It's Always Personal

It's Always Personal

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It's Always Personal episodes

  • They've Got So Much To Say (Talk Is Even Cheaper Now)
    "Race hustling" is a great small home business. People adamantly talking about major businesses they can't compete in, and have never been involved in, is an interesting way to spend one's precious time. Happy New Year! At a minimum, it’s 2022 now, any person out here pushing that pro athletes’ careers are analogous to slavery has to voice their criticism while presenting detailed solutions or alternative professions. These people, Dr. Boyce Watkins for example, are just like Big Pharma, they don’t sell a viable cure they just profit from talking about their diagnosis - pointing out symptoms.
    2 hr 7 min
  • I Guess This Isn't Microaggression Because We're Both Black, But...

    I guess as a content creator I'm just supposed to ignore the constant attacks from most of the black men I interact with online. I didn't realize expressing an idea could routinely draw the ire of brothers so easily. So, we discuss this on the episode. However, let's talk about supporting one another - shout to Coach Prime (Deion Sanders) for doing unprecedented things at Jackson St. Univ. I also had to touch on two well-written articles that discussed black issues related to Amazon's new urban series Harlem (a piece on ESPN's The Undefeated) and HBO's popular Succession (a piece on Refinery29). Apple TV+ series Swagger's first season came to an end with our look at DMV hoop's phenom Jace Carson life culminating with a reunion with his estranged father. While director/creator Reggie Rock Bythewood did a great job with this scene, I think it doesn't fully flesh out matters from the perspective of Grant Carson (Demetrius Grosse). 

    1 hr 54 min
  • We Should Really Let These Folks Win Before Someone Gets Hurt Exercising Their Rights

    This episode is not about politics, but an observation of how dangerous they're becoming. This episode's been on the shelf for a few weeks while I mulled over a few things. The topics I felt comfortable leaving in include the verdicts of the Rittenhouse and Arbery cases, and then where I am with all of the entertainment I swamped with currently. I know diehard Insecure fans think the series is really an all-time sitcom, but Issa & her team have failed us with this fifth and final season. Succession on HBO might be showing me a little bit too much about wealthy and influential white people. And, blacks folks on soc med are consistent, they tried to ruin Netflix's all-black cowboy western flick The Harder They Fall for me. 

    1 hr 44 min
  • (Certain) Brothers Don't Want to Ever Grow Up

    I've long been amazed at Snoop Dogg's staying power and reinvention game. Admittedly, the last Snoop joint that I spent a lot of time with was "Deep Cover" in 1992. He returned to the music game last week as a part of West Coast royalty super group Mount Westmore. I clicked on the video to support Ice Cube, but for four brothers at or above 50 years old, the lyrics to "Big Subwoofer" had me having another personal conversation with myself. This Snoop topic had me looking in the mirror with regard to my own language (eg b**** and ho) throughout the years. Over the same weekend, Jay-Z's induction into the Rock 'n Roll Hall of Fame went down (and LL Cool J too), and I had to appreciate Hov's rarely celebrated ability to grow up with his lyrical content - as he's went through several life events as a man. Sticking with entertainment, I had to touch on Apple TV+ and Kevin Durant's new series Swagger and whether the streaming service will make any in-roads with Black viewers. Correction: Dr. Dre inducted LL Cool J and not Jay-Z as mentioned in the pod.    

