It's Not Your Fault

How did your Narcissist liked to be cared for? Hint: it has nothing to do with love languages.

They have their shit together. They are the life of the party. Their charisma and charm have you in a tail spin. We are talking grandiosity: exaggeration, big gestures, altruism; everything they do, they do in a big way, and everyone loves them for it.

Two more signs your partner may be gaslighting you are if (1) you have a sense that something is wrong but aren't able to identify what it is and (2) you make excuses for your partner's behavior. 

Gaslighting does not boil down to any one fight. It is the accumulation of all fights that sum up to your partner making you feel crazy. Chelsea and Emily begin this roller coaster with some of the signs to watch out for: (1) you no longer feel like the person you used to be, (2) you feel more anxious and less confident, (3) you often wonder if you're being too sensitive, (4) you feel like everything you do is wrong (i.e. your fault), and (5) you're apologizing often.

How you know you're not with the right person: Day One.

He's the perfect man... or is he? This is the story of how Chelsea met Jack.

"Narcissist" is often used loosely when describing someone's "bad" character traits. We're giving you the cold hard truth of the word and how, at the of the day, It's Not Your Fault.