itsoKHAY

Season 2, Episode 1: I Had a Plan… Life Did Too 😮‍💨

GIRLLLLL… where do I even begin?! 🤣

I had a whole plan for my summer. Finish my devotional, get my businesses moving, prepare for Season Two, and come back like I never left.

But baby… LIFE had other plans!

Four kids, two and a half weeks at work together, unexpected detours, grief, relationships, and a whole lot of moments that reminded me I am NOT in control of everything. 😮‍💨

In this season premiere, we’re catching up on what life has looked like behind the scenes. From motherhood and mental exhaustion to learning when to rest, releasing what no longer serves me, and figuring out what Kchloe actually wants outside of everybody else’s expectations.

Because sometimes the plan changes, not because you’ve failed, but because life is teaching you something along the way.

Season Two is here, and we’re having real conversations about the messy, funny, uncomfortable, and beautiful parts of becoming.

Real. Relatable. Still Rooted.

Welcome back to itsoKHAY. 💜

Life is messy, but it’s okay… and so are you.

And your chaos? Baby, it’s still allowed to be beautiful. ✨

Season Two is here🤎

Life kept life-ing, plans changed, and somewhere in the middle of all the chaos… I changed too.

Before we get into everything we need to catch up on, I asked some of the people closest to me to tell me how they see Khay—the growth, the mess, the heart, and everything in between. And whew… hearing myself through the people who know me hit a little different.

This season, we’re going deeper. More stories. More honesty. More laughter. More of the conversations we usually have behind closed doors.

Real. Relatable. Still Rooted.

Whew… I’m back, y’all. And we got some catching up to do🎙️

Season Two of itsoKHAY begins October 8.

Life is messy… but that’s okay. And so are you🤎

🎙️ Episode 8: itsoKHAY to Be Becoming

Season one finale. 🤍

In this episode, Khay reflects on the heartbreak, healing, motherhood, rebuilding, emotional growth, and life changes that shaped not only this season… but the woman she’s becoming.

This conversation is for anybody who has ever felt behind, lost, emotionally exhausted, or ashamed of still being a work in progress.

Because healing isn’t always pretty.
 Sometimes becoming looks like crying, rebuilding, forgiving slowly, starting over, and still choosing to keep going anyway.

From grieving old versions of yourself… to learning how to give yourself grace while you grow… this episode is a reminder that you do not have to have everything figured out to be worthy of peace, growth, or purpose.

Maybe you’re not behind.
 Maybe you’re not broken.

Maybe…

you’re becoming. 🤍

✨ Real talk. Real healing. Real Khay.

#itsoKHAY #SeasonOneFinale #Becoming

Starting over sounds inspiring… until you actually gotta do it.

In this episode, Khay gets real about heartbreak, betrayal, public mistakes, emotional exhaustion, and what it means to rebuild your life after seasons that almost broke you.

This isn’t a conversation about pretending to be perfect. It’s about accountability, healing, motherhood, emotional growth, and learning how to move differently when life changes you.

From rebuilding confidence… to learning that every feeling doesn’t deserve a reaction… this episode is for anybody trying to find themselves again after disappointment, pain, or emotional burnout.

Because sometimes starting over isn’t failure…
 sometimes it’s the first sign that your life is finally changing.

✨ Real talk. Real growth. Real Khay.

#itsoKHAY #HealingOutLoud #GrowthSeason

Giving yourself space…sounds good in theory until you’re the one actually living it.

In this episode of itsoKHAY, I’m talking about what it really looks like to step back and give yourself space when life feels unclear, emotions are high, and you’re trying not to make decisions from hurt, pressure, or confusion.

This conversation is personal for me.

As a mother, a business owner, and someone still learning in real time… I’ve had to realize that not every feeling deserves a reaction, and not every moment requires an immediate answer.

Sometimes space isn’t about giving up…sometimes it’s about protecting your peace, your future, and the people connected to you.

This episode is for anybody trying to slow down long enough to hear themselves again.🤍

Trusting yourself again…

Yeah… this one right here?
 It’s not easy.

In this episode of itsoKHAY, I’m being real about what it feels like to try to trust yourself again after you’ve ignored your own voice, second guessed your feelings, and questioned your decisions.

This isn’t a “I got it all figured out” episode…

This is a “I’m still learning” episode.

Because the truth is…
 when you’ve spent so much time talking yourself out of what you felt, it’s hard to know what to trust anymore.

And if I’m being honest?

I stopped trusting me…
 and I’m learning how to find my way back.

This episode is for anybody who feels out of place, unsure, or disconnected from themselves right now.

You’re not off track.

You’re just learning yourself again…
 with everything you’ve been through.

🤍

Waiting…

Yeah… this part right here?
 This the part nobody likes.

In this episode of itsoKHAY, I’m talking about what it really feels like to be in a waiting season — when you know you can’t go back, but you’re also not ready to move forward.

That in-between space where everything feels quiet…
 where you start questioning yourself…
 and where it’s tempting to either go back to what’s familiar or rush into something new just to fill the void.

But hear me good na…

Just because it’s quiet doesn’t mean nothing is happening.

Sometimes God will sit you in a place where nothing seems to be moving — not to punish you, but to protect you. To keep you from going backwards… and from moving too fast.

This episode is for the ones learning how to sit still…
 trust the process…
 and grow in the waiting.

Because you’re not stuck…

You’re being prepared.

🤍

Outgrowing people isn’t always loud.

Sometimes there’s no argument… no fallout… no clear ending.

Just distance… and the quiet realization that you’re not the same person anymore.

In this episode, Khay gets real about what it looks like to outgrow relationships, friendships, and environments that once felt like home. From questioning yourself to being labeled as the one who “changed,” this conversation is a reminder that growth isn’t betrayal—it’s evolution.

If you’ve ever felt misunderstood, disconnected, or guilty for choosing peace over familiarity… this one is for you.

Because everybody can’t go with you…

and that doesn’t make you wrong.

It just means you’re growing.

You ever been smiling…

and nobody knew you were breaking inside?

Showing up…

doing what you gotta do…

being “strong” for everybody else…

…but deep down?

You’re tired.

In this episode, Khay opens up about the mask so many of us wear —

the “I’m fine,”

the pressure to hold it all together,

and the silent weight of pretending.

From looking put together on the outside

to breaking down in private moments…

this is a real conversation about what it means to finally be honest with yourself.

Because truth is…

you can’t heal what you keep hiding.

 In this episode, we talk about:

• What “the mask” really looks like in everyday life
• How pretending to be okay can become your normal
• The quiet moments where everything finally hits
• Why healing requires honesty, not perfection
• Small, real steps to start taking off the mask

If you’ve been carrying it all alone…

this episode is your reminder:

You don’t have to.

It’s okay to not be okay.

It’s okay to be soft.

It’s okay to show up as YOU.

Because life is messy…

but it’s okay…

and so are you.

In this episode, I open up about what it really looks like to not have everything together — and how learning to embrace that has been part of my healing journey. This is a space for honesty, growth, and beginning again.