Are you stuck in a dating loop, always attracting the same type of partner—bad boys, emotionally unavailable women, or just plain chaos? Dating Déjà Vu is here to help you break the cycle.

Hosted by Christina Hathaway, a marriage and family therapist and relationship expert, this podcast dives deep into the patterns that keep you stuck, the psychology behind attraction, and how to finally rewrite your love story.

If you're ready to stop swiping right on the same mistakes and start building real, lasting connections, this is the podcast for you!

Comment below what dating or relationship topics you would like to hear about in our future episodes!

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Timestamps:

00:00 Intro
00:22 Host Introduction
00:41 Background in Marriage and Family Therapy
00:56 Podcast Goals and Topics
01:12 Listener Participation and Call-Ins
01:23 Education and Career Background
01:37 Coaching Programs and Podcast Mention
01:50 Personal Journey with Dating
02:07 Family Background and Early Influences
02:21 Mother’s Emotional Regulation Challenges
02:35 Caretaking Patterns in Childhood
02:46 Connection to Dating Behaviors
03:04 Buying Affection and Seeking Validation
03:22 Understanding Parents’ Impact on Relationships
03:39 Moving to Arizona and Social Struggles
03:56 Early Romantic Relationships and Caretaking
04:16 High School Dating Experiences
04:41 College Insecurity and Friend Comparisons
04:57 Trust Issues in Dating
05:10 Developing Self-Worth Narratives
05:27 Acting on Insecurities in Relationships
05:45 The Fixer-Upper Dating Pattern
06:00 Past Dating Mistakes and Reflections
06:18 Recognizing Toxic Patterns
06:36 The Cycle of Relationship Mistakes
06:50 Financial and Emotional Investments in Partners
07:13 Graduate School Struggles and Relationship Burdens
07:28 Rock Bottom and Self-Realization
07:43 Dating Younger Partners and Unhealthy Dynamics
07:55 Recognizing Personal Contributions to Relationship Failures
08:12 Working in Child Crimes and Emotional Impact
08:26 Relationship Breakdowns and Self-Sabotage
08:44 Personal Growth and Self-Discovery
09:01 Self-Reflection and Podcast Tagline Explanation
09:29 Acting on Self-Worth Beliefs
09:46 Understanding Relationship Patterns and Behaviors
10:01 Seeking Validation vs. Genuine Security
10:18 Spiritual Growth and Self-Acceptance
10:34 Healing Journey and Setting Boundaries
10:49 Personal Transformation and Dating Changes
11:07 Meeting Husband on Tinder
11:18 The Reality of Healthy Relationships
11:33 Introducing Reality TV Relationship Analysis
11:49 Early Stages of Husband’s Relationship
12:06 Choosing Security Over Excitement
12:19 Recognizing Unhealthy Dating Patterns
12:34 Reframing Perspectives on Stability in Relationships
12:55 Dating Boundaries and Self-Respect
13:09 Breakup and Moving On
13:27 Recognizing the Importance of Self-Worth
13:46 The Tinder Dating Experience
14:06 Running Into Future Husband Again
14:20 Second First Date and Reconnection
14:37 Developing a Healthy Relationship Dynamic
14:59 Building a Secure and Loving Relationship
15:14 Importance of Mutual Choice in Love
15:47 Relationship with Self and Wellness Coaching
16:02 Self-Worth and Relationship Success
16:17 Connecting Personal Development to Dating
16:30 Recognizing Healthy Love When It Appears
16:46 First Full Episode Preview – Relationship Patterns
17:04 Podcast Subscription and Social Media Promotion
17:19 Reality TV Relationship Segment Naming
17:34 Closing