The of having conversations is to learn to understand and know when to quite.  It's understood that as humans we at times think we have conquered the art of living life. Especially if we feel like we're successful in an area where another is not.  People don't need us preaching to them always. Everyone moves at there own pace in their own time.  If you have a piece of advice to offer, okay give it but at the same time, know when to speak your peace and SHUT UP!!!!