This episode is all about reinvention! I’m joined by Shari Leid—a reinvention coach, author, podcast host, and friendship expert—who truly embodies the art of starting over. Her latest transformation began with an inspiring journey to all 50 states, where she connected with one woman in each state to learn and grow through their stories. That experience not only boosted her confidence but also gave her the clarity to make bold changes in her own life.

Shari reflects on her quest for belonging, the lessons she’s learned from her incredible conversations, and how those moments of connection sparked a profound shift. Now, she’s filed for divorce, met an amazing new partner, and is gearing up to launch a book based on her journey—all while embracing the endless possibilities ahead. She’s living proof that when one door closes, countless others open. Just trust the process.

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YouTube: Shari Leid

Instagram: @an_imperfectly_perfect_life

TikTok: @sharileid

Website: https://animperfectlyperfectlife.com/

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Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/RJMnBoPpYKA

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TIME CODES:

00:00 - Show Intro

03:08 - Shari Intro

03:57 - Journey of Self-Discovery

05:17 - What Feels Like Home?

11:07 - Imposter Syndrome is a Superpower

13:20 - Divorce in Your 50s

15:43 - Start Ugly + Trust The Process

18:55 - Finding the Encouragement to Keep Going

23:19 - Shari’s New Boo

30:46 - Who Is Shari Now?

31:52 - Outside of Work

35:27 - Creating A Life You Love

38:02 - The Steps to Reinvention

40:09 - How To Make Friends

43:49 - A Love Letter to Myself

48:57 - Shari Doesn’t Know Her Birthday

53:34 - Trying To Find Her Roots

57:09 - Shari’s Legacy

58:20 - We Are More Alike Than We Know