    1 hr 11 min
  • ALBUM REVIEW | Rome Streetz x Ransom COUP de GRÂCE
    Let's leave the headlines of the week alone for change... I got pretty excited with the announcement of a forthcoming collaboration album between Dufflebag Ransom, currently one of the game's illest album makers, and rising lyricist Rome Streetz a couple of months back. As the album's release date neared, Ransom started attaching AOTY - Album of the Year - to his IG posts promoting and mentioning (or teasing) details about Coup de Grace. The album finally arrived and... Well, let's talk through it. You can get the gist of IAP host Wood's thoughts on the overall quality of the project in the first 8-10 minutes. From there the last 30 minutes of the podcast delve into "high altitude" looks at each of the album's 10 records - there's one interlude to complete the project's 11 total tracks.
    45 min
  • A Few Good Men and Masculinity
    Speaking on some biblical details in the previous episode, admittedly, was me getting out over my skis. Let me stick to entertainment references and analogies. There was a great scene in the film A Few Good Men we can learn from with respect to masculinity, misogyny and diversity/inclusion in the workplace. I’m not talking about Col. Jessup’s tale about conquering female superior officers! Or, I can tell you about my recent personal failing with masculinity during a DIY project - a joint task with my wife - at our home on a Saturday morning.
    25 min
  • We Talking Masculinity or Misogyny? (I Sense the Latter)
    I really, really hate to revisit a couple of topics so soon, but since I'm speaking on masculinity and Jason Whitlock's ongoing evangelical work (which resulted in Jalen Rose eagerly trying to answer his call) again, I also decided to do quite a bit of personal sharing this episode. Let's also tackle Lynae Vanee's "In The Comments" video with a trans woman guest, Hope, where they reacted to responses of unconditional fan's of Dave Chappelle's "The Closer." Lastly, or in this episode's lead-off spot, I had to stick close to home and talk about encountering some real generational curses that revolve around... masculinity. Or something.
    2 hr 11 min
  • The Rough Week Ep (Gruden, Chappelle & Any Black That Dare Criticize Deontay Wilder)

    Had to give the IAP treatment to former Las Vegas Raiders coach Jon Gruden's email problems, the LGBTQ community and others fallout after the release of Dave Chappelle's "final" Netflix special The Closer, and the inherent dangers of talking negatively about now twice beaten heavyweight Deontay Wilder following his third and final fight versus undefeated WBC champion Tyson Fury. Oh, in the intro, we had to share how a "male" Karen, or Kenneth, intervened during one of season's final cycling outings while host Wood's travels took him into the Bluegrass State - on two wheels.  

    2 hr 4 min
  • Sports, Sports Media & Indie Podcasting w/ Armon Lee of The Quarter-Lee Report
    Big fight weekend in boxing!!! Admittedly, Bite Down Boxing is a little "on the ropes", for the time being, but after sharing a recent Fury-Wilder 3 panel (search Urban Sports Scene) with The Quarter-Lee Report's Armon Lee et al, it felt refreshing to work those "sweet science" muscles again. Lee, a fellow indie podcaster, has hosted over 200 episodes of his TQLR podcast, and after checking out some of the brother's work I thought a good discussion on sports podcasting and media could unfold. This episode's topics include: Lee's background with podcasting and his outlook on the genre, the life span of the sports debate format, Golden State Warriors' mix of vets and youth, Fury-Wilder 3 storylines,   the trend of athletes acting as today's interviewers and journalists, consuming music in 2021, and the expectation that black athletes act dually as black leaders.
    2 hr 8 min
  • Ain't Nothing More Personal Than This Vaccine Talk!
    This is NOT a discussion about why anyone should or should not get vaccinated. I just couldn't help but weigh in on some of the hypocrisy that I've noticed about vaccination - more specifically on behalf of the anti-vax (or hesitant) side. For example, and this is perfect timing, but there appears to be a correlation between anti-vax folks and die hard fans of former heavyweight champion Deontay Wilder. Wilder fights this weekend in a highly anticipated trilogy bout versus Tyson Fury. Wilder got vaccinated in order for the fight to be scheduled. Do any of his fans care about his decision, or sacrifice, so that they could see the big fight? Other topics on this episode include fellow boxer Bryant Jennings' loss of a pay day due to his vax stance, the NBA's Kyrie Irving and Andrew Wiggins, Nikki Minaj versus Joy Reid, and some points about a Busta Rhymes anti-mask tirade. Remember Malcolm X questioning why white celebrities or artists aren't paraded around as leaders to white Americans?
    1 hr 22 min

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I just got tired of the random redefining of what it is to be Black, or who's a real Black man. It's Always Personal is an attempt to expand on the most widely accepted examples, and stand alone…