Give a researcher long enough and they will give you plenty of reasons to explain why breathing is bad and why your parents are the reason your lungs now have to live with the trauma of air coming into them. Sounds ridiculous, right? So does blaming your parents for you wanting your house to be clean. Your parents weren't perfect. That doesn't mean everything they did was wrong. The way you do things is not always a response to a negative event. Take responsibility for your life. If you have the ability to blame your parents, you also have the ability to make a change. Do that.