It's Not Me, It's You

It's Not Me, It's You

By Frankie Endo OndoEducationSelf-Improvement
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It's Not Me, It's You episodes

  • Cupids Unleashed: The Art Of Setting Up Your Friends Ft. Saki Valdovinos

    In this episode, Frankie is joined by his best friend, Saki, and the tea is spilled like never before! They open up about their tight-knit friend group and share their unique perspectives on matchmaking. Tune in as Frankie and Saki discuss the ins and outs of setting friends up, offer valuable tips for successful matchmaking, and delve into some hilarious and heartwarming stories. Whether you're looking to play cupid for your friends or curious about the dos and don'ts of matchmaking, this episode is packed with insights and laughter you won't want to miss!


    This Weeks Codes

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    32 min
  • Dating Debunked: Myths, Mayhem, and Kinky Confessions With Rashad Kelly

    In this hilarious and unfiltered episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," Frankie is joined by the ever-entertaining Rashad Kelly. Together, they dive into the world of dating myths and the worst advice they've ever received. From debunking old wives' tales to sharing their own dating disasters, no topic is off-limits. And just when you think things can't get any juicier, Rashad drops a bombshell by revealing his secret bedroom kink. Join Frankie and Rashad for a rollercoaster of laughter, a sprinkle of shade, and surprisingly solid dating tips (once you get past the chaos). Don't miss this candid convo packed with humor, honesty, and a whole lot of fun!

    This Weeks Codes

    • Frankies Go-To Hangover Cure
    • ⁠The Plug Drink⁠ Use Code WTFWITHFRANKIE for 20% off your order.


      • Ready To Find Out Who's Worth Your Time & Who's Not?
      • ⁠Draw The Line The Game Of Dealbreakers & Red Flags ⁠Use the Code Heartbreaker for 10% off your order.


        • Ready To Safely Spice Up Your Sex Life?
        • ⁠Hey-Sense ⁠offering 15% off your order using the Code SenseFrankie.

          50 min
        • Dealbreakers, Red Flags & Bedroom Blues

          This week on "It's Not Me, It's You," Frankie flies solo and gets real about dealbreakers and red flags. Plus, in our new segment, Pillow Talk, he tackles listener mail about all things bedroom related. Get ready for some laughs as Frankie shares stories about threesomes, why Snapchat gets a big thumbs down, and the lowdown on posting your partner on social media.


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          This Weeks Codes

          • Frankies Go-To Hangover Cure
          • The Plug Drink Use Code WTFWITHFRANKIE for 20% off your order.


            • Ready To Find Out Who's Worth Your Time & Who's Not?
            • Draw The Line The Game Of Dealbreakers & Red Flags Use the Code Heartbreaker for 10% off your order.


              • Ready To Safely Spice Up Your Sex Life?
              • Hey-Sense offering 15% off your order using the Code SenseFrankie.

                37 min
              • Navigating Sober Dating: A Candid Conversation With Scott Parker

                In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's Your," presented by "Draw the Line: The Game of Dealbreakers & Red Flags," host Frankie Endo Ondo sits down with entrepreneur Scott Parker to delve into the world of dating while sober. Scott opens up about his journey to sobriety and the challenges he has faced in the dating scene. Frankie and Scott discuss the misconceptions surrounding sober dating, the importance of communication, and how being sober has influenced their approach to relationships. Scott shares his insights on how to navigate dating while sober, including tips for finding like-minded individuals and dealing with social situations. Join Frankie and Scott as they share their personal experiences and offer valuable advice for anyone navigating the world of dating while sober. Whether you're sober curious or a seasoned pro, this episode offers a refreshing perspective on finding love and connection without the influence of alcohol.

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                This Weeks Links 

                Ready To Find Out Who’s Worth Your Time and Who’s Not?  ⁠Draw The Line: The Game Of Dealbreakers & Red Flags. ⁠

                Frankie’s Go-To Hangover Cure 

                ⁠The Plug Drink⁠ Use Code WTFWITHFRANKIE for 20% Off your order. 

                Frankie’s Hosting Go-To 

                Sayso the first-ever cocktail & mocktail teabag 

                Click the link below to order yours. 

                •  ⁠Skinny Spicy Margarita ⁠

                •  ⁠Skinny Cardamom Paloma 

                • 47 min
                • Dating Like Your Business Depends On It

                  Join Frankie in the long-awaited return of "It's Not Me, It's You" after two years. In this episode, he unpacks the highlights of his 2023 dating adventures, sharing insights, lessons, and unexpected twists. Brace yourself for a candid discussion on the crucial aspects of picking yourself, setting boundaries, and making a stand against letting anyone walk all over you in matters of the heart. It's a triumphant comeback filled with wisdom and a renewed perspective on love.

                  This Weeks Links 

                  Ready To Find Out Who’s Worth Your Time and Who’s Not?  Draw The Line: The Game Of Dealbreakers & Red Flags. 

                  Frankie’s Go-To Hangover Cure 

                  The Plug Drink Use Code WTFWITHFRANKIE for 20% Off your order. 

                  Frankie’s Hosting Go-To 

                  Sayso the first-ever cocktail & mocktail teabag 

                  Click the link below to order yours. 

                  •  Skinny Spicy Margarita 

                  •  Skinny Cardamom Paloma 


                  • 28 min
                  • It’s Not Me .. It’s You
                    “It’s not me, It’s You” Presented by Draw The Line: The Game of Dealbreakers & Red Flags is an honest, raw and hilarious podcast about dating, sex and relationships, hosted by “reformed” serial dater and creator of Draw The Line: Frankie Endo Ondo. Join him and his various friends as they tackle the ups and downs of dating and give you the 4-1-1 on relationship topics ranging from exploring sexuality, dating again after a breakup, naughty bedroom kinks, and much more every Sunday at 12pm starting January 28th.
                    3 min

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                  “It’s not me, It’s You” Presented by Draw The Line: The Game of Dealbreakers and Red Flags is an honest, raw and hilarious podcast about dating, sex and relationships, hosted by “reformed” serial…