Cheating is listed as the number one reasons for the failure of black relationships.  What are some of the reasons that men cheat in their relationships?  Are women cheating as much as men?  What are each getting out of the affair that they aren't receiving from their partner?  What are the other factors that drive a woman to want to leave a relationship?  Let's have the discussion and hear both the male and female perspective on the popular trope (when a woman's fed up).