Shortly after graduating from NYU, Anya’s dad became seriously ill from what was expected to be a routine knee surgery. While her mom continued working to pay the bills, Anya stepped in as her father’s primary caretaker. Watching a loved one suffer took a toll on her well-being and forced her to grow up in a way that she says may not have been for the better.

“It’s really confusing to have to parent your parents.” —Anya

We’ll be the first to admit that we don't have it together (and we’d be willing to wager some part of you—if not all—feels the same way). Behind masterfully crafted facades are feelings of confusion, loneliness, anxiety, and inadequacy. We all feel like unqualified adults at times, but for some reason, we don't feel comfortable talking about the unexpected challenges associated with this period of life. We hope that by sharing peoples’ stories about their unqualified feelings you are reminded that you're in good company.

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“It’s really confusing to have to parent your parents.” —Anya

“It’s really confusing to have to parent your parents.” —Anya