THIS IS A POWERFUL PART 2 TO YESTERDAY’S CONVERSATION ABOUT INSECURITIES — AND TODAY, WE’RE TAKING IT EVEN DEEPER. IN THIS EPISODE, I’M BREAKING DOWN HOW TO ACTUALLY TACKLE INSECURITY AND START OVERCOMING IT FOR GOOD. IF YOU’VE EVER FELT LIKE YOU’RE NOT GOOD ENOUGH, PRETTY ENOUGH, SMART ENOUGH, OR JUST NEVER ENOUGH — THIS IS FOR YOU. WE’LL TALK ABOUT WHERE INSECURITY REALLY COMES FROM, HOW TO START HEALING THOSE ROOTS, AND HOW TO BUILD BACK YOUR SELF-WORTH WITH TRUTH, LOVE, AND CONFIDENCE. THIS EPISODE ISN’T JUST A VIBE — IT’S A STEP TOWARD YOUR HEALING. LISTEN, TAKE IT IN, AND REMEMBER: YOU DESERVE TO FEEL SECURE, WHOLE, AND WORTHY JUST AS YOU ARE.

WE DON’T TALK ENOUGH ABOUT THE INSECURITIES WE CARRY IN SILENCE.

THE ONES THAT SHOW UP WHEN WE SCROLL…

WHEN WE LOOK IN THE MIRROR…

WHEN WE WALK INTO ROOMS AND ASK OURSELVES,

“AM I ENOUGH?”

THIS EPISODE ISN’T ABOUT FIXING YOURSELF.

IT’S ABOUT GETTING HONEST ABOUT THE QUIET THOUGHTS

WE TRY TO HIDE.

THE ONES THAT WHISPER:

“YOU’RE NOT PRETTY ENOUGH.”

“YOU’RE NOT SMART ENOUGH.”

“YOU’RE NOT DOING ENOUGH.”

BUT HERE’S THE TRUTH:

YOU ARE NOT YOUR INSECURITY.

YOU ARE NOT LESS BECAUSE YOU DOUBT YOURSELF.

YOU ARE STILL WORTHY.

YOU ARE STILL POWERFUL.

YOU ARE STILL GROWING.

IN THIS EPISODE, I’M SHARING MY HEART

AND OPENING UP ABOUT THE PARTS OF MYSELF

I’M STILL LEARNING TO LOVE.

IF YOU’VE EVER HELD YOURSELF BACK

BECAUSE OF FEAR, COMPARISON, OR SELF-DOUBT…

THIS ONE IS FOR YOU.

TAKE A DEEP BREATH.

PRESS PLAY.

YOU’RE NOT ALONE HERE.

LISTEN NOW ON SPOTIFY, APPLE PODCASTS AND MORE

@ITS_THAT_GIRLPEARLS.

Soft life is everywhere right now.

The candles.

The calm mornings.

The peace.

The boundaries.

It’s a whole vibe — and honestly, I love it.

But let’s be real…

Working hard?

That’s still part of the story.

Success doesn’t just fall into your lap.

You have to find what you’re good at,

show up for it,

and keep going — even when it’s exhausting.

So here’s the tension:

Can we actually live softly and still chase the life we want?

Or are we lying to ourselves?

In this episode, I’m opening up about my relationship with hustle culture,

what soft life really means to me,

and how I’m learning to find balance — without guilt, without pressure.

This isn’t about sitting at home doing nothing.

This is about working with purpose,

without losing your peace.

It’s about choosing yourself,

even while you’re building something bigger.

I want the success.

I want the peace.

I’m choosing both.

If you’ve been trying to find that balance too…

This episode is for you.

Take a deep breath.

Press play.

And let’s talk.

EVERYONE’S IN THEIR SOFT GIRL ERA…

OR AT LEAST, THAT’S WHAT SOCIAL MEDIA SAYS.

BUT WHAT DOES IT ACTUALLY LOOK LIKE

TO LIVE A SOFT LIFE —

WHEN YOU’RE HEALING,

SETTING BOUNDARIES,

AND TRYING TO PROTECT YOUR PEACE?

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IN THIS EPISODE, I GET REAL ABOUT

WHAT “SOFT GIRL SEASON” MEANS TO ME

BEYOND THE AESTHETICS.

IT’S NOT ALWAYS CANDLES AND CALM —

SOMETIMES IT’S CRYING,

DETACHING,

RESTING,

AND LEARNING TO SAY NO.

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💛 IF YOU’RE NAVIGATING YOUR HEALING ERA

AND STILL SHOWING UP FOR YOURSELF,

THIS ONE’S FOR YOU.

🎧 LISTEN NOW AND TAKE A BREATH —

YOU’RE NOT ALONE.

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#SOFTGIRLSEASON

#HEALINGINPROGRESS

#ITS_THAT_GIRLPEARLS

This debut episode of its_that_girlpearls, I get real about life — the pain, the pressure, the purpose, and everything in between.

I talk about how hard life can feel, especially when you’re trying to heal, grow, and stay confident through heartbreak, depression, and self-doubt. I also ask the big question: Who am I outside of life’s struggles?

This is a reminder to every girl and guy out there — you are enough. You’re not your past. You’re not your mistakes. You are becoming who you’re meant to be.

If you’ve ever felt lost, stuck, or like life is against you — press play.

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