We all carry our own internal weather: sunshine, storms, calm, tension, joy, fear. And the people around us do too. Most of the conflict we experience doesn’t come from the weather itself. It comes from the moment we believe someone else’s mood has something to do with us.

Alan and Bilos explore the freedom that comes from recognising that other people’s emotional storms are theirs, not ours.

When you stop taking things personally, something opens. You stop reacting. You start listening. And what was once conflict becomes connection.

This episode is a simple, powerful reminder that emotional clarity isn’t about fixing anyone — it’s about seeing clearly. Because once you realise “this isn’t about me,” your whole body softens. Curiosity returns. Love becomes possible again.

This is an entry point into real empathy — not the kind that drains you, but the kind that frees you.

In This Episode:

• The “internal weather” metaphor and why it matters

• Why we react to other people’s moods

• The moment you stop taking things personally

• How empathy works when you’re not in the storm

• The freedom that comes from detaching kindly

• How to stay grounded when someone else is struggling

• The simple practice that quiets your reactions

Produced in partnership with http://www.podlad.com