It's Monday Podcast

Desire doesn't disappear overnight — it drifts. In this episode, Eric and Natalie get honest about what kills desire in marriage, why withholding is never the weapon you think it is, and what it actually takes to want your spouse again at 42 the way you did at 22. Plus: the silent killer nobody talks about, why scheduling intimacy isn't unromantic, and the one thing that changes everything.

Did I marry the wrong person?

It's one of those questions most people never say out loud — but a lot of people have thought. In this episode, Eric and Natalie get real about what actually happens when that thought shows up in your marriage, why it usually builds over time, and what the Bible actually says about who you married and why.

Spoiler: it's not Greek mythology. (You'll have to listen for that one.)

Whether you're newly married, a few years in, or decades deep — this one's for you.

Marriage isn't just a relationship — it's formation.

In this episode, Pastor Eric and Pastor Natalie get honest about what marriage actually does to you. It's not just about finding the right person. It's about who you become in the process.

They talk about how God uses marriage to shape, stretch, and form you — and why that's good news even when it's hard.

It's Monday is a weekly podcast from Victory City Church.

Marriage hot takes with  Eric and Natalie Morris on the It's Monday Podcast. From funny and relatable to surprisingly deep, this episode covers going to bed angry, overrated date nights, chaos addiction in marriage, and why most recurring fights are really just two unhealed wounds colliding. Real talk for real marriages. New episodes every Monday.

In this episode of the It’s Monday Podcast, we react to comments from one of our most controversial marriage episodes. We discuss leadership in marriage, partnership, exhausted wives, passive husbands, mental load, communication, marriage roles, and answer some of the biggest questions people had.

Some of you agreed.
 Some of you definitely did not.

So we decided to respond.

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New episodes every Monday. 

In this episode of the It’s Monday Podcast, we talk about why so many women feel unhappy in marriage and how resentment, unrealistic expectations, selfishness, criticism, and trying to “fix” your spouse can slowly damage a relationship over time.

We also discuss:

•  unhappy marriages 
•  resentment in marriage 
•  Christian marriage advice 
•  emotional connection 
•  marriage expectations 
•  relationship communication 
•  leadership in marriage 
•  selfishness in relationships 
•  healthy marriage habits 
•  finding joy in marriage 

We share honest conversations about marriage struggles, emotional needs, conflict, criticism, intimacy, unrealistic expectations, and the small adjustments that helped transform our relationship over the years.

If your marriage feels disconnected, exhausting, or full of resentment, this episode is for you.

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Weekly marriage encouragement, relationship conversations, practical resources, and behind-the-scenes updates from the It’s Monday Podcast.

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00:00 Why So Many Women Feel Unhappy In Marriage
 02:20 Unrealistic Expectations In Marriage
 05:40 Marriage Is A Garden
 08:20 Resentment & Emotional Distance
 11:20 “You Only See Their Faults”
 14:20 Leadership, Partnership & Direction
 16:40 “Women Can Be Hard To Please”
 18:10 “I Was Part Of The Problem”
 20:00 Your Spouse Is Not Your Project
 22:00 Obligations vs Opportunities
 23:20 Finding Joy In Marriage Again
 24:20 The Power Of Small Adjustments
 26:20 Greeting Your Spouse With Warmth
 27:40 Stop Trying To Fix Your Spouse
 29:00 Flirting In Marriage Matters

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In this episode of the It’s Monday Podcast, we talk about why some marriages keep repeating the same problems over and over again. We discuss behavior modification vs true transformation, passive husbands, exhausted wives, biblical order in marriage, forgiveness, resentment, healing, and what real change actually looks like in a relationship.

We also discuss:

•  repeated marriage problems 
•  forgiveness in marriage 
•  resentment and healing 
•  Christian marriage advice 
•  repentance and transformation 
•  passive husbands 
•  exhausted wives 
•  behavior modification 
•  marriage communication 
•  biblical marriage roles 

We share honest conversations about broken patterns in marriage, repeated wounds, leadership in the home, emotional healing, and how inviting God into your marriage changes the foundation completely.

If your marriage feels stuck in the same cycles, conversations, or wounds, this episode is for you.

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