South Africa and London. Not to mention her own journey and experiences of getting comfortable within her Blackness to facing racism in Germany.

Aileen made me laugh, made me cry and made me think. The topics went deep. From her approach to dating being a single mum to her expectations of her partner understanding what it means to be Black and the challenges we face.

Sit back, relax and enjoy.